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My name is Geri-lynn

I live in Harvey, Louisiana. Harvey is on the westbank of the New Orleans metro area, so yes I hate Katrina. But pretty much everything is okay now, it`s back to normal. The sluts, the rumors, and the parties are now open for business.I have a boyfriend and I love him. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM. But my mother hates him. He is 18. He goes to my school`s rival, West Jeff. He plays baseball and football. He was Mr. West Jeff & I'm oh so proud of him. I have the best friend ever, i love you kB


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** I like giving advice. it may not be the best but it is the honest truth. I dont judge before hand but if your an idiot.. then your an idiot. I dont care much for people that lack common sense and say stupid idiotic crap just for attention. But other then that im a really nice, and understanding person. Chances are i've been through the stuff you are going throu or i just know knowlegde about it. and other times i have no earthly idea on how to help you. But anywho Bye**



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Im from Louisiana the rebel state but im also a little spanish. I was trying to get a more country style but i dont no if it fits my spanish thing though.

What country style should i go for?
Also should that fit me?

Im from Louisiana too but Im not understanding what you mean by country style? but I really do like the hunting kinda style w/ the REAL hunters camo, bright orange and pearls&ribbons like southern belleish kinda thing. I like it.

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he is always making me uspet even over little things. im really over sensitive so i just leave it alone.

today he told my firend he didnt like the "rules i was giving him and all i asked as these so called "rules" was he didnt smoke or drink and didnt ignore me when friends were over and he goes and tells my best friend he is mad at me cause i asked those "rules" so he lied and told me he was never mad and yells at her. so now she hates me and he is mad at me and im crying my eyese out. i dont know what to do. please help me im crying. :) thanks a lot.

I dont fully understand your question but I understand that its probably because you are crying, you have a headache and you can`t really think too straight. But I dont think your boyfriend is even being fair to you because if he had a problem he should have talked to you before your friend. The reason he lied&yelled at her could have been that what he told her was a secret that you weren`t meant to hear OR she made it up. Its really hard to decipher what really went on and whos actually lieing and everything but I wouldnt blow up over this at your boyfriend but if your friend really hates you she isnt a real friend. Im sorry if this is an unclear answer. If you want you can im me... (barbi bliss x)

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srry this is long (i'll rate :)
okay so i have been best friends with this girl for like 5 years, now we are both 13 and in 7th grade, but have totally different lifestyles. My family and I are religous, her and her family aren't. Her dad and mom both have a boyfriend/girlfriend that they live with, but all of them cheat all the time (this is where religion comes in; morals). Her dad drinks and takes steriods and is really stupid, like nobody really likes him (he thinks he's all cool because his girlfriend (who he lives with) owns an awesome exotic house and because of his cowboy hats). My dad thinks her dad hasn't accomplished anything, unlike my dad. Her dad thinks that he can tell my dad what to do, or call him a p*ssy and stuff for buying groceries (her dad thinks it is not "manly" to go grocery shopping, and that if a hurricane comes, you have to "ride it out" with the whole family, including toddlers, like a "man" would do). This girl is starting to be a fake, like whatever the popular people think, she will pretend to think ,even though she told me that she has to so people won't think she's weird or get mad at her. My mom wants nothing to do with any of it. Also, something that bothers me is that when I was allowed to see her, she would always cancel. (this was a few months ago) I remember one day my dad said she was going to come over, and he came back empty handed. I thought he was tricking me, but he just said "oh, she couldn't come, she had to go do something". I found out recently, this other girl, whom i used to be best friends with about 3 years ago, had come home or something and my friend decided to go over her house. So here's my dad going to pick her up, and she's like "oh, um, i am just going to go over to Christine's". She has done that A LOT. I talked to her about her blowing me off one time, and she's like "im so sorry". But this other girl is 14 and can do WHATEVER she wants. I mean, ANYTHING whatsoever. This other girls also cries because she hasn't had sex yet. Her dad is like a weirdo, so, yeah. Anyways, i just recently talked to my friend, and she was so glad i called and said she couldn't reach me (seriously, i am not allowed to give out my cell #, but she only called my dad's phone once). I am so confused, she always says (even in front of her other friends and other people) that i am her best friend (not just one of), but she doesn't treat me like best friends would treat eachother. She has been very nice since i talked to her, but she is fake around people, and i really miss her personality, her nice, funny, kind of i-don't-care-what-you-think-i-love-acting-goofy attitude. She has admitted to only acting differently so she can fit in, or so her friends don't get mad at her (what friends would do that?). My dad doesn't want to deal with the other girl i mentioned earlier and her family, or my friend's family. He is always like, "she always wants to be around her, not you. she always cancels on you at the last minute". I really miss her, and we have had so much fun, she never used to act like this. How can I tell her without her dad giving us a bunch of bull crap and without me seeing her? What should I say? I miss her so much, and I know deep down she is still herself, and that she is a good friend. I think she is confused also (I keep telling her i have plans to avoid her, my dad said to say that just until we don't have so much stress from some big problems we are having, he doesn't want more stress from her dad or anything). I also know that people change, and i wouldn't mind that, but she is now labeled "fake" from my viewpoint, believe me, she is not just naturally changing, i am 3 million % postive.

