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Q: Today my sister was complainging about a throbing headache soo she took advil. Well 2hrs later she was putting on make-up and her nose started bleeding. It was like gushing bllod no lie We had to throw away the towel she used it bleed for like 10 min and it coming out i chucks kinda. After it stopped her headache was gone like 5 min later.

Im wondering if you guys Know why this started bleeding like it did out of now where. And if she needs to go a doctor about it because thats what my dad plans on doing if it starts up again.

Thx.

Try and call a doctor you don't have to get an appointment just try to talk to one.

Q: I went to work today and my boss asked me if I'd be interested in transferring to another department in the store. It's a new clothing line that won't be ready until March. She said I would be gauranteed at least 25 hours a week, and I would have a new supervisor.It would sort of be a promotion I guess. I said yes, and now I'm worried that some of the other girls in my department might get jealous. This one girl in the department had really wanted into this new clothing line, and she was going to ask the manager if she could transfer because she was too scared to ask our supervisor. Our supervisor can be a little mean a times (that's an understatement). Well my supervisor aproached ME,, and asked me before this other girl. I also have seniority over her. I just know she is going to be really pissed off and jealous of me. But I HAD to except this job, because I was only getting 15 hours a week in the other department. Also, I get along really well with the lady that is going to be my new boss. How should I act around her when I see her again? I don't want to make any enemies! And before this we got along really well!

Just tell her you got promoted and try not to run into her anymore.

Q: My friend is coming to stay with me for two weeks from overseas in my september school holidays (i'm from queensland australia) problem is I'm in year 12, and my end of year exams start on the 27th of october, and he goes back on the 2nd of october. I'm really worrying now that having him stay with me will infringe on my marks as I won't get much done when he's here. I know this sounds selfish, but these exams are very important. So, what should I do? Does everyone think after he goes back I'll have enough time to concentrate on studying? Or should I try and reschedule the trip?

I'm probably worrying way too much!! lol. Thanks for your help all.

You should still plan on the trip but pick out a few hours of the day that you are going to study that way when he leaves you don't feel stressed.

Q: Everyone says that like it's just so simple. "Just get a new boyfriend!" HOW? If there isn't anyone that likes me, then how exactly am I supposed to get a boyfriend? It's not like I can just snap my fingers and have guys crawling all over me like everyone else, they just don't want to date me!

So... HOW? How do I just get a new one? HOW?

Do you really need to have a bf 24/7? Just try to chill without a boyfriend until someone comes along and don't sweat it!

Q: hey everyone. i'm writing two valentine cards for like my best guy friends. i dont like them or anything, but we are all really close. what should i like put in it? any suggestions on what to say? thanksss

How about HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

Q: ugh ok well i really like this kid hes really cute everyone wants him and all that well im good friends with his ex gf and they are like best friends so the other day he told her that he knew i like him and it was so obvious and he thought i was really cute but like i cant just talk to him she wants me to go to the movies with him but like i dont know how to talk to him i need soem convo starters and not oh act like hes your bff or talk about sports school music uh. no this is the real world honestly who does that so can some one pleaase give me advice!

Talk about friends,family. Anything that he is intreasted in. Be yourself and don't worry. Enjoy the movie like you would any other. Try to get a seat in the back. Who knows what might happen!

How does this deserve a 1??????
I didn't say anything about school!

Q: Right, im 14 and my bf is 19, dont say omg that is too much of an age difference blah blah blah because i know its not, as long as i feel confortable, then its all hunky dory, but anyway, iv only been going out with him for a few weks, but iv just realised i really dont find him sexually attractive, he's the sweetest guy ever and that, and he's sooo nice, but when we'r having sex i get so turned off by him i end up having to fake orgasms, and thats not good, i dont wanan hurt his feelings, cause i know he really loves me, but, i dont really love him anymore, what should i do?
xx

You some how have to break up with him. Try to tell him that your parents don't want you to go out with a 19 yr. old and you have to break up with him. If your parents like him and he knows thats not true you still have to break it to him somehow. Tell him what you told me about how you feel about him.

Q: For our one week of Winter Break, me, and my parents are going to California to visit my relatives. I want my best friend to come along.
She needs a place to stay for Winter Break cause her parents have to go to court [long story]Both our parents work for airlines so we'll fly for free. We'd stay at my g-ma's house [ so no hotel fee] Me and my bff have tried to go on several vacations together and my dad usually says yes but my mom ALWAYS says no. She gets mad when I ask and starts screaming. She said having my bff come along will just put stress on her.

