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ok i have this friend. I have wrote one just like this but this girl lives in the same town as me. And all what she does is Drink and got Stoned. 24/7 that is all. And see i am really worried about her cause she when she get a drink in her hand so won't stop till it is all gone. She will even clean the house clean just to got a some. And she always says why do you care. Or just drop it. I try but i cna't cause i care about her to much. if there is tha can help me. Just wirte back. Michy
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hAVING A FRIEND WHO IS DRUNK AND YOU WANT TO HELP BUT YOU CANT BECAUSE YOUR TO SCARED OR YOU DONT WANT TO HURT THEM AND THEN LOOSE A REALLY GOOD FRIEND. (wHEN SHE IS SOBER)Sit her down and ask her what is her favorite beverageand eez your way in to the topic of i want to help you not get stoned because i'm getting hurt as well as you.
Start off slow and if she doesn't want to talk tell her you need to. You might even want to check out the d.a.r.e. programe on helping a friend.
Your the one incharge so if you eez on in i no you can figure it out! Good luck!
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well i would love to help you on this thing but the issue is I CANT UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR SAYING!!!!!!
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are you foriegn? i have no idea what you just said
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my friend do the same but i just started doin that shiit with her so chill and let yo friend make her own decisions...
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well since your not into that kind of things i dont think.. or maybe sometimes but not like your friend here, why dont u start hanging out with her more, since you dont/maybe if you dont do anything that will want her to smoke or drink, she'll start to lay off drinking and smoking not as much, its hard to get her to completely stop bc it seems to me shes been doing this for a while and maybe its becoming a habit of her, just talk to her as a friend, im sure she wont get mad because you care about her. x0 Renee
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just try to explain to her that you are her friend and really care about her and that your worried.. thats about all you can do and if she wants to quit she will. but it`s not something you can force. if you want maybe you can try to "destract" her from it by spending time with her at a place that wouldn`t promote drinking or getting high
xO <3 sara
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