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Question Posted Wednesday February 16 2005, 8:15 pm

dude, iim flippn in love with this guy... hes 19, and im 13.. but hes rele hot.. he asked if i would do him but it just wasnt the right time..........and he said hi.... and i said hi and thats how it started. o yeah and he has a girlfriend.. but he doesnt like her so its ok. but all my friends tell me that i cant hang out with them if i do the hot guy while i still have a boyfriend... but i need a boyfriend at all times, its my mom`s rule. my mom had sex with my teacher and now things are rele akward... but ne ways. i like him.. should i dump my boyfriend?

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lilAlziBabez answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:26 pm:
okay listen to me i think you should keep you zipper up and stop talkin to this guy bcuz he is 19 and you are 13 that is illegal! he has a girlfriend and he tells you he dont like her but that might be a lie. just stick with the middle school boys and have a ball with them. this guy might but hott and all and he might feel rite but umm i dont think hes rite because he might just want to get in your pants not your heart.

hope i was help


allie

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MeganKristine answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:07 pm:
Hun. Think about the law? Do you want him to go to jail? You're 13, he is 19. You have three more years untill you're legal. You'll get him in trouble.

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mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:03 pm:
you can grow up. wtf kind of question is that? if he is that desparate that he needs t get a 13 year old girl to satisfy him at teh age of 19, then he got problems. thats just retarded. and your not "flippin in love" with him.

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lildiamyn_69 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:01 pm:
You should most definitely NOT dump your boyfriend for this new guy:O
Not to be rude, but I don't like the way he sounds. He asked you to do him.... I think he's only after one thing. Even though you do have a lot of feelings for him, he's way too old(he could go to jail) and not to sound mother-ish, but he has too much going against him: he already asked you to do him, he has a girlfriend, and if he's messin with you, he's cheating on her, so imagine what he would do to you!
Now... about your friends, I think they're trying to do you a favor not because they're jealous, but they don't wanna see you get hurt! Listen to them!:D
About your mom's rule: you DON'T need a guy in your life at all times. Guys can be a heartache and a handful most of the time, and there's better things besides them. Trust me!:) So, don't dump your boyfriend. Dump that older guy, and try to get over him. Or you can just be friends. Just don't do him. But, if you do anyway, protect yourself.
So I hope that I helped you out any:) and if I offended you in ANY way, I'm sorry:( But I just don't want you to go through what I did with an older guy.
*Diamyn*

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Here2HelpU answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:58 pm:
if you do end up dating this guy and he dumps his girlfriend and you dump your boyfriend... this girl is going to be very mad and probably challenge you to a fight so BE CAREFUL! plus you are 13 and he is 19.... thats a 6 year difference and it is illigal... trust me... i am almost 16 and i dates a 23 year old and it just doesnt work... youll date him for a while fall for him and most likely he will find someone older.... i cant say what hes thinking but anyone that old that goes for someone that young is mostly only in it for sex... and trust me if you end up getting pregnant by his kid after having sex with him... he will most liekly not be there for you... and you are much to young to be doing things like that with people that old... but if you do decide tog og ahead and do it then its your choice... the only advice i can give you then is be careful because you may end up getting hurt really bad! i hope i helped.

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CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:37 pm:
Umm...this is the most sluttyest question ever asked. YOUR MOM SLEPT WITH YOUR TEACHER? YOU WOULD DO A 19 YEAR OLD WHILE YOUR 13? Before you start worrying about whether you should break up with your boyfriend, fix your self.

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xoxMayjoNxox answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:33 pm:
Okay.. well first of all.. he has a girlfriend.. and you have a boyfriend. If you two went out.. aint that rape? Cant you see that all he wants from you is sex? Dont be easy.. Stick with ur boyfriend you have now

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shake answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:30 pm:
Well you're underaged to begin with. Its illegal to date someone older than 18. Also judging by you Grammar and writing skills I dont think you're ready to go out with someone that much more mature than you are.

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