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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
and soccer.
and my boyfreind.
people tell me im good at giving advice.
so i joined this page.

ask any questons you have. cuz i will answer.
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E-mail: karlyndarlin05@hotmail.com
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Location: MIchigan
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Age: 23
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ok. well i have stage fright rly bad. i freak out when i have to talk in front of my class of 23 people or less. i got accepted to be on a team at school. well we have to perform in front of hundreds of people at football games and pep rallies. im really scared. how can i get over this?? (link)
I used to have that problem too.
its hard to get over.
you just have to work at it.
most people already know who you are and they arent going to think anything less of you if you are some where performing. The best way is to just learn how to not care what people think, because after all, that is what most people's stage fright is based on.



Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
well heres the deal. your 13 and hes 15. not much you cant do about marriage currently.
keep dating or whatever you are doing with him and if things stay the same until you are out of highschool...then go for it.
but who wants to start a family and get married in highschool?




now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne? (link)
my boyfriend has acne all over his face. and hes the greatest person in my life and i love him very much.

soo umm nope.

if people are decent hearted and really care about the person it doesnt matter.

to the person with acne...its not thier fault and they shouldnt be embarssed and it will most likely go awya within the next few years.


okay..
last year, i was a freshman, and this kid was a junior. we talked a lot and started to like him, but i knew nothing could happen. we stopped talking for a little over a year. now im a sophomore and he's a senior. we we started talking again last week. there are 15 school days left. and i think i like him again. he's leaving for college in the fall. and i probably won't seem for 5 years or so. what do i do. i highlu doubt he thinks of me in the way i think of him. but i'm not sure. what do i do? (link)
OK. well you might not my answer, but it will work i promise. Just talk to him. Its that simple. SO he's going off to college after summer. If you really like him a lot and he likes you a lot, why not try and have a summer long realationship. If things go good from there...keep talking while he's at college, have fun while your still in highschool, and see how things go after hes done with college.

but first things first. find out what he thinks of you and the idea of you and him being an "us"


Hey everyone,
I am having a party Saturday night & I was just wandering if anyone had a good recipe for making jello shots.
Thanks! (link)
well i dont know any good recipies myself.
the ones under me are good.

but some of the most popular flavors are
apple, strawberry and cherry.
but just keep in mind what tastes best with what


Why is sex a sin? I know that its not a sin if your jewish, so why is it when your cathlic? (link)
when your catholic it isnt really a sin...unless you do it beofre your married.
soo just get married already. lol



ok. so i've been dating this amazing guy for about a year and a half. it was always off and on though. (me always breaking up w. him) but then getting back together within a few hours.
it was just something we did.
well a couple months ago, i broke up w. him again just to focus a bit more on school, then he just started being a jerk to me.
i miss him terribly and he wont come back to me like he used to. he's been incredibly mean to me, calling me names, saying im ugly, and even smacking me across the fae a few times. just destroying my confidence.
and i got an eating disorder and was even suicidal. lets just thank god for friends =)
but i jsut want to find a way to get over this.
i've tried dating other people but nothing seems to work.
help!!!!
=/ (link)
welll.
if any guy treats you like he did, no matter what you had done to him in the past he doesnt deserve you, and you dont seserve to be treated like that. As far as getting over him...the only thing i can say is, time heals. But, hanging out with freinds, going shopping, and doing any other things that are fun will keep your mind off of him. Who knows, maybe you'll even find another guy that you like even more. You just have to being willing to let someone new into your life. Thats always the hardest thing for me coming out of a long term realtionship. Just start off with a clean slate and go out and have fun.

I hope this helps.
let me know if you need anything else.
:]


how do i delete the websites that come up when i click the down arrow? like if i have been the www.advicenators.com ....and if i click the down arrow than the website will be down there...how do i delete it? (link)


you go to the top bar...
-tools
-internet options.

then you click clear history.

and theerrre ya go.




you know that song that goes ..."boy i really like what you've done to me i can't really explain it..im so into you" yeahh well whats the name/artist of the song ?
thanks (link)
"so into you" by tamia.


and for furture reference....just go to google.
then but the words that you know in quotes (" ")
normally the song shoul come up.




Im thirteen and I have babysat my younger sister and some kids down the street once, also my cousin who is four but i dont see her much. Anyways, I have given out flyers and stuff about a hundred times and noone will respond and noone will let me babysit. It s not like im a bad sitter or anything because ive only babysat those kids down the street and they had alot of fun and nothing went wrong. I dont get allowance and I cant get a job for a couple more years. I petsit but very rarely, and I dont have any money at all except for whats in the bank and Im saving that for college. Does anyone have ideas for jobs I could do or ways I can advertise my babysitting more?
Thanks! (link)
No offense to the younger kids like you...but parents tend to like the older babysitters. people who a. have more expeiecne and b. who can drive.

also...have you taken the red cross babysitting class? that helps parents want you to babysitt...it gives them more confidence that you know what youre doing.


im looking for that buddy tracker i see in some peoples profiles. is it buddytracker.com? because i tried going there and there wasnt anything. where can i find it? (link)
here you go :)


http://buddytracker.us/


thats the website.


