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Is their any other type of birthcontrol bsides condoms that are easy to get confidental and no to expenisve


2 proven birth control ways other than condoms ( which are 98% effective ) are -

a) the pill [oral contraception]
this is a hormone pill a woman takes every day to prevent ovulation and pregnancy . when used correctly, its 99.7% effective.

b) the shot [depo-provera]
this is a shot of hormones injected into a woman's arm or buttocks every three months to prevent ovulation and pregnancy . when used correctly its 99% effective .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I got an offer to start babysitting but I have a probllem. Its really stupid but, Ive seen the commercials to "When A Stranger Calls" the new horror movie about the girl babysitting. Im afraid that when I babysit a) IT WILL HAPPEN.. or b) Ill be too freaked out and the kids will get scared, or I wont be able to take care of them because Im too scared. It will also be my FIRST time babysitting. What can i do to make myself feel safer?!


just keep telling yourself that it's just a movie, and that wouldnt happen in real life . if an emergency happened, you should know the numbers to call but it is unlikely . remember : its not real life and only a movie !! dont be scared attt alllllll . nothing will go wrong =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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ok so here it is.
3 guys.
3 different grades.
3 problems.
Yes, it's true, i kinda like 3 guys.
one in 7th, one in 8th, and one in 9th.
I am in 8th.
The 7th grader, i've been out with this past year,
the 8th grader i have also been out with this year, and the 9th grader i havnt been out with, i just like a lot, but he has a gf.
both the 7th and 8th grader like me.
i have no idea what to do.


the ninth grader you should just leave alone, and the seventh grader is history so stick with the eighth grader, plus hes your own age . if i were you i would go with the 8th grader .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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14/f
i have really sweaty hands. it is super embarrasing! i don't even need to be doing anything, i just automatically get it. i can't hold hands with anyone, or by chance, even touch them because it's super gross! i don't want to go to the doctor or anything, but does anyone have any ideas? thanks!!


you should go to the doctor, because there is a disease for this and it can be treated ith perscribed medicine .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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okay let me explain .. if you got a cell phone...well you can type in a number and then a person number and you can see everyone body who calls them and there conversations but i dont know how to do it and i want to see if my boyfriend is cheating on me? does anyone know?


if hes cheating on you, which is highly unlikely, the cellphone wont do much help .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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what's a way (that i dont have to buy anything for) to make my sagging boobs... not sag anymore. no stupid answers.
thanks


a push up bra from victorias secret might be a good choice =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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one of my friends has been really on and off with me for the last...maybe year or so. we have always been really tight, but all of the sudden she wont talk to me one day and then want to hang out the next day. i think i should tell her one of the other, but i'm afraid she'll pick the wrong option(not being friends anymore) but i dont want her to because i really would miss her and we have so much fun together. what do you think i should do?


you should talk to her and tell her that you are either going to be friends or not (in between is not an answer) and tell her that its not cool taht she wont talk to you one day and then ask to hang the next .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Hey babe! So I'm in 9th grade and I recently broke up with my bf and afterwards we got into a huge fight and he accused me of liking one of my friends, which of course i denied. The thing is tho, i really do like him a lot and kinda feel like he likes me 2. Its complicated tho, cuz my friend used to go out with the guy I like, and I kno he still likes her. I'm afraid of ruining my relationships with my friends. what do i do?


dont think that you have to compete with your friend to get the guy, but go for him anyway and see what happens (and you said he likes you) so things will most likely work out . just smile because its the first thing people notice about you : )

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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heyyy...
i barely ever get hungry, but when i get home from school i just keep snacking &&snacking on whatever I can find, then im not hungry for dinner but i eat it anyway. im not fat and i know that because im a dancer and im a healthy weight and all that jazz
but i know i could be thinner if i could just stop the snack attack!!! {{i dont do it because im depressed or anything, ijust like the taste of food}}
thanks


it's fine that you keep eating and that you are attracted to food as long as you maintain a healthy body and excercise which wont be hard since youre a dancer : )

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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oh kay well see im in eighth grade next year i will be in nineth and i have one 2 girlss that are my friends and the rest are the guys. so nect year i go into high school and my mom wants me to go to an all girls school which my friend ( who is a girl ) mite be going to but what do u think i should do will the girls not like me there either im not even sure why they dont like me here.

reply asap


this is a great oppurtunity to get to know some new girls, and start off with a fresh start . its fine that all your friends are pretty much boys, but you are goign to a new school with new faces and a new chance to make friends .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I really like hardtail, juicy. so low ect. But they cost soooo much and my parents wont buy me it where do u find jappy clothes on sale???

