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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
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It doesn't mean you were raised wrong. It just means that it was your parent's decision to tell you about sex when you were that age. They thought it was appropriate, and you should trust their choice. I knew what it was when I was six or seven, don't worry.
-FunnyCide
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15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything. (link)
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No. It's not "pathetic." I know several people who are fifteen or over and have never had a boyfriend. Don't worry about it. One day your prince will come! Don't be a whore and take any guy and be forced to have sex and then be dumped. Not a good idea, darling. Just be patient. Develop your character and inner beauty - and take good care of your self, outer beauty! Eat right, exercise, take care of your skin, and guys will fall in love with your beautiful character and personality and love your outer features. Trust me. ;) He's out there.
It's better to wait for the RIGHT guy to come at the RIGHT time than to have the WRONG guy to come at YOUR time.
-FunnyCide
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I'm dating a good Christian boy.. it's been more than 2 months now. He's great in every way, however, all our convos are really "mushy" and "romantic" I guess I am pretty 'innocent' however, I sorta want to spice up our relationship a bit. We never talk 'kinky' or any of the sort. It might be because he's religious.. although that seems like a bit of an excuse. I'm just getting a bit bored, is all.
Is this a stupid request? How can I bring this up to him? Do most people talk kinky with their boyfriend/girlfriends? I'm a little ignorant to all this. Thanks everyone, though. (link)
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Umm... I'm a Christian, as is my boyfriend, and we NEVER have talked "kinky." Sure, sometimes it's a little "romantic" or "mushy," as you say, but never... uh.. kinky.
Getting a bit bored? Try to get to know him on a new level. Make him your best friend. Know everything about him. Tell him your depest thoughts, hopes, dreams, feelings. You'll not be bored.
-FunnyCide
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ok well this christmas seems like its going to be terrible... because i'm like gettting older, and all i can think about is who my friends are these days.. so it makes me in a terrible mood the whole time. I don't know what to do, because i'm not even excited. Ugh, somebody help please, what can i do to be happy? and i'm sorry if this didn't make sence..i'm just not really in a good mood =\ (link)
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Well... as you get older, Christmas may seem to lose it's magic. For a little whle at least. I suppose these turbulent teenaged years are... well, difficult to muddle through. Don't worry. I feel the same way. Tomrrow is Christmas Eve... and so what? That's how I feel. I don't really care about the presents.. yeah, sure, a fence panal here, a CD there, a scarf here... yeah, ok. It's nothing big. I don't really care.
Maybe you're just in a bad mood right now, or maybe you are just like I am.
I was skating earlier... in a short sleeved shirt and cargo pants. What's up with that!? When is it warm enough to go without a jacket so near to Christmas? I just .. I'm not excited either.
I went to the Nutcracker ballet, and have watched half a million Christmas movies (all of which promise that if you're not in the Christmas spirit now, you will be when you fisish watching the movie)... and still, nothing.
Don't feel bad. You are not alone.
I don't have a lot of friends so they don't usually occupy my mind... except like 20 hours a day. ;)
If you haven't watched a lot of Christmas movies, try doing that, and wearing red and green, drinking egg nog, and wishing all your friends a merry Christmas (over IM, or E-mail, or try calling them on the phone). Other than that.. how should I know?
I think you'll get back into it though. There's probably between 3-9 years (more or less, depending) when you are just a little .. confused and don't enjoy things like you used to. When you get a little older, you'll like it again.
-FunnyCide
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see this is how i got this web my sister told me about this we. and im not sure ghow yo really use this web so if u could would u maybe tell me a lil more on this web site
TO ALL! (link)
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-FunnyCide
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My boyfriend has popped the Question and I said yes, and we're trying to decide on a ring. Neither of us care for diamonds. I've heard of non-diamond engagement rings but they seem to always be "precious" stones, that is, ruby, emerald or sapphire. My favorite stone is the amethyst, which is considered only "semi-precious" but I just love that purple color, and it can come in huge sizes. Would a semi-precious stone like an amethyst be considered appropriate for an engagement ring? Also, if I were to get an amethyst, or any non-diamond stone for that matter, what do I tell nosy people who ask why I didn't get a diamond? (link)
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I don't think that it would be inappropriate to have an amethyst as an engagment ring. In fact.. if you like it - get it. Tell those nosy people that you have to wear it and look at it for the rest of your life, so why get a stone you don't really like?