I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a month and a half. He's only a year younger than me but since my birthday is at the start of the month (JAN 06) and his is at the end (NOV 24)it sounds like a bigger age gap (I'm 17 and he's still 15) I really love him and I know he cares about me. But theres this voice in the back of my head telling me its all wrong. Please help me I don't know what to do.
PS I rate really high (link)
Dont worry about it. I'm 15 and my boyfreind is 17 my birthday is in August...so it's going to be a while for me. It really doesnt matter. If you love him enough you wont let a silly little thing like age get in the way. And also...just think well he has a later birthday than you...so what? he will be 16 by the end of the year and then it wont sound so bad.

but until then i think it would be a good idea to just not let age get in the way and have fun!
:)

xo


16/f.im getting my braces off in a couple weeks. anything i should expect or be prepared for? (link)
it doesnt hurt that much. it doesnt hurt at all if you dont have sensitive teeth.

the braquets come like nothing. the only thing for me (i have verrrry sensitve teeth) was when they had to like scratch off the glue off. that kind of hurts. but not that much.

your teeth might ache a little bit like the next day or something...but not likely.

have fun eating everything thing again!

xo


Tomorow I have an early morning practice for volleyball, and you have to shower afterwards. Well, I'm on my period, and I'm not yet comfortable with tampons. I don't want to be bleeding in the shower infront of all the girls so I was gonna wear a tampon with a bathing suit just in case. Well my flow is really light right now, so I don't want to use a tampon, but I don't want my bathing suit turning red or me bleeding in the shower! What should I do? =D (link)
I think that for the short time that you are in the shower without anything you should be fine. and even so...your in the shower...so no one will really be able to tell.

and just remember...all girls have to go through the same thing so they will understand.
dont worry about it hun. you'll be fine.


xox kar


im a guy 15yrs old yes im gay i need your advice. i like this guy well actually i think i love him and im not shore if hes gay or not. now my question is should i ask him and take a risk of him hating me. its not like hes like straight every one thinks hes gay so theres a strong possibility he is. my only fear is that i will ask him and he would say get the fuck away from me and hate me 4 ever and that would crush me. n e imput would b realy helpful.

thnx much (link)
i would go with asking him...whats to lose...well the guy yes, but if he blows you off for asking a simple question is he really worth pursueing?

xox kar


So I really like my best friend's baseball coach. No, not a joke. Really have feelings for him. Sound stupid I know. He's 28, single and gorgeous like no other.


At fist it was just a crush on older guy type thing. Now it's a he's soooo great, easy to talk to, and actually have feelings for him type thing.


How on earth do I get over this? I've tried to stop talking to him and stuff but then I just end up think about him all day.
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i think that you should probaley find some guy in one of your classes...he doesnt have to be a crush or anyhting. just someone you could get to know better, start hanging out...it might keep your mind off the other guy and you might make a new friend along the way.

xox kar


i've started track, i'm going to start out throwning but i might go to running, i'm not sure yet. but the thing is practice is until 4. by the time i get home i no longer want to exercise.

how do i still find time && stay motivated to exercise after track practice??

any tips? (link)
well.

i always find that running with a freind makes it a lot easier, and it doesnt seem to be so hard. it also motivates you more. if you run by your self then you can always quit, but if your with a freind you can both keep eachother running.

also...maybe instead of going home could you stay at school or where ever you practice and run there? and jsut not go home...that might keep the movivation going.

xox


Me & my mom made a deal that I can get an Ipod if I raise up my grades.

Well I did, but I just don`t know if I should get a Nano or just one of those regular Ipods.

Which one should I get??

I'm just confused & I don't want to end up with the sucky one. Thank you. (link)
it depends on what you plan on putting on your ipod.
i have about 2000 songs on my regular (photo) ipod. and i love it. i can put tons more songs on it. but if your like a lot of other people having about 500 songs is a lot.

soo...i would say
if you are happy with 500 songs...get the nano.
if you want many more songs (and photos)i would get the regular one.


hope this helps
xo kar


What are some things I can do and eat to grow taller? (link)
sorry no can do. you just have to wait it out like the rest of us. just eat healthy. oh and i've heard coffee stunts your growth...soo maybe dont drink it.

and in the mean time...high heals maybe? hah

xo


I love this song. It makes me think about my crush and I start crying. But I really don't know the meaning of the lyrics. Will you help me?



Cause you had a bad day-

You're taking one down-

You sing a sad song just to turn it around-

You say you don't know-

You tell me don't lie-

You work at a smile and you go for a ride-

You had a bad day-

The camera don't lie-

You're coming back down and you really don't mind-

You had a bad day-

You had a bad day-




I added a dash (-) jsut put what it means right after the dash if u can :)


Thanks SOOO MUCH
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ok...so well this song is basically just saying you had a bad day...people can see that, they're trying to cheer you up but you dont care.

xo

i hope this helped somewhat




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