HEEELLLPPPP!!!


firstly, dont refer to those clothes as jappy, because jappy is an attitude not the way you dress . but those clothes are cute and you can find them at your local department store on sale where you can find these clothes .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I have really bad dandruff on the back of my head and there are like yellow spots on my scalp there

is there any way i can take care of this????


thanksss


i highly reccomend head and shoulders, or selsun blue

they both come in conditioners and shampoos and are specially formulated to take care of flakes from dandruff .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do?


if i were you, i would ask your friend if she would be mad if you did anything with him before you do anything with bob . then if she says yes then go for it ! deffinetely tell him how you feel . if she says no, then wait for him to be attracted to you . things will all be good in the end =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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What exactly is a " wet dream "

answer asap.


♥


a wet dream is when a boy ejaculates in his sleep . therefore it is wet, but you might not be dreaming at the time .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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13/f

Well see my boyfriend has a twin brother but they don't look anything alike and I went out with his brother before but only for 5 days and I am with my boyfriend now and we've been together for almost 4 months and I still think about his brother alot..and hes so cute and adorable and my friends think he likes me still. But I guess my boyfriend is in absolute love w/ me and I know if I brake up with him he will never talk to me because once I almosted cheated on him and yeah.. well and my boyfriend makes-out with me and we've done lots before but his twin isn't like that .. I dont want to lose someone like my boyfriend..but I really like his brother..what do I do?!?!?!


i think that you should stick with your boyfriend if you really do love him, and dont forget that . his brother you may have a crush on and he may like you, but your boyfriend is the one you are going out with . i say you should stick with your boyfriend and his brother you should be really tight with, but only in a friend way . if you do this then you keep your boyfriend and his brother, but his brother not romantically .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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hello, my name is daniel . i am having trouble with my love life. you see, there is this girl who i really like & i have liked her for the longest time. shes the prettiest girl that i have ever seen in m entire life . she lives in philly, PA and i belive she goes to Akiba. my gosh she is so god damn gorgoues, i cant get over her. she has beautiful eyes and long brown hair. her face glows like an angel and her body is just uhhh uhhhh! well anyway can you help me cuz i love her so much.

- daniel


hah aww daniel . you should deffinetely tell this girl ! tell a girl in trumbull ct that i love her very much .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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yeaa my skin is freaking out on me. what's the best cleanser / treatment for acne.

and what's the best frizz fighter i can get that won't grease my roots like crazy?

i'm trying to stick to an under $20 budget per item here's but if you swear by it, i'll pay more.

5stars for any answer-- desperate.


queen helene's mint julep mask is suchhh a good facial cleanser, you can get it at any drug store for under $5, and also cetaphil moisterizing cream helps to control dry skin . for frizz there is a great brand called "Aussie" and its all about fighting frizz . it's definetely not any higher then $15 .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I really hate my family what do I do? Im thinking about suicide.
I hate my life.


nooo dont you ever think about suicide !!! that is sucha sin ! thats the worst thing you can do to yourself, because we only live once . your family, well, screw them because in your mind and soul and heart you are who you are no matter how annoying your family is . think about all the things you like about yourself . then just focus on the good things, and forget about the bad things in your life . jsut keep thinking happy thoughts and smile =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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so you can pop ure cherry wen u get fingered or use a tampon?


yeah pretty muchh

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13/f
i went away one weekend to a ski resort. there was a waterpark and i met a really hott guy. we got to know each other real well and made outa couple times. the same day we met. i had told him i didnt have a boyfriend.. but i really did. and i really care about my boyfriend. the guy said he would call me but he never did. he lives in kentucky and i live in michigan. should i tell my boyfriend? like i feel bad.. but im never gonna see the kid again.. what do i do?!


the fact that you're not going to see the kid again is going to make this a lot easier on your part . all you have to do is talk to your boyfriend about what went on that weekend and make sure to tell him that you still really care about him, and you are honestly sorry for your actions . if he loves you back, he'll forgive you, and thats the most important part . when you tell him about this make sure to say it in a calm manner and tell your boyfriend that you're never going to see the kid again, so theres nothing going on between you two . the only thing that matters is your relationship with your boyfriend, and to make sure that he will forgive you .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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