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I have a friend that is going out with a guy who is really bad for her. He has hurt her before. He has sprained my wrist purposely and he is a drug dealer. He deals hardcore stuff; cocaine, crystal meth, heroin, etc. She has done coke in the past and she was beginning to develop a dependancy, but my friends and I helped her to kick it. We think that she has started using again and has probably started with other drugs, too. We've tried talking to her, but she won't seem to listen. Is there any way we can get her away from him? Thanks. (link)
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Since when are friends not good enough friends to tell the other friends parents. Seriously wtf is wrong with you. The drugs you named are some of the worst around, judging solely on what they are chemically made of. RAT her a$$ out please.
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I'm in high school and my group or friends are really close to each other. So, when one person tells another about something, they run off and tell someone else and then it finally gets around to our whole "group." It always happens, with everything and everyone. And of course whoever told the first person gets upset because they did not want their "secret" or whatever to get out to everyone else.
We go through these arguments about once a week, no joke. We're all guys and girls between the ages of 16-18. We can't just stop telling each other stuff, that doesn't work. EVERYONE has a big mouth.
Any advice?
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The person who tells there own secret, has the biggest mouth of all.
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Hey, I'm talking to my boyfriend online right now and he asked me if I have asked any one for advice on things in our relationship. I said yeah and i told him a couple of things that I have asked advice for. I asked him the same question and he said yes and that he did "10 minutes ago" about how to be closer. He told me he asked one of the girls I talk to the most thats on my basketball team. He said that he wants to keep it between him and her about what she said. I dont like it when people keep secrets from me, especially if its my own boyfriend/best friend. Has this ever happened to you? How have you handled it before?
Thanks! (link)
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well you could do one of two things, you could go the physcoanalitical route or the chilled route.
the first one would be something like:
"well if you didnt want me to know why would you tell me, you obviously wanted me to know at least that you did, which really means you want me to know so you want to tell me." then blah blah
or my personal choice, the chilled route
"oh thats nice. well how was life today on your side of the fence"
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hey...did anyone notice...that the new "in" thing is acting ghetto? last year,it wasnemo rock whatever....now its ghetto...what the heck? why cant people be original and now follow the crowd? how can i not follow ANY crowd? everyone in my school follows the trends...and im just there,i want to stick out ina good way...any way i could do that? thanks...also...are you with me on this? (link)
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wow, lets all conform to non conformity...
lets think, if the crowd is conforming and your asking how to conform to something that the crowd isnt conforming to the best way would be to not conform in which everyone will conform to you starting and ending a paradox.
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I just got a new boyfriend the other day, and when we talk our convos usually start and end at "Hey you, how are ya?" ... What are somethings I could say to get the conversation to move on? (link)
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ask questions like whats your favorite blank. duscuss things. Just be relaxed.
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Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone to know what's going on. The bad stuff. Because someone needs to know or I'm going to go insane. But I just don't know how to tell anyone. I rate 5's for any answer!! Good or bad, long or short. I'm really in some need for advice. Thanks a bundle if you can help =D ♥Samm (link)
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find a mirror and voila, you can be there for yourself.
& stay happy!!
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I need to lose 15 pounds in less than two weeks. Now I don't need any bull*hit answers I need ones that work and fit into a constracted time schedule of 1 1/2 hours 3-4 days a week 5 max, I also need diet as well.
If you have no clue do not answer (link)
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usually its unhealthy to lose more than 2 lbs a week. go consult a dietician.
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Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it? (link)
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go streaking, it will bring up your confidence....yes i was kidding but really, do something to boost your confidence, or just relax and chill.
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im 13 and i have a body of a 16 year old, i weigh 120 and im 5'3 or 5'4 i know thats not really fat but you have to understand when i was 9 i always dreamed of going to jr high and high school being popular and skinny with alot of frinds, when i moved to a different part of new hartford i was only 10 and in 5th grade and i threw up not onpupose everyday b/c i was nervous, i lost a lot of weight and felt great and then i broke my arm i couldnt play outside and it rained during the summer so i had to stay inside it sucked and as you know when there is nothing to do you eat and i ate i got really fat and everyone knew it then i excersided and i lost a lil bit of weight and then i did cross country and i lost alot of weight i felt a lil good but not enough scence its been over i have been doing things excersise to help and i have fat not much but enough to make me go crazy!! my lil sister she has no fat there its like love handles only i have a lil i would love to loose weight to get to 100 or even better 90 and i looked at starving myslef or throwing up like i did when i was 10 and i did onece but then i couldnt sleep at night and i was uncomfortable so i stopped that now im back to wear i started im doing track soon so that willl help but i want to loose it now i know its bad but how would you feel waking up and looking at ur sisrer who is 12 and skinner than u were ever were you know you can look like that and trust me i asked her how she stays that way and she doesnt remember how she did it so now im screewed i know crunches work ive been doing that i want to get rid of it tell me how to stay on something that will work quick like throwing up i have a hard time doing it but i feel like i have no other choice i bawled about this onece and my mom said that if i ever had a problem like that she would send me somewhere and i dont anyone to know about it just so you know i have 8 people in my house so i have to keep it quiet and i have a big family and i dont want my b/f to know either so how do i keep it quiet and knowone knowing and how do i loose it fast?? i have been crying over for this for months and years pleez help me! (link)
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120lbs at 5'4 = sexy.
join a karate, that should help with a lot of problems.
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my mom made me break up with my boyfriend just recently.I did what was told,but my mom still thinks we are going out.my mom makes me use the phone in the living room or let her listen on the other line.I have no privacy.How do I get more privacy?why is she doing this when I did what I was suppose to? (link)
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Prank the living crap out of her.