I don't think there is a set of "rules" about which stone is right or wrong for an engagement right. Only you can decide.
Mazeltov.
-FunnyCide
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ummmm in one of your questions you gave the wrong answer it was what does xoxo mean and you put x as kisses and o as hugs thats not right sorry .::katie::. (link)
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Katie,
Just out of sheer curiousity, did you "Inbox" everyone who said that the 'x' is kisses and the 'o' is hugs? Because there were a lot of us who said that. In fact... there were more of us that said the hug is the 'o' and the kiss is the 'x' than there were people who said the 'x' is hugs and the 'o' is kisses.
Anyway, like it really matters? It was a silly question about a silly group of letters that - in any case - means "hug, kiss, hug, kiss." Does it really matter? No. It's your opinion on what letter stands for what, but it is not a fact. It is only my opinion, not a fact.
I could understand asking this if this were over a serious question - but it isn't. I respect your opinion... but just because someone else's answer isn't the same as yours doesn't make the answer wrong.
-FunnyCide
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I have to write 5 full page essays on this book. I've read the book but it's way too hard for me to comprehend. Sparknotes doens't help because it just summarizes it. Does anyone know any other websites that will help me out with this book? (link)
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I had to read this book and it was a little confusing. Try these sites.
http://www.gradesaver.com/search/?query=the+scarlet+letter&x=0&y=0
http://www.eldritchpress.org/nh/slstudent.html
http://owleyes.org/scarlet.htm
http://www.cliffsnotes.com/WileyCDA/LitNote/id-167.html
http://www.online-literature.com/hawthorne/scarletletter/
Or you could try Googling it.
-FunnyCide
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ok so the other day i put on a pad from my moms package of em (they were light flow ones) just to see what a pad would feel like when i finally got my period. well omg it was like wearing a diaper, it was huge on my underwear and i couldnt even like move in my pants lol cause it itched and was so big.. why is this what am i going to do when the time comes for a pad! (link)
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Yeah, that's how I think it feels when wearing a pad.. like wearing a diaper! I hate it! Try tampons. You're still young, and you'll probably need the junior/slim tampons. Tampax makes them so small and light that you can't feel them, they don't hurt to put in or take out, and you have no discomfort because they're so small. I'd still wear a panty-liner "just in case," but tampons are way better.
-FunnyCide
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hey there, ((sorry if longg))
my name is jessica and i have a little problem. i have always liked my best friend as more then a friend..well i do not like him...i am in love with him (link)
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Well.. only you can decide for yourself. I think he probably was caught up in the moment, but that his actions WERE true and wanted to show himself to you and right then was the perfect opportunity. Maybe he didn't mean to let it go so far, but he did like you and needed a way to show you.
The only way you can really know is if you ask him. Though I think he likes you, based on the given information.
-FunnyCide
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okay really random question. but in xoxo. which is the hug and which is the kiss? (link)
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I wondered that too... well, until I found out a few years ago.
x = kiss
o = hug
The "x" is the kiss because.. um.. maybe you have to have good aim? Haha. I have no idea.
The "o" is the hug because you wrap your arms around someone? Haha. I still have no idea.
-FunnyCide
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Hi, my name is Aaron and I'm from Irvington. I'm a religious person. Can someone tell me how to get a Christian girlfriend and make it last a long time? (link)
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Dear Aaron from Irvington,
Friendship. Friendship is the key. You MUST be close friends or your relationship will NOT work out (usually). Hang out with Christian girls at your school or church, get to know them, and if you're interested in one of them, build a solid friendship with her, and if you're still interested in her, ask her out. To make it last? Be :
- Honest
- Kind
- Caring
- Gentle
- Affectionate (but DON'T push her)
- Loving
- Mild
- Open
- Tell her how you feel
- DON'T CHEAT ON HER
- DON'T talk about other girls around her
- DON'T 'check out' other girls around her (or at all!)
