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Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do? (link)
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your not fat at all!! im 5'1 and i weigh 103 and im 15! your not fat at all! dont kid yourself and seriously dont listen to other people, they only do that bc they know it gets to you, and being bolimic is not good at all, that and aneroxia is horrible for your body, stay on your diet dont eat any fatty food/junk food. you should be able to loose weight by the summer, and dont worry about other people their all gay, and if you just stay on your diet, DONT throw up, excersise alot, you should be good for the summer, please dont throw up its bad. do it for your friends hun. xo Renee
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Hey, theres this guy. Me and him lately, we've been fighting. I don't really know him in real life. But he was a good friend. Well, what happend was he made a "bet" with a guy who will remain nameless that he could win me over. "Nameless" and me have loved each other for about a half of a month now. We never started dating because we wanted the space and everything. And this guy goes and says he makes a bet after making me cry and everything. You get me so far? I know I can be confusing sorry. And well, then, today, after he made the bet. I asked "nameless" about it and he claims there was no bet, and I actually believe him. He never lies to me. And well, this guy who screwed around with my mind I really don't know what to do. I want to be friends. But I'm scared the same thing will happen again. But he was such a good friend. He always helped me out when I needed it. What should I do? Please, tell me. Should I try and be friends again, or just not be friends and try to forget him?
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give him a chance people make mistakes, you both have been friends for a while now, i dont think this thing will ruin your friendship forever. x0Renee
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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
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i hope you havent thrown up in the morning/s yet, because then most likely that you are, go to a store and buy a pergnancy test thats the best thing for you to do, if it says that your not pergnant then yippie! you just skipped a month, that sometimes happens when you first get your period. you cant feel an unborn baby thats in your vag, its prabably the cervix, well go take a test please! xo Renee
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iv recently been dumped by a guy named brandon he dumped me for his ex gf,basically i got fucked over.i made a huge deal about it all this week i wouldnt talk to him even though he tried to talk to me he dumped his gf.He wants his old friends back we both have the same friends but they wouldnt talk to him cuz he broke up with me they thought it was messed up.I thought about everything and i want to be friends with him still but i dont kno how to say that to him i havent talked to him or looked him in the eyes a while im afraid of rejection that hell tell me he dusnt want to be my friend..how do i say this to him (link)
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i woudl talk to him about why hed dump you, and how he hurt your feelings by doing that, thats not right how he went back to his exgf! you can still be friends with him without the feeling of rejection, because your friends most of the time people just drift apart, and i dont think that will happen, you guys got the same friends, and everything can be back to normal just that u both dont go out, you get what i mean? well cheer up xo Renee
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IF a friend says bad things behind your back and you and her are the bestest friends in the world should you still be friends with them? I want to but i don't know if that is right or not?? (link)
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if one of my best friends said something behind my back, well it would have to depend on what they said about me, if it was bad and i couldn't believe that and i got mad.. all i gotta say is that its going to happen again and again, i know that you would want to stay friends with her but i wouldn't, sorry, i just know from expierence of a ton of friends who talked behind my back, and i realized they weren't really my friends. but i think it all depends on what they said, x0 Renee
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hey yeah i know this is bad but im 12 and i had sex with my boyfriend of 1 year now.. and we didnt use a condom and its 4 months from when we did and im really scared ive been feeling sick and i havent goten my period i dont know what to do. and i cant use a preg test becuase we dont have any stores around (were like in the middle of no where) and my mom and dad dont have insurance to go to bring me to the doctors and i cant tell them. i dont know what to do HELP (link)
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its been 4 months since youve had your period? =/ ut oh.. go to a search engine and type in syptoms of pregancy, and see if you have the syptoms of it. i hope your not! theres no drug stores around you? anywhere? do you have any older friends/older sister/ or does ur bf have an older brother/sister that could drive, maybe you should tell at least whoever you can who will drive you to a store about whats going on.. have you told your bf that you haven't gotten your period, it think you should do that if u havent, and then both of you can figure out a way to get to a store to take a test. im sorry, i hope your not.. x0 Renee.
