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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just go for it i mean if you don*t say anything you mite regret it and maybe he*s thinking the same thing maybe since he brought it up the first time he*s waiting for you. If you don*t tell him then you might leave before you get to see him and if you do tell him you prolly have a better chance! good luck n tell me how things ended up!!

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okay, I have tried thousands of deodarants including Exta-dry and none work for me! I want to be able to wear nice shirts and all that stuff but the only thing that stops me are my underarms what advice do you have for me? What deodarant do you suggest? You should know that a girl having sweaty armpits is not atractive. HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!

i just use secret but i don*t really have a sweating prob. one of my friends does however and she went to the doctor and he hooked her up with something.. hope i helped

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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?

well i*m not gonna tell you all the crap that you don*t want to hear but go out and buy yourself a cute new outfit that always boosts my confidence, and don*t hang around with the idiots who call you ugly no1 needs to hear that kind of negativity. Also focus on the things about you that are "pretty" bc i know there has to be a few things. I don*t really know any other advice.. prolly didn*t help much but i did my best i spose.. if you have any more questions im me (crazlilchelc152) or drop one in mi inbox!

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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

yeah hun you did get out of that relationship and find sumone else he*s got issues you don*t need to be involved in.

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17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?

i*m tall and i pretty much always have bfs shorter than me but idk.. if you feel like his height is interfering with the relationship and you feel like you can*t love him b/c of it i guess look elsewhere. But if you feel like you realy like him this shouldn*t matter.. just try getting to know him because sooner or later you*ll see more than just his appearance but prolly a really great guy that loves you more than you know! good luck and i hope you do the rite thing. xoxo

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18/m

My next door neighbor is this beautiful, green eyed angel to me. We spend all our time together, late nights till 5 and 6 in the morning just cutting up and looking at the stars. We share everything in common, even the lil things we love each other for. Ive known her about 4 months now and we have gotten very close, romantic settings, kissing hugging etc. Now heres the punch line .. shes 24 and married and she has her own kid.

I mean ive raised kids all my life and this is no big deal to me but I dunno what to do .. leave her to her life or start a relationship when shes divorced

yeah hun as hard as it will be get out of that relationship.. she made a commitment with her husband and you*re gettng yourself rite in the middle of it. Also don*t forget she*s not just cheating on him but you too. I know it*s gonna be hard but the best thing for you, her, her husband, and her child is to leave the situation and look some place else, and maybe MAYBE when she*s ready (meaning if her n her husband divorce) you could go back to her.. but i don*t suggest this bc if she had an affair once most likely she*ll do it again no matter what she says. But good luck with the situation and keep your head up.

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Okay, so this is weird. I've given head before, but it was my first tiem. And it was like 5 months ago. I didnt really care bout the guy, so i wasnt really paying attention to what i was doing. Turns out, i was "amazing" or something. But this time, i want to do it to a different my boyfriend. && it matters if i do it right & i gota do it good again. Have any tips or advice or what not.? THanksss !

hmm.. well i suggest you like change speeds every once in a while.. i don*t really know why but it drives them crazy and try to deep throat as far as possible. Also maybe you could try taking your tongue and circling the head of mr.penis.. And just do wutever feels comfortable. I read sumwhere you should try like massaging their balls while your doing it, and if you try that don*t like squeeze em haha hope i helped.. and i*m sure you*ll do great! have fun sweetie!

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I just ordered Proactive and it should be to my house by Wednesday. My question is that does it work for clogged pores, too? I know its supposed to work for pimples but i have so many white heads and blackheads on my chin nose and fore head, and i wanted to know if proactive clears that up, too. Another question of mine is, how long does the bottles last for? I think i sent out a check for only 3 items...i heard that they send 3 new bottles every month to my house for free but that sounds weird. And i dont wanna spend 45 dollars every month on this stuff, and especially if it takes like a week to be delivered. Im so confused. Will someone help me please??! THankS!!!!!!

i don*t no exactly everything it covers, but my friend recently got it (well about a month ago) and it seems to be working well for her and she claims nothing else really has, sorry if i wasn*t much of a help.. please rate! thanx.

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I think this is the right category..

I'm going to my first concert in December for my favourite band (Oasis) and I'm just wondering. Is it possible to get autographs of bands? Can you like leave an autograph book at the door or something, or does it never happen? It's just I'd do anything to get their signatures, but I'm not sure whether it's possible. So has anyone ever done it and had any luck?

