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i need help with a guy
im a guy 15yrs old yes im gay i need your advice. i like this guy well actually i think i love him and im not shore if hes gay or not. now my question is should i ask him and take a risk of him hating me. its not like hes like straight every one thinks hes gay so theres a strong possibility he is. my only fear is that i will ask him and he would say get the fuck away from me and hate me 4 ever and that would crush me. n e imput would b realy helpful.
thnx much
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My opinion: If he hates you for talking to him or asking him then he's not worth going after. Before you ask him, though, I would get to know him a little better, just talk to him at lunch, after school, etc, find out his likes/dislikes, and you may well be able to find out if he's gay without even asking him. Doesn't hurt to try, if you keep your feelings bottled up it will drive you to the breaking point. Take it from someone who knows ;)
Hope this helps, good luck!
Love,
Nevaeh
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15 years old and gay. Ok, I can deal.
My question for you is how well do you know him? is he a friend? acquaintence? stranger? you have to decide on which of these he really is before you fancy yourself in love with him. lust, sure, love...well... maybe not so much.
And it is always better know then to spend your life wondering whether or not it could have worked out.
And don't judge; just because EVERYONE says he is gay does not mean that he is. Don't make assumptions; get facts.
If he tells to to get away and then hates you, he isn't really worth it, is he?
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well i would get to know a little more and then when you feel comfortable about it tell him your gay and if he is, ask him out and it will be good because then you already have a strong relationship. also if your still not sure what to do, i was in the libary one day and i just grabbed a book and its called ive known since i was eight and it talks about a girl around your age and how shes gay. i would read if i were you.
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i would go with asking him...whats to lose...well the guy yes, but if he blows you off for asking a simple question is he really worth pursueing?
xox kar
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It is upon all left unsaid that tragities are built....if you leave this alone it will fester in you mind, control you and domiante you. you must speak your mind, regardless of fear, for fear is weakness
Solemnstar
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