Of course, this may not keep your relationship. You just might not be suited for each other.
-FunnyCide
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what time does (christian) church usually start? (link)
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That really depends on which church you decide to go to. My church starts Sunday school at 8:45 AM [well, we are supposed to, but no one is there until 9 AM or so]. Worship service starts at 10:00 AM, we are dismissed -- usually -- by 11:15 AM. This is different, however, from, say, my boyfriend's church. Their Sunday school starts at 9:00 AM and worship service at 10:30 AM, and they're dismissed around 12:00 PM. My friend's church doesn't start Sunday school until 9:30 AM, worship service at 10:45 AM, and they're not out of church until 12:30 or later.
It just depends on the church.
-FunnyCide
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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No way! You're so not a freak. Come on, you're how old? Twelve? Thirteen, oldest? So what? SO WHAT!? Other people have been kissed. You're not like other people. Are you? NO! So what that other people have been kissing. It doesn't matter. At all. If you're not ready, don't push yourself. You can always have that first kiss, but you can't ever take it back. Look, I'm in 9th/10th grade and I've never been kissed. It doesn't bother me, because, though I have a boyfriend, I'm not ready for it. Don't fuss about it, don't think you're abnormal. Your time will come.
-FunnyCide
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Tonight 6 or 7 of my friends are having a get together. A few boys and some girls. I have nothing planned! What are some activities we can do? We can't really go somewhere cuz the car doesnt hold that many pple. We're all 13 so keep it age appropriate. Thanks ! (link)
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Games, games, games!
I had a party today, and it was so much good, clean fun. It was a mixture of guys and girls, age ranging from 11 to 17.
One game we played was where you make even rows of people (like three rows of four). It's a little hard to understand what this looks like, so I'll demonstrate.
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Ok, the four dots indicate four people. They're standing back to front - like they were going to conga. Make as many lines of people as you need, like straight lines of people. Make sure they're even. (Or as even as possible)
The last person of each row is taken to a different room and shown a picture. This picture needs to be fairly simple, like a lightbulb (a cartoon drawing), a Christmas tree, a leaf, a smiley face, a car, etc. The people who were taken from the rows go back to their spots, where they draw the picture they saw (with their finger) on the back of the person standing in front of them. The second person draws the picture on the back of the person in front of them, and so on and so forth until there is only one person - the person in the front - who draws what they felt on their back on a piece of paper. This gets really hard because you can't talk to each other, and you have to feel the picture on your back, then transfer it from person to person to paper.
Another game.
Give everyone ten (or more, or less, depending on what you wish) pennies, or BINGO chips. Have everyone sit in a circle; put a bowl in the center of the circle. Choose someone to start. This person has to say something they have NOT done, but someone else may have done. Whoever has done the action at hand must put one of their chips in the bowl. The object is to have the most chips at the end of the game.
Example : I have never had braces, but many of my friends have. So everyone who has had braces must put one of their chips in a bowl.
You would say :
[person one] : I've never had braces.
[group of people] : 'I have,' 'I have not,' 'I have,' etc. etc. If the person has had braces, they put one chip in the bowl. If they have not had braces, they do not have to do anything. This continues around the circle, each person thinking of something they've NEVER done, but that someone else may have done.
Another game.
This one is called "Honey, if you love me, you'll smile." This game is best explained if I use names. The names I'm using are Charlie, Jill, Meagan, Lee, Ben, and Samantha. [these are not real people.] Ben is the starting person.
NARRATION : Ben's objective is to make someone smile so he is no longer 'it.' He is allowed to make funny faces, sing, dance, or whatever he wants to do (with the sole exception of TOUCHING the person) while he says his line - 'Honey, if you love me, you'll smile.' The second person must reply to Ben, without smiling at all, looking him in the eye, saying 'I'm sorry, -Enter name-, but I don't love you at all.'
[Ben] : Honey, if you love me, you'll smile.
[Jill] : I'm sorry, Ben, but I don't love you at all.
NARRATION : Since Ben had no luck with Jill, despite the fact that he was singing his line and dancing (quite poorly, I might add), he must move on and try, try again!