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how does someone get raped/kidnapped over myspacve? i dont reallt get it? is it even true? (link)
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by being retarded and not thinking when they give away info.
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i had this dream the other night about my ex-boyfriend that i dumped. we were SO inlove and we were together for 6 months, but we literally don't talk anymore. i don't know if im over him, but he seems to be over me.
anyway, i had a dream that we were sitting, a group of friends (him included), and then we're alone all of a sudden, and im in his arms and he gives me a tight and emotional hug that i feel my heart leap and hurt when i wake up. usually, i forget dreams but this one is always on my mind. what does it mean? do i still love him? im freaked and i really nedd help and i would appreciate it more than anything if you helped me out.
thanx if you read till here, and please help me through this..
yours truly. (link)
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it means your horney
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hey iam sally 15yrs iam just confused about this what should i do to keep a longlife relationship.is it tru that showing him that ur not intrested much makes him get closer and want u more??? thanks anyway (link)
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u should go buy a leash
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lately i have been so stressed and worried about one of my classes. i used to force myself to study all day for 5 days in advance of a test (including saturday and sunday) so that i would get a "good grade". its gotten to the point where i see a therapist and take medication. my mom is concerned, so she is only letting me study 2 hours a day so that i wont be overstressed, and she said that if i dont do well on tests that itll be her fault. my question is, is it better to cry and panic all the time and get a good grade or to enjoy life and not study as much and get a lower grade? (link)
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please give an age and grade, enjoying life is good but you need to study. Try to balance them.
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ok so here's the deal. . .i recently broke up with my gf. it just wasn't working out. anyway, now her best friend is after me, and i don't know what i should do. i think it would look really bad, i mean, it's her best friend. i will rate for good answers
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This should make it quite clear. whats worse than one girl nagging and bitching at you?
Two girls nagging and bitching at you.
whats worse than that?
Having to deal with two girls bitching with each other. Just hit on some hot chick and forget them.
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I am a dancer and i have developed so much muscle. My arms and shoulders are very muscular and every time people see me without a shirt on they go "are you a swimmer?" My thighs are also pretty muscular. Do guys mind this? (link)
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i plea for all guys, motivate other girls to do this.
**we guys like it.**
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My dad pasted away Thursday and his funeral was on Saturday (yesterday). I was out of town when he died and my mom told me that if I wasn't able to get back on Saturday before the funeral that she would post-pone it. I was able to find a plan back Friday night so I called her and told her that she didn't need to post-pone anything.
Well, my plan was delayed until Saturday morning. When I called her then, my Aunt picked up (my dad's sister not my mom's) and told me that it was too late to push anything back because everything was ready. I asked to speak with my mom and she wouldn't let me. I couldn't reach anyone else so I was forced to miss it! If that isn't the most fucked up thing ever I don't know what is. My mom didn't even know about it until I didn't show up.
All my family from my dad’s side are assholes and the only thing they ever wanted from my dad was his money. We're pretty well off and they've never visited him at the hospital while he was sick. They came maybe once or twice in 7 months. And I HATE that people like that that didn't even deserve to be at the funeral or even know a great man like my dad got to be there and I didn't!
Everyone came over last night to "be there for us" and my dad's family stood away from everyone else and sat in a circle by themselves joking and stuff. They didn't even try to comfort my mom who couldn't get off the couch all night because she couldn’t stop shaking and crying. Her siblings were the only ones around her.
I couldn't go downstairs where everyone was because of them. I didn't want to see any of them. I know that upset my mom and my brother and sister even more but I just couldn't.
I'd give anything to have my dad back. His family can take all of our money, cars, house, whatever they want if we could have him for a few more years. I was taking to my brother about that and my aunt heard (the one that told me it was too late to post-pone the funeral) and she told me that I needed to stop being selfish and that I should be happy that I at least have those things. So I told her to shut up and leave my house. My mom heard that and told me to go back up stairs.
I don't know what to do. I wish it were them that were gone not my dad. I don't know what to do.
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Unfortuneitly its not them, its your dad. More unlucky than that is that he's not comming back. As for your dad's side of the family, dont let them get to you. As it looks, you have to be strong for your family. They are scum, dont lower yourself; im sure your dad wouldnt want it that way. He would want you to cope and be strong. You need to find comfort in your own family and ignore the others. Try to live how your dad would have wanted you to live.
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How do you survive a horrible haircut that is short and curly? My hair is shorter than my brothers, and im a girl. Skool is tomorrow and we cant wear headgear. I look like a man, so what do i do? (link)
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Its all about attitude, just have good attitude about it and think its fly. You got to sell it though or your sunk.
or
go to school with suggestive clothes so they dont notice the hair.
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I have a math teacher and theres a bunch of girls that likes him. So I found out that they call him on his cell phone and they talk to him on the internet. I find this very strange
because he is like 25 and he lives with his parents and he's single. Half the girls that has his number is between 12-13. I have a bad feeling about this teacher because he goes to ball games and sits with those girls. Does anyone have any idea's on what to do? (link)
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Prime example of when hacking is handy... ...especially if the adults dont do anything about it. Anyhow, If the principal does nothing about it then talk to the parents of one of the girls (pick overpertective parents too as they would be very concerned).
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ok welllll....do guys findd it weird when girls play video games? or is it cool? and do guys like it when girls are girly but still "boyey"?
P.S. boyey is not a real word..i just made it up...fyi (link)
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video game = awesome
chicks who play video game = freakin sweet
and yea to the last one unless i read it wrong.
(by boyey you dont me fat,& hairy like most of us guys are?)
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