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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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What are the affects of taking the Morning after pill too late?

well then it wont be affective which means you have the 50/50 chance of getting prgenant.

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wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts?

lylas means Love ya like a sister. and for the hearts you could make them like

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do woman get breast cancer fom swallowing sperm

wtf? haha! damned if i know.


i have never heard of anything like that before. but hey who knows, now a days everything causes some sort of cancer. but if it does, then over 90 some % of women will get or already have breast cancer.

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I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.

thanks.

California Tan is some good lotion. but banna boat is also o.k. try that.

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I have really straight dark brown hair..When I blow dry my hair i have little fly aways.. so I straighten it a little... so then my hair is even straighter then what it normally is... But.. I would love to have like wavy curly hair.. is there any products i could use to make this happen without having to get a perm or doing something that will make it that way forever?

get some gel and put it on your wet hair, blow dry it while you are scrunching it. put more gel on when its dry and srcunch some more. use the hair dryer to dry the gel. if your hair dryer has a difusser attachment, use it. if not, then dont worry about it. its not necessary to have it. it just helps a little. but your hair will still scrunch. let me know if ya need any more help.
Also, if you dry it upside down with your head flipped over (down)it will give it a fuller look.

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Alright, my mom is taking me shopping soon, and I was wondering if any girls know maybe where some really good shirts described as these:

1.Long sleeved shirts that are sort of plainish, vintagish.
2.Tommy Hilfigure brand shirts
3.Mainly shirts that are very nice, and has hardley anything on it, and maybe a few idea on where to get a huge choice of jeans

This would be very helpful, high ratings given to those who list.

shirts-
- kohl's
- JC Penney
- Rave
- Dots
- Rainbow
- Forever 21
- American Eagle
- TJ Maxx (for some t.h. stuff)
-etc. if you need more, let me know.

Jeans-
- American Eagle
- Old Navy
- Hollister
- Kohl's
- Abercrombie & Fitch
- Any dept store
- Walmart
- K mart
- Gabes
- etc. if ya need more let me know.

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Does anyone know any spells for friendship? Simple ones..PLEASE. I'm on a budget AND hwere I live it's hhard to get hold of stuff. Please help me. I need to do it while the moon is Waxing.only 3 more days. THANKS:

haha... what?
now thats funny.

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well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?

are you ready for more heart ache to come your way? if you think you can handle another break up with her and you know you'll be happy and that it will all be worth it in the end, then yes. if you dont think it is worth it and you dont want any more pain from her, then no. its up to you to decide what is best.

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2day in like 5 hours @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her (well i did...but i didnt actually do it yet i think i mite have hinted...i asked her if she still liked him and she said no not really just as friends)
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh

well if she doesnt like him like that anymore, then thats your cue to move in. take over and take control. if you like him then dont dont keep it to yourself. you owe it to yourself and to him to let him know. you already hinted to her so yu have done enough. she doesnt like him so she should be fine. she will find out when you are togethr and when he does. i dont know how you can signal it exactly because i dont know what kind of person you are. so i dont know how you will want to tell them without using words. words would prolly be the best way but its your choice. well by flirting you can do the usual flirty things you do, you can switch them around a bit and make him run after you, try to hold his hand and then stop and run or soemthing, i dint know. i dont know you so its hard to say because idont know how you act or anything. maybe when you two are alone together and your one friend is not around, give him like a little flirty type of kiss. (using tongue is up to you-- if you wish to then great, if not thats fine also). you could just give him a peck and then after that lean in for the real kiss.

i dunno. this isnt the best advice but hope it helps. and let me know how things go. good luck and have fun!

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If I told you I was almost 15, and my boyfriend was almost 17, and that we want to get married, and have been together for over a year, and we're best friends, what would you say?

i would say... hahahahahaha!
what are you thinking of? there is no way you two are ready for marriage. your only 14 and 16. thats definately to young to even consider it. haha. you two will go off to college and maybe your own separate ways, your gonna party, get trashed and do things that you wil regret and thing will end between the two of you. that is the likely story. if you two dont break up in high school then it will def. happen in college. trust me this little relationship wont last a lifetime.


EDIT: haha... ok. and my name is not "missy". so w/e. and thats right we will see. and when it doenst last, just remember that i was the one that said i told you so!!

2nd EDIT: bitch, i wish you would make up your mind. wtf. quit changing what your doing, its affecting my column. asshole! grow up you dumb whore!

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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

wtf... to all these people saying yes it is possible and to wait and see if your period comes in a few day and if not then go get a pregnancy test... well you are all dumbasses full of shit. you cant get pregnant from anal sex.

thats one of the dumbest questions i have ever heard. and those are some fucked up answers that people gave also.

hahahaha

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my mom has been really stressed. she was suppoesd to pick me up after school yesterday and she was late. no biggie, right? but later she admitted she's forgotten about me. i'd like to help relieve some of her stress. any ideas?

do some things around the house to give her some time to herself to relax. you could cook dinner, do the dishes, do some laundry, take care and look after your brother(s) and/or sister(s) if you have any. you could also dust and polish furniture, sweep the carpets, etc...