Well middle school is usually when people start to change [naturally or not] after a while you wont be able to figure whos fake and whos not, esp when you get to high school. I know its hard but all I can say is that you should just let the first friend who you were friends with for lik 7 years roll off your back. Shes probably talking about you behind your back anyway because I know if you`re fake, you`re probably twofaced too. Her and Christine or whatever are probably those middle-school-wannabe-sluts that our society has created. All you can really do is just be you and let TRUE friends gravitate to you and once you find them you will know. They wont blow you off or push you away or even try to change/manipulate you. If you have aim you can im me. . . (barbi bliss x)

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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused


sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =]

I think he`s just being a total asshole which isn`t fair to you at all unless you gave him something to be mad at you about. BUT if he didn`t say y`all were over I def think you should end it because thats ridiculous. My bf is ignoring me right now but I know he`ll be talking to me in a couple of hours or something or at least tomorrow, but I gave him a reason sort of . . . but I would break up with him because your boyfriend doesn`t call you a b*tch til its over.

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hey my sister has recently cut my hair and i really dont like it i think its too short, i was wondering if anyone has tried any hair products or has any tips on fast hair growth. thank you.

There`s these really good pills called NIOXIN. They are supposed to be good for hair&nail growth and skin healthly. And everything. You would have to get it from a hair stylist. Or you can try extensions, I love them SO much.

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There are these freshman in my art class and they're sooo annoying! I'm pretty preppy and they think I'm sometimes overly preppy..but hey, that's just me.
Anyways, they always give me dirty looks and they talk about me..I know it. Like I see them talking about me. I don't know why they hate me...I've never done anything to them! I always try to be nice & smile to everyone! Should I confront them and ask them? Please help!

yeah I have the same problem but they`re probably just jealous cus they are ugly or something. I wouldn`t even worry about it. You know how freshman are with drama, they create it. So hold your head high.

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i'm a sophmore in high school and have been going out with my gf since september. we go to different schools but they are pretty close only like 20 minutes awayy. she said shae doesnt want me to talk to her friends from skool which is weird, cuz i actually introduced her to friends from my skool. her friends are never around or with us when we hang out but i've met them a few times. is it wrong for her to do that, tellm e i cant talk to her friends?

I have that problem too. But I dont tell him not to talk to them, I just prefer him not to. Maybe she doesnt want her friends to know what yall do or how she feels about ect. I def dont want my freinds knowing some things but there is also a guy i kinda mess with not like that though. I think she is insecure too. But if she wants to keep her life privated like that and yall have been together that long its not fair to the relationship.

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I want to break up with my boyfriend in a way. I do because we spend way to much time together and he eventually gets annoying. But I know I wold be jealous if I seen him with other girls and it will make it hard because we go to school together, work together, and yeah. But I don't want to hurt him but he will probably be a butt about wanting to still be friends. He doesn't drive and I always have to kinda haul him around. What should I do? I will rate high!

I think it would help your relationship if you two didnt work together. Most people start to annoy you if you spend too much time with them, even your best friends. So maybe it could work.

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i want to get side bangs and i have a hair appoitment in 2 weeks, but i wanted to get them after basketball season ends(which is in like, 1 month) because i dont want them in my face while im playing. are there ways that i can keep them out of my face(somehing good cause i dont want to be rebounding and have someone rip out some big clip) lol
thanks

alot of the basketball players at my school wear those elastic headbands. i wear it for cheerleading too and they work pretty well.

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