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Hello, I have a feeling that my boyfriend will finger me soon. What should I do? Does it hurt?
And should I shave my pubs? sorry this i kind of embarrising
You should decide if you will let him or not, if you dont want him to then dont let him. If you do want him to then just relax, and let him go to work. It doens't hurt, it might feel akward for a little if youve never had anything up there before, but like everything.. you'll get used to it. He might like it cleaned up. You can shave if you want but you never have to do anything yuo don't want to. I say go ahead just don't shave it all off, your not a porn star or anything hah. Hope this helped
ok well im happy wiht the size of my boobs but i want to lose weight but i dont want my boobs to get smaller. can i do somehting to lose the "preagnant belly" and not the boobs?
Well I do know that when you loose weight your boobs do go byebye, and you can't just do crunches to get nice abs. Crunches are great for a good stomach but you have to eat better too and have more exercise ingeneral. If you do eat good already thats great. If you want to get rid of your stomach do any of these..
http://www.self.com/fitness/workouts/search?query=category%3Aabs
http://www.changingshape.com/resources/articles/abdominal-exercises.asp
I like crunches just because they are nice and simple and I can do as many as I want in a day. Im not sure that you (if you loose a noticeable amount of weight) can keep your boobs the same size. It might differ for people. Just eat right, get active, do stomach stuff (crunches, sit ups, bicycles, throw downs). Hope this helped
how do you put in a picture caption?
What? Do you mean put a picture in a caption... like on myspace?
would just flat out running be your best bet to lose weight the fastest? thanks kate.
No. I wouldn't you that to loose weight, you can try if you'd like but it might not work. Youve got to eat healthy too. Try cuting out sweets (you can still have them just not all the time and not too much), pop, fast foods, and junk foods. If you can do that then thats great. Try eating 3 meals a day with 2 snacks inbetween. Don't over do your portion sizes. Exersice by running, bike riding, any sports, anything just get active.
http://body.aol.com/diet/basics/smart-diet-tips
That can help you out. There are a bunch of links on that page that are good. I'm just giving you links because its pretty much the same thing I'd tell you. Just take time and read over things on the left hand side (the links). You'll learn alot. Hope this sorta helped
okay. i used to have so many friends, but they all started changing. and they like all hate me and stopped talking to me. i barely do anything now, and its summer. i want to have some fun. i dont know what i did wrong, or whats wrong with me. its all so confusing. is there anything i can do? im not very good at apologizing. and besides they are all soooo different. i dont know if i even want to.
-thanks.
If you dont' want to say sorry then don't. If you did nothing wrong you shouldn't have to say sorry unless you want to be friends with them and think saying sorry will help. Really think if you want to even be friends with people that changed that easily. If you do, then say sorry if you think it'll help or try talking to one of them about the situation. If you don't want to be friends with them then find friends that you have that you might not be so close to and hang out with them.You never know, you might find a new best friend. Hope this helped
hey my name is katie also haha but im 12/f and
i just made out with my boyfriend recently and like i wanna do it again but like im not going to ask him to do it. like you know what i mena
but i ahvent even kissed him yet i have only made out with him and i have no clue what to do i just wanna do it again so bad oh yeah also what do you think is normal for the farthest thing a 12 year old should be doing ? thanks katie. haha
Its perfectly normal. You can do whatever you want, as long as your ready for it. It shouldn't matter what other people think. If you want to do it again then just go for it. Do it the same as before. If your hanging out or watching a movie or saying bye just go in for the kiss/makeout. It might be akward but sooner or later something will be akward. Hope this helped
15/f
i love my boyfriend so much but it seems like he doesnt like me anymore and that makes me really sad
i really dont want to break up soo what should i do?
Either talk to him about it saying "It feels like we arnt as close as before and im worried", or if you don't feel comfortable talking to him try and ask a friend of his(someone your friends with too) or one of your friends to ask him if he still likes you. Just try and find out how he feels. Hopefully he still likes you and its just a miscommunication or something. Good luck
mt grilfriend and i went to have sex both our first time were both 16 and i had trouble keeping an erection same thing happened again i didnt last that long its really embarrassing im a bit worried to try again what can i do?
Try fooling around before hand so your maybe more ready? Like do other stuff before you have sex. I heard it makes guys last longer if they explode before sex. Hope this helped
i'm 13, and i have a bf who i love a lot, but i think i like him more when i'm not with him? the other day we went to the movies, and i didn't even sit by him, we've been going out for 6 months, and have only kissed, i want to do more, how do i get things moving?
Sorry I think this is the same question in my inbox already. I wasnt sure how to answer so i was just coming back to it. Well- you'll probably have to go for it. But seeing as you don't like him as much when hes around, make sure that you really want to do stuff. Cause if you say, "i love you I want to go futher" then you get to the point where you are about to go further.. you don't want to back out. Try hanging out more and flirting more with him. You might easily get it moving faster or it might be harder if hes shy. You can tell someone to tell him that you want more so then maybe he gets the hints and makes moves on you, or you can just try to make the moves yourself. Hope this helped
ok i really love my boyfriend and i likehanging out with him but its like i wanna hang with my friends to.
so the ? is that how do i make time for both of them
ily kate
Just make future plans. Hang out with your boyfriend one day, then say.. "well I was just with him now I'll hang out with my friends". If thats not enough, try geting with a group of people (including your friends and boyfriend). Hope this helped
14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month. we're hanging out later today and i'm sure pretty we're gonna make out. i want to and everything, it's just that i never have before and i'm really scared that i'm gonna do something wrong. do you have any tips or know any websites that will help me? i know everyone says "it just happens" but i know some people who it didnt "just happen" for.
