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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2day in like 5 hours @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)
1- should i tell her (well i did...but i didnt actually do it yet i think i mite have hinted...i asked her if she still liked him and she said no not really just as friends)
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh
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well if she doesnt like him like that anymore, then thats your cue to move in. take over and take control. if you like him then dont dont keep it to yourself. you owe it to yourself and to him to let him know. you already hinted to her so yu have done enough. she doesnt like him so she should be fine. she will find out when you are togethr and when he does. i dont know how you can signal it exactly because i dont know what kind of person you are. so i dont know how you will want to tell them without using words. words would prolly be the best way but its your choice. well by flirting you can do the usual flirty things you do, you can switch them around a bit and make him run after you, try to hold his hand and then stop and run or soemthing, i dint know. i dont know you so its hard to say because idont know how you act or anything. maybe when you two are alone together and your one friend is not around, give him like a little flirty type of kiss. (using tongue is up to you-- if you wish to then great, if not thats fine also). you could just give him a peck and then after that lean in for the real kiss.
i dunno. this isnt the best advice but hope it helps. and let me know how things go. good luck and have fun!
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