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My friends and I might be taking a trip to New York! My crush is going on the trip too! I already told him i liked him! what should i do during the trip with my crush? any suggestions on what i should o or say to my crush?! (link)
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when you guys go wlak around in ny walk with him and start up a convo, like the weather or how much money he has, you can start off a convo off of anythign pretty much =) you should get to know him and maybe on the way to ny sit with him? that would be a good idea, dont miss out on anything and have fun in ny! x0 Renee
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ok i have this friend. I have wrote one just like this but this girl lives in the same town as me. And all what she does is Drink and got Stoned. 24/7 that is all. And see i am really worried about her cause she when she get a drink in her hand so won't stop till it is all gone. She will even clean the house clean just to got a some. And she always says why do you care. Or just drop it. I try but i cna't cause i care about her to much. if there is tha can help me. Just wirte back. Michy (link)
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well since your not into that kind of things i dont think.. or maybe sometimes but not like your friend here, why dont u start hanging out with her more, since you dont/maybe if you dont do anything that will want her to smoke or drink, she'll start to lay off drinking and smoking not as much, its hard to get her to completely stop bc it seems to me shes been doing this for a while and maybe its becoming a habit of her, just talk to her as a friend, im sure she wont get mad because you care about her. x0 Renee
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ok strange stuff has been happening to me I see like some thing happen in my head then they actually come true and soem times I will cry for know reason and then some thing later that day or week some thing really really sad happend weather its on tv or at home and then I told my friend that my cat might die becuz she was really sick and I promise 5 minutes later the vet called to tell us she died I think I am becomeing a freak (link)
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crazy, i wish that i was like that. your not a freak dont think that, yea its weird and strange that this happens to you, but its not a bad thing and you shouldn't get upset or scared about it. sometimes people just have a feeling that somethings goign to happen. its not a bad thing. x0 Renee
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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight? (link)
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yes but you can get used to it and if you eat small portions of food you think your going to get fat because you had like a cracker or something, but yes you could die from it. this is a serious eating disorder, please get some help for it, its not good for your body, your body need protien vitamens and stuff like that and if you dont eat you cant really live.. =/ please eat. x0 Renee
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Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks! (link)
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oh boy, just tell her staright out that your straight, yea i say that girls are pretty but i dont actually mean it like more than friends! oh man! she should understand because you guys are good friends. just be honest, its the best way to go than just going along with it x0 Renee
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ok here i go. i really don't like to talk to ppl about my boyfriend cause all my friends that i have told has already flip out on me for gooing back out my ex the guy that use to hit me. Well he was going to court the next day we started going back out. Cause he wanted some one that his kids knew really well to tell them about there dad. so stupid me i said i would. So then when we found out what the judge gave him. It was 12 months in JSC he would get out at 6 months to go to Rehib that was if he behaved nicely. And then he has cleaning up the town and stuff like that. And i didn't know how to tell his kids about it. So i just said that daddy has to go away for a while. But he said once he got out we would get back together. Cause he said that he has change and i wasn't sure if he had you not. So then i said that i will give him a try if i was in town. Cause we might be moving. Out of the state so then he was like i will come and get you and then we will move together. And i am not sure if i should or not. What should i do cause i am still in love with him :( Michy (link)
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thats not right at all for a man to hit a woman, but thats a very sweet thing of you to do for his kids, thats a big plus. other than that, i just think that you should be there just to help the kids, MAYBE he changed, but its not a definate hopefully he has tho, give him a chance, and see what happens, if one little thing goes wrong break it off with him because usually if it happens once its goign to happen again. hopefully things changed =) x0 Renee
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I've been friends with my best friend Kristen, for about a year or two. Recently I got with this guy, and him and I got into a conversation the other day about what we would give up for each other. I then realized, that I would give up my best friend Kristen, for this guy. Does that mean that I'm an awful friend? The way I look at it, it seems that my boyfriend has replaced my old best friend.. and he is now not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well, which is why I feel I could give her up for him. Let me know. &heart; (link)
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yea my boyfriend pretty much is my bf and my best friend.. and yeah he did take over of my best friends place because hes been there i see him alot more and yea it kinda sucks to tell ya the truth, but i dont think your an awful friend to give her up for a bf, but in her eyes , its the worst thing anyone could do.. but its not actually true, you just drift apart from eachother and your bf starts to take over. dont worry about it, its not the worst thing you could do to your friend. x0 Renee
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ok, about a week or two ago i was at my friends birthday party. there was about 15 or so people there. we were all in her basement dancing and eating ext. her parents keep all the food on shelves down there and their alcohol too. well a few people decided to put some rum in a few of the soda cans. we hadnt known her parents marked those bottles. we all got busted at about 3 am ish. as soon as i found out her parents knew and they were going to tell our parents i was so upset. i didnt even have any. my parents were talking to me about it because they wanted to know what was going on. i told them that it was all lauras fault and she was drinking alot. it really wasnt but i was very very mad at her because i thought she was going to go out with the guy i like because he likes her and i thought she might like him too. now my parents hate her and im not ever allowed to see her again because they think shes a "bad influence" on me. how do i get my parents to forgive laura and like her again and let me be friends with her again??