How can I convince my mom that my friend should come to California with us? [ I need a resonable answer, that would be put in a sweet way. My mom can get very agrumentative and mean]

Your mom has a right to be mad. If your friend got hurt her parents could sue you. Car accident anything like that.

Ask your mom if your friend can come over and help with chores. Then maybe she will see that she is responsible.

Q: there is this girl that i realy like

(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)

the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?

wait until your parents break up. Then make your move in the mean time don't show any intrest in her.

Q: The only time and place I can play tennis is at night in an unlit place, so...

Can anyone tell me where to find some glow in the dark tennis balls???

And if you don't know, then please answer this question. I found some glow in the dark dog toy balls. They are semi-hard vinyl, will a semi hard vinyl ball hit like a tennis ball?

I would just get some tennis balls and get some glow in the dark spray you can get at any costume store or maybe even wal-mart and spray the balls.

Q: ok i have internet explorer and i was wondering how do you delete your history of were you have been online???? thanks

hit ctrl and h then you can right click on today and hit delete.

Q: ok i have this friend and him and i dated for a long time and well u see he had to brake up with me because his PO said so. ok so here is the thing i still want to be friends with him and i know he still likes me andi still like him but i know we could never be toghter again but when ever i talk to him my heart sinks like to the floor. what should i do

are you a cheerleader cuz you sound preppy.

Q: So my gf and I have been going out for a month, we are 16 years old, what should I get her????
I love her a lot and am open to all ideas!
I hate high!
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

Plan a romantic date. Get her some jewerly, a card and chocolate just won't cut it. You have to show her you love her more than that. If she isn't the romantic one take her go-cart-riding or paint-ball gunning thats what I would like to do. It depends on what she is like. If you tell me more about her and send it to my inbox I could give you more ideas. xoBrowneyes

Q: 16 female
My guy friend wants to have sex with me and vice versa but the only thing thats stopping us(well me)is that im a little overweight and i have stretchmarks. they're really embarasing and i dont want him to see them
is their anyway to get rid of them almost completely? will he be turned off and disgusted at the sight of seeing them? and also will it hurt reallly bad my first time?(im virgin hes not)
Pleeeze help i rate 5s! thanx

He will be turned off. There is no way to make stretchmarks go away and yes it really hurts the firt time. Your going to be very ugly in his eyes. He might even dump you because of it.

Q: Is it gross or weird for a girl with very dark and coarse hair to shave her arms?

I would die my arm hair. That way I wouldn't have to shave it. Think about it if you shave it and it grows back and then you decide that you don't want to shave any more the hair is going to be even thicker. I wouldn't do it myself.

Q: I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!!

I don't have this problem. SUCKS TO BE YOU!!!!!!!!! HA HA HA

Q: is their anyway to reduce strech marks or get rid of them?

there are creams. The next time you go to wal-mart look and see.

Q: My cousin is engaged to my ex boyfriend.
They're getting married in May.
I was the first person she told her engagement to.
She wants me to be her bridesmaid.
I don't know what am I suppose to feel.

So your question is i'm guessing what you should feel?

you should be happy for her and that you where chosen to be her bridesmaids. If you are to shy or emmarased to do this ask if it would be ok just to sit and watch. Tell her it's nothing personal.

Q: I am racially Jewish.

As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.

I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.

I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"

But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray.

Jesus is god. Basically god came down in jesus. Its all very confusing but you should get it hopefully.

Q: My friend has being going out with her boyfriend for two years now - she's just turned 16 and he's just turned 18. They've always got on really well, and he's always been a really good boyfriend, but lately he's been pressuring her for sex.
She's really not comfortable with this and is happy to carry on as before, but he's been saying how selfish she is.
He also spoke to one of his girl mates about it (someone my friend doesn't even KNOW), and this girls said very nasty things about her.
How can I help my friend? What should she do?

I think your a great friend frist of all and are doing the right thing.

However your friend needs to dump him.

1.) He is way to old for her.

2.) He shouldn't be pressuring her to do anything as small as getting a drink of water to having sex.

3.) His friend shouldn't be saying bad things about her.

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