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10th vs. 12th
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last year, i was a freshman, and this kid was a junior. we talked a lot and started to like him, but i knew nothing could happen. we stopped talking for a little over a year. now im a sophomore and he's a senior. we we started talking again last week. there are 15 school days left. and i think i like him again. he's leaving for college in the fall. and i probably won't seem for 5 years or so. what do i do. i highlu doubt he thinks of me in the way i think of him. but i'm not sure. what do i do?
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Personally, I would just let it go. It may not be what pleases you, but it would probably be best for you both. =/ He's leaving soon for college. That's a whole new world separate from high school. I'm sure he wants to start a new with a clean slate. I think it's better that way, I'm sorry to say.
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A difficult situation for you. You could suggest you keep in touch by e mail etc, as you are interested in his progress, if he seems happy with that, it gives you something to build on.
The sad fact of life is that we make these connections as we grow to adulthood and most of them tend to fade away in time. However, they are replaced by others. It's lifes way of preparing us for the real love of our life. Without these little 'testers' we might not recognise it when it arrives.
He may be 'the one' but it seems more likely that with the timing, he is helping to prepare you for a more meaningful relationship in the years to come.
You seem to be a caring person and the right person is out there waiting for you. Enjoy your life, stay in touch if he's happy to do so and wait to see what unfolds.
Best of luck to you.
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mmm. def go for it... my boyfried is a senior 7 im a sophmore =]
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OK. well you might not my answer, but it will work i promise. Just talk to him. Its that simple. SO he's going off to college after summer. If you really like him a lot and he likes you a lot, why not try and have a summer long realationship. If things go good from there...keep talking while he's at college, have fun while your still in highschool, and see how things go after hes done with college.
but first things first. find out what he thinks of you and the idea of you and him being an "us"
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