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just tell your parents it was a one time thing that she drank, hopefullyt ahts all that you told your parents about laura. but bad idea staying at an underage drinking party, if you knew that her parents were strict, i dont think this all would have happened, so just tell your parents it was a one time thing and she doesn't do it anymore. x0
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im not sure if this would be considered friendship but my friends friend has this boyfriend Nathaniel who abuses girls. He gets so mad easily and well my friends friend is doing bad things like she is doing bad in school, and she does stuff with nathaniel like lets him feel her and finger her which is disgusting. She hasnt gotten to sex but shes gotten to her clothes like halfway off and she also smokes pot. The only problem is my friends friend isnt my friend but why wont my friend do anything about it??? (link)
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i would say that, shes afraid to say anything for her to get mad at her.. idk if you get this, i dont think your friend wants to say anything to her, b/c ur friend is afraid to loose her friendship. hopefully your friend will be able to say something to her intime something bad happens with her realationship with her bf, she should say something to her no matter waht, this is what friends are for, talk to your friend and see if she'll talk to the girl that you aren't friends with.. x0 Renee
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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well i dont think you should be like hey your cute! start talking to him and get to know him to see if you really like him =) talk about your ss class or gym, its a good way to start off! x0 Renee
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I am 13, and I am going back out with my X Boyfriend, I'll call him Alex. Now, In our past Alex and I have went out two times. The first time we went out, everything was perfect. I thought I ment my true love. And he was in love with me, and I was in love with him. Then one night Alex and I went out to a hockey game. Amazing nigh, i had the best time ever. I thought nothing else could go wrong. After we both went home, I got on the computer and he said something mean to my best friend, Leah. And I asked him why he said that, and he started flipping out on me, saying that everything he does is wrong, he never does anything write. And he started cursing at me. Calling me things, then he said why don't you find somebody else thats better than me. And I told him, there is NOBODY that is better than you, I love you Alex. Then he said that again, took me out of his profile and put an away message up. He came back about 10 minutes later, and said he was so sorry he didn't mean anything he said. I was so mad, I didn't know what to do. I wanted to say I was sorry too, but i couldn't, I told him I don't want to take his crap anymore. And his only excuse was, ''I only had one girlfriend before, give me a break.'' And then I was so mad that he broke up with me, I went out with my other X-boyfriend Josh. (that same day). And Josh and I went to a football game the day after everything happened. And I really didn't like Josh, I just wanted to go out with somebody to make me happy, and try to get over Alex. And when I was going out with Josh, I was still loving Alex the whole time. Then at the football game, I couldn't take it anymore, I needed Alex, after seeing him there and everything, I couldn't help it but to remember everything that we had. So at the football game i broke up with Josh and went back out with Alex. We lasted about 2 weeks (at the most) and he broke up with me, because he said that he couldn't stop thinking about me going out with Josh. And then about two months after that happened, he went out with somebody else named Ali. And when they were going out, i was so mad. I couldn't help thinking about what we used to have the first time we went out. And while they were going out Alex and I started talking again, being close friends again. And I started loving him more and more every day. And one day he was so mad, and he wouldn't tell me why. He said ''I only need one thing to make me smile in this world''. And i was thinking about it all night, he wouldn't tell me what that one thing he needed to smile was. And I thought that it was me, the way he said it. Because then he said, ''Why do you want to know, you wont be able to give it to me anyways'' And then I told him that i still love him, and I need him so bad. A couple days after that, he told me that that one thing he needs was me. He said he never stopped liking me. I couldn't beleave it. And now were going back out again. For the third time. I acutally think this time is going to work, and he tells me he loves me soo much, and everything else like that. And I beleave him. And that's what he told me the first time we went out. And I wanna beleave him, but I keep thinking about what he told me the first time. And im scared he's going to get me to love him again more and more, then break up with me again. What do you think I should do? Beleave him or not? XoXo **AmberO** (link)
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sry hun, my advice is that dont believe all the things hes telling you, hes gone out with 2 people and you both seem young and dont know how relationships are really sopossed to work.. so if you guys broke up twice i dont think a third time things are gong to be perfect and everythings going to last forever, if one thing happens it sets a steady pattern, if you haven't noticed, sorry but i think that, x0 Renee
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i was just wonderin... well i just got my period for the first time yesterday and i wanted to know how many pads your supposed to go trough it one day? (link)
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3-5 should do it, but all depends on your flow like everyone else said and its true. x0 Renee
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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves.. (link)
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tell him that it annoys you and let him remember that your a girl not one of his guy friends, this always happens to me and my bf, we wrestle sometimes and it gets to the point where i get hurt or he hurts me in a playful meaning!! hes not abusing me for you to know, and i have to tell him im a girl and i cant be thrown around! you guys will work it out so dont worry about brekaing up. x0 Renee
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hey im turning 14 on febuary 3rd & i just moved into a nice big house(media room,living room,5 bedroom,big bakyard that goes to a lake) but anyways im thinking of havin a party & like invitin like 15-25 ppl ova for it & mayb a d.j. i have no clue wut 2 do! i wunt 2 have a party sooo bad & i dont wunt it 2 suk so i need ideas on stuff 2 do please! thanx i rate 5!
P.S. i have a g/f weve been together for 6 months & i have lots of friends & im popular & i also need 2 know how 2 get my parents out & im male! (link)
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i dont think your parents are going to let you have the house to yourself ( aka a house party ) but i'm sure that they wont be like 'okay lets play pin the tail on the donkey!!!' so i dont think you have to worry about them too much, well where i live, ny, its all snow but if it was the summer i would say like put up a tent like most people do if you ever went to a graduation party and they put tables underneath there, so i would say have the dj under there and everything outside by the lake or something, put up a volley ball net and stuff (boy i wish it was summer now since im talking about it lol) but i'm not quite sure where you live, but if its going to be in the house i would say pick a room where your parents wouldn't mind a ton of kids in, like maybe the basement cuz you guys might be really loud, maybe get out some games and stuff like that, like once again idk where you live, but happy early birthday and have fun! =) x0 Renee
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