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OBSESSED!!!!!!!!
My ex is obsessive and I want to him to go far far away. I've told him "no contact," he just doesn't listen. How do I make him go away?
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Completely cut him off. He calls, you don't answer. He texts you, no response. He says something to you act like he was never there. Short of obtaining a restraining order (and that will only be accorded for real harassment), this is all you can do.
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I know EXACTLY how you feel.
You need to block him on every website you're on [of you're on any] and take his number off your phone [if you havent already] then call your phone company and actually block his number so he cannot call you or text you.
You also have to ignore him and do your best to avoid him at all costs. If you don't give him attention, he will eventually give up, but if he doesnt and its getting really bad to the point where you're afraid or paranoid that hes always around, then contact the police and get a restraining order.
Threatening your ex with a restrainging order won't do anything, it will most likely just make him more determined to call your bluff and he'll get more obsessive.
I know this isn't a simple and fast solution, but eventually, he'll go away.. and hopefully he finds another girl to take his mind off of you.
hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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How obsessive are we talking? If it starts getting scary, you might want to contact your local authorities or get a restraining order.
I'm not sure how old you are, but at whatever age I would suggest telling other people. Parents, friends, anyone that can maybe have a conversation with your ex to tell him to back off. Asking a friend of his to talk to him about it isn't a bad idea either.
If it's just a teenage relationship where he keeps contacting you because he wants to get back together, don't worry so much. Just keep ignoring him and eventually he will get a hint and leave you alone.
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