[Ben] : Honey, if you love me, you'll smile.
[Charlie] : I'm sorry, Ben, but I don't love ... [Charlie smiles.]
NARRATION : Since Charlie smiled, he is now 'it.'
[Charlie] : Honey, if you love me, you'll smile.
[Meagan] : I'm sorry, Charlie, but I don't love you at all.
NARRATION : Charlie must try again.
[Charlie] : Honey, if you love me, you'll smile.
[Samantha] : I'm sorry, Char... [Samantha smiles.]
NARRATION : Since Samantha smiled, she is now 'it.'
You can see how the game works now. You end whenever you want to.
There are also movie options as well as board games.
Sorry I wasn't much other help.
-FunnyCide
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Is it true that if your period is abnormal .. like it is a period that you never expect it to come and it skips a few months .. that you won't be able to have a baby when you get olderI'm 15 and I started my period at March (9 months ago) And I haven't had it since July (5 months ago) And I know there isnt anything wrong with me because my friend is the same way and her doctor said there is nothing wrong with her. And I read articles about your period not getting regular until a year after. But my question is .. Does this mean I won't be able to have kids? Because I want them and I don't want that to happen! (link)
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Oh, there's nothing wrong with you!! It's perfectly normal for your period to fluctuate -- to have it one month, then skip two months, have it one month, then another month, then skip four months. It's just that your body hasn't learned to be regular. You're fine. You should be able to have children normally when the time comes.
-FunnyCide
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For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?! (link)
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I do that too. Even with my boyfriend, sometimes I look away when he tries to look into my eyes. It's a little different when someone like my best guy friend looks into my eyes than when my boyfriend looks into my eyes. When my best friend looks, usually he's got a question, or he's questioning my behavior, or mood, or asking, with his eyes, if something's wrong. Same for my best female friend. But when a guy that "likes" me looks into my eyes, it's unbearable. I just look away. It's like... they're penetrating. That is, if I like them back. If it's a guy that likes me and I don't like him, psh, I'll stare him down. But when my boyfriend looks into my eyes... it's very sweet, and passionate. It's like he can see into my soul.
"The eyes are the window to the soul."
How true is that? I'm not totally sure who said that, but whoever it was - they were smart! Because I feel like he's looking into my very person, like he can see what I'm thinking and feeling.
That's probably why you look away, it's like he can see inside you.
It's like anyone can see inside you. It's rather normal.
If you want to fix it, practice not showing emotion in your eyes and face, then when someone looks into your eyes, they don't see anything that you wouldn't want them to see. I'm an expert at hiding my feelings (except, it seems, from my boyfriend! .. But then again, why would I want to do that?).
Some people are too stupid to be able to look into your eyes and see what you're feeling. Or maybe it's just something that some people have and others don't. Either way. You're not alone.
-FunnyCide
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ok, i started my period on the first, and it ended a while ago.. but im STILL having "smudges" is there somthing wrong?
13/f (link)
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Are you sure it's your period and not just discharge? If you're positive it is blood, it may not be from your period. I have a friend who thought she was having an extremely abnormally long period (three weeks!), but when she went to the doctor, it turned out that she had an urinary tract infection. Perhaps you should ask your mom, and if the bleeding continues, go see your doctor.
-FunnyCide
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Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose
-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...
I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out?? (link)
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Ok so if you don't like him, and he asks you out, just kindly tell him that you don't have feelings for him "that way." Or just say "No." That always works. It's hard to hurt someone like that, but don't lead him on - he'll hate you later. Just tell him that you see him more as a friend / brother than you do in a romantic sense. Help him find a girl who's interested in him, if he wants.
-FunnyCide
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ok i never herd this word before and i wanna know wat it is i probaly know wat it is jist use another word for it dont think im a big weirdo its jist that i never this word befo and i use anotha thing for it heres the word "pre-marital sex" what the heck does that mean
P.s. I know wat sex is DUH!!!!!!!! but not "pre- Martial" (link)
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Premarital sex is having sex before you're married.
Pre means before.
Marital means in the state of being married
Sex means.. duh.
It just means having sex before you're married is all.
-FunnyCide
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