14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month. we're hanging out later today and i'm sure pretty we're gonna make out. i want to and everything, it's just that i never have before and i'm really scared that i'm gonna do something wrong. do you have any tips or know any websites that will help me? i know everyone says "it just happens" but i know some people who it didnt "just happen" for.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? bLue_in_tHe_faCe answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 4:22 pm: Alright, I understand you might be nervous but remember theres a first for everything. I know that sounds cliche' but its true, hopefully that thought will reassure you. K.. my tips (these are my opinion): standing up is the most easy. sitting down is difficult because you have to twist and turn your bodys to face each other. laying down is easy too but that might be a little too experianced for a first time (if you get what im saying). You can stand with your hands on his shoulders and his on your hips- like your slow dancing. Go in for a kiss, your head should be slightly tilted opposite of his. When your lips meet, open your mouth and he should open his too. Then move your tongue around. People say try to spell your name with your tongue, but you mostly just concentrate on not screwing up. Then close your mouths, re-open, and stick your tongue in, then repete. Thats pretty much it. The basics I guess. You'll get better the more you do it, trust me. Also, don't slobber all over your bf. Its soo nasty. Keep your tongue either in his mouth or yours.. not on his face. Make sure you have good breath (get mints before hand or icy/hot gum). Just let him lead- by that I mean don't go faster or slower than him, just try to follow his flow. Heres a site that can help you more-
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