Alright, I understand you might be nervous but remember theres a first for everything. I know that sounds cliche' but its true, hopefully that thought will reassure you. K.. my tips (these are my opinion): standing up is the most easy. sitting down is difficult because you have to twist and turn your bodys to face each other. laying down is easy too but that might be a little too experianced for a first time (if you get what im saying). You can stand with your hands on his shoulders and his on your hips- like your slow dancing. Go in for a kiss, your head should be slightly tilted opposite of his. When your lips meet, open your mouth and he should open his too. Then move your tongue around. People say try to spell your name with your tongue, but you mostly just concentrate on not screwing up. Then close your mouths, re-open, and stick your tongue in, then repete. Thats pretty much it. The basics I guess. You'll get better the more you do it, trust me. Also, don't slobber all over your bf. Its soo nasty. Keep your tongue either in his mouth or yours.. not on his face. Make sure you have good breath (get mints before hand or icy/hot gum). Just let him lead- by that I mean don't go faster or slower than him, just try to follow his flow. Heres a site that can help you more-
http://www.kissingbooth.com/
Hope this helped =), good luck!
-Katie
16/F Hollister_lover09
Iv been doing gymnastics for a couple of years now. At the end of my freshman year I got into it and i was doing really good. I mean i had a backhandspring in like a week, and was adding little tricks to it. Then I tore my ACL and missed 9 months of it. I started back up in Feb. But I came to notice, I think im not doing something right with my backhandspring.
Okay, I go over, But I leave my hands down and wait for ym feet to go over. Is this even right?
I'm pretty sure its not, But I cant remember, And i havent been to gymnastics since March maybe, but I;m going tonight. Can someone tell me if im doing it wrong, what can I do to make it better?
P.s if you do NOT do gymnastics and suggest reading something, I will rate low. I want a gymnast to answer. Thank you and sorry*
Im in cheerleading not gymnastic but i have/had the same problem. My flipflops are slow pretty much. I would just leave my hands down till my feet hit the ground. I was told I just need to snap my feet down more and push with my shoulders. Try thinking of flexing your stomach and staying straight, then making your toes really fast. By that I mean get your toes under youre body faster. Hope this helped
I am elevn years of age.Well, there is this guy and i really like him.he likes me to.he asked me out but i said i just wanted to be friends.i really want to go out with him but i went out with him twice in the past and those two times i did he started to like this other girl.(i don't want to name her name)i am really confused.i don't want to get my heartbroken again.should i give him another chance or should i just be friends.sry if this is to long i just need advice.
signed:confused and heartbroken.
Is he worth it? You're going to get hurt no matter what, sooner or later. Would you go out with him then get hurt, or just avoid it all together? If you don't want to get hurt, stay friends. But if you like him too much to not be with him then go for it. Everything ends, remember that. Hope this helped
my bf and i are 15 and his penis is quite small
and he has a real hang up about it i love him
and i want to reassure him what should i do?
why do guys worry about size?
Guys worry about size as much as girls worry about their boobs. If they are small they don't feel confident, they can get made fun of, and they just don't like it. Sometimes you can't make him feel better because theres nothing that can change it, but you can tell him that it doesn't matter to you or that you like it/him they way it/he is. He might like it if you tell him its cute or something. Haha, hope this helped
kay so i have this friend. and she is totally awesome. but i dont think im gonna see her ever again cause im moving. and it sucks. she was my smiley face partner and everything. i mean seriously. this girl is the coolest. and im gonna miss her sooooo much. help me figure out what to do!!
-kate. (p.s. the person im talking about is you =])
Have a partay. =) hahahah im guna miss you, too!
So right now I'm in a dance intensive that consists of 3 hours and 15 minutes (roughly more or less depending on the day) of actual dance classes. 5 days a week.
And I was eating 1200 cals a day but I've stopped that and i'm taking it up to 1400 now b/c i couldn't maintain 1200 and it was too low. Is 1400 too low?
(5'2" and 154 lbs)
How much weight do you think I will lose by the end of the summer? (after the dance thing ends in 3 weeks i'm going to continue working out 5 days a week)
I've hit a really bad plateau recently, i've been 154 (and fluctuating 2-6 pounds around there) for about 2 months. And I've kept my eating and exercise habits the same. I can't lose anymore weight it seems. So help.
http://body.aol.com/diet/basics/smart-diet-tips
That can really help. Take time to read all those, trust me you'll learn alot.
ok i asked you a question a while ago about liking that guy who has a girlfriend and he told me he likes me too. well hes still going out with her, but he flirts with me even more now. hes always being so sweet. and i talk to him on the phone almsot every day for like hours. and he told me hes starting to like me alot more. but i feel bad flirting with him if he has a girlfriend, but its hard to stop flirting with him if i really really like him.
helppp me please.
ily
Tell him that. If you talk alot on the phone then im sure its not hard to just say, "I feel bad because you have a girlfriend and I don' want to.. blabla". You know. I don't blame you, you don't want to hurt the other girl do you? My best bet is to just tell him and hopefully he'll catch on by breaking up with her or something. Hope this helped
do you answer every single question that is asked?
Most of them. Not if they are jokes or I can tell they're fake.
alright so im always like really cold.
like all the time. ill be sweating but
ill feel cold.
i dont know its really weird. do you
know what it is?
Maybe you have a fever. When I get them I get really cold but my body temperature is hot. You might just have naturally high body heat. If it becomes too much of a problem or your concerned, tell a parent or contact a doctor. Good luck, hope this helped
how do you put an advicenators link in your myspace?
then title you want to give your link goes here
The code might not show up, but just instant messge me and i'll give it to you.