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Question Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 6:12 pm

Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do

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xxsima answered Thursday June 15 2006, 9:35 pm:
Okay. Sorry if I'm dissapointing, but you could never make that work. You are still 13, you're still going through puberty. You need to wait until you are older. I think its illegal to even marry at 13? You're still growing up, wait until you're older. Trust me, its worth it. It might feel like 'oh this guy is great, he's soo perfect'.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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jumadel answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 11:59 pm:
Hi there, it is quite normal to feel in love at your age. But don't you think you and him are quite young to be getting married? And your parents have probaly got a say in the matter as well. Wait until your older like 25. You've still got your whole life ahead of you yet. Enjoy being a teenager, because once your an adult you will never be a teenager again. Daniel.

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TattooedXRoses answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 1:51 pm:
Your thirteen. You shoul be worried about starting to use make up, not marriage.


And sorry hunny, but love (as evil as it may ound) doesn't happen at thirteen.



You'll laugh about this later. Don't agree to marriage until you are at least 25.

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haloguy answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 10:39 am:
It doesn't matter what you say, you can't get married yet. So even if you say yes in a few years if he asks you to go through with the marriage it won't even be like you were engaged. Plus he won't be into this for very long. It's just infatuation on his part. Hope I helped!

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barreldreamer101 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 10:45 pm:
Well if you guys are that commited to each other maybe you can show your "love" for each other in a different way like if he wants to have somthing saying like "shes mine" then maybe try a promise ring but not a huge deal of one just an inside thing. But yes you are way to YOUNG don't be in a hurry to grow up! You guys keep going out and stuff but you will both change a large percent of divorces come from the cuples geting married to young and they change fall out of love and breake peoples hearts and have a terable time getting over it. I deffinitally think you need to tell him yeah you like him alot but say om sorry but i think were too young for that big of a commitment. Hope I helped

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mmmmmmm answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 9:46 pm:
you are way too young. if you are in love, he will wait.

hope i helped = ]]

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XxFRANCiLOVESYUxX answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 9:38 pm:
MAMA YU GUYSZ R T0O Y0OUNG BUT iN DA FUTURE YES YU SH0OULD GET MARiED iF YU GUYSZ R iN LOVE !

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tasuki answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:59 pm:
You are way too young! You have many years of growing up to do, and so does he. You are both going to change a lot of over those years, and might fall out of love. It's WAY too early to make a commitment like that, and besides, it's against the law for anyone under eighteen to be married without permission from their parents, so you'd have to wait five years anyway. I'm also a little concerned about this boy. I've never met a fifteen-year-old boy who wanted to make a commitment as serious as marriage. But I have known a few who were real creeps. My friend's boyfriend said that he wanted to marry her, but really he was taking advantage of her. It was just a line that he was using to keep her around because he liked the sex. You have to be able to defend yourself. Some guys are like that, and this boy sounds extremely sketchy to me. Tell him that you're not ready for that, and if he keeps pressing, you need to break it off with him before you get hurt. Although, it's possible that you misunderstood him, and what he was saying was "Someday I'd like to marry you." You might want to ask him what he meant.

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crazycool92 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:55 pm:
ur too young
its kinda illegal
so i think you should tell him not yet
and dont say stuff like "im just not ready" cuz then he'll probably think you dont like him
just say yes...when we're older

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CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:41 pm:
I understand you love him, but 13 and 15 is a little young to get married. Tell him your too young, and if he wants to wait for you to get older, then that is definately true love right there. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3

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xoxDaneCookRox answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:33 pm:
Well your 13 and he is 15...your both to young to get married anyway. Wait till your older.

Jess<33

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xx_nickelbackbabi_xx answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:23 pm:
ok 1st ur 13 and he is 15 so ur both just a little to young to get married. I think it is great that you both love eachother but if i were i wouldn't rush into anything too fast. You should really date a little longer and if you still feel the same then get married. Wish you the best!

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herbivore answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:21 pm:
hey. holy moly you are way to young to get married. that is what i think. you should wait a while and see what happends and see how you feel later in life. 18 would even be a little young. but you should do whatever makes you the happiest. just because you love eachother, doesnt have to mean that you have to get married. hope this helps!! :) &hearts; &hearts; &hearts;

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karlyndarlin05 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:12 pm:
well heres the deal. your 13 and hes 15. not much you cant do about marriage currently.
keep dating or whatever you are doing with him and if things stay the same until you are out of highschool...then go for it.
but who wants to start a family and get married in highschool?

<33

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snowi answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:12 pm:
I think you are way to young to get married! I suggest to just wait until your older.

Snowi

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