Thanks.

yeah that doesn*t really happen sry hun, but the opening act normally does signatures so have fun!!

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school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!

get yourself a straightner i no this girl with like HUUUUGE hair n the straightner did wonders.. you should im me n i*ll show you before n after pix haha it*s hillarious.. k well hope that helps!

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what is Mastervating or Masterbating?

it*s masterbating hun, and you could say its "pleasuring yourself" prolly didn*t help but sorry. ♥ chel*c

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hEy! i wanted to ask you this whats the % i could still get pregnet if
1. my boyfriend uses a condom and wen he cums he takes it out
2. im on the pill

thnaks..i want to be over protected! lol let me know if you know the answer! thanks!

the percentage is literally like 99% that you won*t get pregnant, so go for it n have fun!

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their is this gurl that i met on the internet and i think i rlly love her im 13 and she 25 but she thinks im 21 she says she really loves me but we are supose to meet in a few days n i duno what 2 do if she rlly loves me it shouldnt matter that im like 13 right? plz help me.

ummm no, your a minor and she will probably leave right away b/c your "jail bait" you mite wanna tell her before you go 2 meet her.. just a suggestion. B/C i*d flip sh!t if i went to meet a 21 year old who just turned into a 13 year old.. unless she*s like a serial killer?? good luck

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I just turned 14 this past week and I`ve already had sex 20 times.. 16 times with my boyfriend now, and 4 times with my ex. I don`t know why I`m so addicted to sex. But I think that it may be because I was molested from the time I was a todler up until this past summer, at the age of 13. I was molested by my step-fater, and step-brother.. They did just about everything to me but have sex with me.. could that possibly be why I wanting sex at such a young age? and should I get help for it? I`m so lost and confused. someone please help me out.

aww sweetie i*m sry, yeah help would really well help sry for the way i put that haha but i think you should im me sumtime b/c i wanna talk to you bout this but not on here. or drop one in mi inbox or sumthing! aim- crazlilchelc152 i hope everything turns out ok! ♥ chelsea

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for theatre i hafta recite a poem and i wanna make a good selection. an original poem that no one has relly done before. any ideas? plz dont list any edgar allen poe poems, i luv his work but i'm already reciting one of his. thankz in advance!

try http://www.poetry.com it has lots of poetry (obviously) from either famous poets and just regular people! good luck n hope i helped.

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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads?

long side sweeping bangs, n they look REALLY cute, lots of celebrities have them.

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ok so i cut, so obviously im depressed. i cant decide if i should go to a psychologist and have them give me anti-depressants, or if i should just go to our family doctor and get some from him. what do you think? i dont want my parents in the same room as me if i went to the doctor, so how would i do that? id feel bad if i said i dont want my parents to come in, but is that what im supposed to do? is the doctor going to ask me questions? and would i have to show him my cuts? their really teeny and a little red, so they really arent that noticable, but would he still give me anti-depressants? im not wanting anti-depressants just for my cutting, i am depressed so i have other problems other than cutting. thank youuuu

honestly i think you should go to a psychiatrist. medicine isn*t just gonna cure you right away though counseling from a psychiatrist is needed to. I was to the poin of being suicidal about 2 years ago and went and saw a psychiatrist and got help and it did a lot. IDK if they will make you show them your cuts or not, and you don*t need your parents in the room with you because when you're alone you confess more. I hope i helped and hope you're feeling better soon. best of luck hun, chelsea

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what is STD? i have seen people write about it on here and i don't know what it is is it short for aids? or something?

it*s a sexually transmitted disease. you get it from bein naughty haha so don*t be a fool n wrap your tool (or if your a girl his) how old are you??

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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do

you can use a condom but you don*t have to. I*ve given head a few times and i don*t have any stds, the only ones you can get from OrAl are the ones around your mouth which are herpes and you only get those if he has "genital herpes" which are visable. I once had a guy wear a condom n he flipped sh!t, they don*t really like that, but do what you want i guess haha. have fun, n don*t get too attached with the whole "f.w.b" thing i did it once and turned out very bad. but best of luck n hope i helped. please rate.. chel*c

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my cell phone was droped in the water and now i press a button and somethin else pops u like if i press menu it starts to dial a number if i press 3 it shows up the menu is amy where i can take it to fix it or should i jsut get a new 1 its a virgen moblie slider

get a new one, cell fones+water truly don*t mix!

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