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what to do to keep a long time relationship??
hey iam sally 15yrs iam just confused about this what should i do to keep a longlife relationship.is it tru that showing him that ur not intrested much makes him get closer and want u more??? thanks anyway
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Once you are in a solid relationship, do not start to act like you're not interested. That might work to get a guy but not once you have him. If you start to act distant, he might think that something is wrong and that'll cause a problem. Either he will think that it isn't working anymore, you're cheating on him, you want to break up with him, ECT. Plus you don't want to send mixed messages.
Just be a good girlfriend, be there when he needs you to be, give him space when he needs it, and expect the same from him. You can't predict how long a relationship will last. Sometimes what seems like a great relationship has to end because something changed. If it's time for a relationship to end, you can't just drag it on. It won't be fun at all and you're keeping yourself from meeting someone new that'll fit you better.
You're only 15; you have plenty of time to meet some one that will be there the rest of your life.
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With some guys, yes acting as if you're not interested AT FIRST will want to chase you more. It's instint- we want what we can't have, & if he can't you, he'll want you. Make sense? You only want to play that card for a little bit. Three days at the most. Flirt a little bit so he know's you're interested. Guys know all the tricks about dating there is to know, so he'll know what you're trying to do, but it wont make him want you less.
Like the person before said, after the 'game' of cat and mouse- it's about communication. Clearly.
So communicate often and that's a sure fire way to start off a nice relationship.
-tekcoreht
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u should go buy a leash
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Four years, and seven months... and from my own experience in a relationship, we're entirely based on communication. He calls me everyday, and we talk for at least an hour. We know everything (I mean seriously, everything- I know he weighed 7 lbs and 2 oz, at birth) about each other.
Pushing him away will make him nervous around you, and just make you seem distant and cold.
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