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dude, iim flippn in love with this guy... hes 19, and im 13.. but hes rele hot.. he asked if i would do him but it just wasnt the right time..........and he said hi.... and i said hi and thats how it started. o yeah and he has a girlfriend.. but he doesnt like her so its ok. but all my friends tell me that i cant hang out with them if i do the hot guy while i still have a boyfriend... but i need a boyfriend at all times, its my mom`s rule. my mom had sex with my teacher and now things are rele akward... but ne ways. i like him.. should i dump my boyfriend?

you can grow up. wtf kind of question is that? if he is that desparate that he needs t get a 13 year old girl to satisfy him at teh age of 19, then he got problems. thats just retarded. and your not "flippin in love" with him.

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i have to admit it: i am addicted. addicted to something i could not live without since the day my sister gave it to me. i'm only 13 and i'm already addicted to something. i've seen what it does to people to be totally obsessed with something, but with me, it was so easy to get obsessed with... SOUR STUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if there's something sour around, I ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE IT!!! call me crazy (everyone else does!), but i am obsessed! while all my friends make weird faces when they take a lick of those warheads extreme stuff, i add lemon juice to make it more sour. i'm never satisfied! i even drink entire galssfuls of PURE lemon juice (nothing else added). i'm known for being really hyper as it is (i also have a laughing problem) and with all that sugar in sour candy... some kids are starting to joke around saying that i'm getting high. it's kind of funny but i honestly think that this could turn into a real problem. PLEASE HELP? don't say there's nothing wrong with this, because you have never seen me with sour candy within 50 feet away! and DONT tell me to give it up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


- Sour Psycho

wtf?
what are you smoking, snorting, shooting?
what drugs are you on??

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ok, so ive been going out with this guy for a month. the thing is i think he likes me more than i like him. im only 14, this is the most serious relationship ive ever had, and when we kiss and stuff he says im the most amazing girl in the world and regularly texts me to tell me the same type of thing. he says spending time with me is the best thing ever, and he says his life would be pointless without me. which is great, if i felt the same way. dont get me wrong, i do really really like him, but he doesnt make me feel the same way as he says i make him feel. he's an amazing guy, he really is, he's sweet and funny and really kind but he's just not... the best looking guy in the world! i know that shouldnt make a difference, and its not like he's really ugly or anything, but am i being selfish by still going out with him even though i dont like him as much as he likes me? i dont want to break up with him because i love being in a relationship and i love the attention. i know that makes me sound like a really horrable person, but im not honest. im just a bit confused. help please.

well first off, it seems like he has a great personality. and and yes you seem very selfish about the whole thing. look at what you wrote: "he's an amazing guy, he really is, he's sweet and funny and really kind but he's just not... the best looking guy in the world!" looks arent everything. and thats what it seems like you are into more then anything. if thats the main reason you dont want to be with him, then he doesnt deserve you. but if you just dont like him and dont have feelings for him, then yes you should break up with him. if youdont you are only leading him on. either way you are leading him on so either way you should end it with him. you have to break up sooner or later. yeshe will be hurt, but if you dont do it sooner, rather than later, you will only hurt him more. the longer you wait the more hurt it will cause him.
but like i said, if your doing it b/c of looks- he doesnt deserve someone like you so end it. if your doing it because you just dont like him all together-end it soon, dont lead him on anymore.

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What do people think of a guy getting there ears pierced? IM not talking the lobe im talking the cartilage

i think it looks hot on some guys and others it is like no big deal. you should get it done!

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I love to draw but the only problem is that I never know what to draw.I need some ideas on what I can draw!And if you name something that is very colorful and takes a while to color than I will rate you a perfect five!!!

draw like some made up fantasy place, a theme of something you like, a place that you have been to or would like to go to someday, like disney, paris, the beach. For disney draw like cinderella's castle or your favorite disney characters. draw some of your favorite cartoon characters.(like carebears, scooby, taz, tweety, tom & jerry. or the little ponies from My Little Pony). a landscape, a mountain, anything that would interest you.

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Everyday when I get home I am like sooo totally bored and I hate it!Anyone who gives me atles=ast two ideas of what I can do when I get home will get rated a five!!!

watch tv, listen to the radio, go outside, jog, walk, run, ride a bike, skate, call up some friends to hang out with, play some type of sport, shoot some hoops, walk yur dog(if you have one), play video games, go on the internet and play games or chat with people, etc...

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I need really urgent help!!!!!!!

I was going on a website that if my parents find out about I wil be dead so how do I delete the name of the website out of the websites that have been visited lately?

Any help will earn you a five because it willl be greatly appreciated!!!

go to your desktop and right click on your internet explorer icon. then click "properties". it will bring up a box and then you click "delete files" when that is done click "delete cookies" and then after that has finsihed click "clear history". and after that, you can also go to "my Computer" in your start menu, click "windows" and then go to "settings" and then go to "history" and then delete your history folders. if you have troubles finding or doing any of this, drop one in my inbox and i will help ya out some more.

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I like to sing. But when i am in a group with people for chorus i don't sing. I think i am singing but i'm not. My music teacher is getting mad at me. I try really hard to sing. I quit chorus but now i still have music periods. I can't quit. Did i make the right decision?

no. if you like singing, then why would you drop out of chorus. it doesnt matter if you dont like singing in a group if people, that is what chorus is. plus if you talk to the teacher and tell her about that problem, she will or would of worked with you, to help you out.

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