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Am I being oversensitive
I have known my best freind for about 4 years, and we are super close we never used to fight and always agreeded on things. Now I feel like shes leaving me out purposley, and I feel like I wait all day for her to call to do somthing, and I'll do whatever she wants as long as i want to also. But whenever i cant go right at that second she ditches me. Now the littlest things get us in fights and i get mad at her for stupid things. I know that its stupid, but am I just being oversensitive in thinking shes leaving me out?
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She is kinda leaving you out, but don't blame her for it, talk to her about it. People naturally drift apart over time as they mature; it's pretty much a fact of life, fighting to keep something that just doesn't come naturally isn't going to work.
You can still be friends, and you should aim for that, but it's not likely you'll do everything together like you used to. Try to get close to someone else, but don't ignore this friend, just make things a bit more casual.
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I dont think so at all, maybe you should sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her that it upsets you whenever she does those things...i hope i helped!
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You are not being oversensitive...but is she really leaving you out, or do you just feel like she is? If you know she is, just talk to her about it without fighting
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Heck yea shes leaving you out. She shouldnt ditch you she should be a good friend and wait for you to come wherever. As people get older they become more independent but like 4 years ago you guys probably didnt fight because you were too yhoung to understand what a real friendship is. You deff. need to talk to your friend about your feelings. If she doenst give a s*it ditch her and if she does stick around a lil longer to see if she treats you better. Good Luck Hun.
~Brina~
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You're oversensitive.
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My Best Friend And I had The Same Problem!! She was ditching Me For another Friend in like 4th grade!! We Became Best Friends again but it never was "quite" the same!! But It's Nice To Know She's Still there For me and always there when i wanna hang out! So what i say is, give her time! Hope I helped!
º~Ashley~º
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