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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way.like I trust him an he trusts me (link)
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if your friend really cares about you she should understand. why hold back from what you think feels right when it didnt work out for her?
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hey everyone. so in my opinion, im friends with the "popular" people at school. Like, im in their group and sit with them at lunch. we're bffs lol. now, in your opinions, does this make me popular?? ill rate!!! (link)
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...uhh why does it matter? You're only REALLY popular if people like you for the right reasons. If thats the case, then yeah you're popular..
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Whenever I have a guy I like or my guy friends over or just any friends in general over, my little brother ALWAYS has to be with us. I can say "Can you go upstairs for a little..just for A LITTLE..please?" and he goes "i can do whatever I want" And it gets so annoying and my mom doesn't care and she lets him annoy us.I can be in my OWN room and he STILL won't get out and my mom lets him stay in there too. I even ask her NICELY to have him go upstairs with her and she goes "he's not annoying just deal with it"..how am I EVER gonna have boys and friends and my boyfriend come over without my brother around us all the time?HELP ME BEFORE I EXPLODED :x (link)
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ummmm..just try going out with the boy to the movies
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what are the strings for the guitar tuned to on a piano? like the first is an a (i know it's not but what is it?) and what are the rest? and also i lost my last pick so what can i use thats around the house as a temporary pick??? thanks! (link)
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lol im trying to learn guitar too. I like.. dont know anything about it except that the strings are E A D G B E
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are there any excercises to get rid of love handles, or at least help? (link)
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Walking and doing crunches could help. But you have to be persistent with it.
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is there any way to deal with baby hair i have alot and i dont know what to do about and it sucks. (link)
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The lil hair precision remover things. Doesnt make your hair grow back darker, and you cant get hurt when you use it. Hope I helped :)
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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless (link)
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uhhh.. ask her again?
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okay im burly getting sick and i dont want to get sick i hate getting sick is there any tea or any other thing i could do to stop it from getting worse?? (link)
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cough medicine, aspirin... gargling with warm salt water (i know.. disgusting, but it helps). Cough drops, GREEN TEA if any tea. Also, a lot of rest and drink lots of fluids. Hope this helps.
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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this (link)
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Just ignore it. You know who you are. Just remember that you're a virgin so that just prooves they're wrong.
I know.. it really isnt fair. Girls are terrible. I hate them (even though i am one) but yeah.. blah. Seriously.. you know who you are, and believe it or not most people wont look down on you for kissing guys. Those who do are really immature and probably never get guys themselves.
Good Luck.
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
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Well he may be sensetive BUT TALK TO HIM before you break it off. Tell him he doesnt need to be jealous, and that he doesnt need to worry about you being with anyone else or anything. Make sure you reassure him, you know?
If you dont think it will work then yeah.. you shouldnt lead him on. But if you really want it to work you have to be able to communicate, even if it is awkward at times.
good luck.
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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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Get a group of people together and all go to the movies together. Hopefully her parents will allow that. Maybe see if you could meet her parents if she has some people go over her house to watch some movies? Then eventually they will get to know you.
Talk to her about it.
If you want you guys to last you need to be able to communicate. Tell her if she doesnt take the chance in telling her parents then you dont see how it will work much if you guys cant see eachother or hang out.
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I don't wear make-up AT ALL, and i wanted to start wearing some eye-shadow and things like that. I'm white, have golden-hazel eyes, and really red lips. THANX!! (link)
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black eyeliner? It would bring out your eyes for sure. And some nice black mascara. And a nice lip-gloss that wont really change the color of your lips, but just bring out the natural color of them. Try that out. Hope it works..
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hi my name is jess im 13 and in kindergarden i had this boyfriend i know a little young but he was my first true love and right after that school year endeed he moved to the town next to me now im in 7th grade and i havent seen him in 8 yrs. Now i cheerlead for his football team and i still havent gotten a chance to see him cause no game have started yet but we all have the same practices like times and days and places but but different areas of the building. If i dont see him or talk to him i really might have a breakdown. its been 8 years to long. how can i get a chance to see him or talk to him. What if he doesnt remember me?
plz hurry!!!!! (link)
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aww that happened to me in second grade. He like.. yeah moved to like.. maine. Which is really far from CT and i never saw him since then. I mean im over it now.. but..
You guys were in kindergarten.. Sorry to say but maybe he wasnt expecting you to still have feelings for him? Still look for him anyway.. I'm sure if hes single you can get to know him again and become friends first and all that.
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I know this might sound nasty but ever since i can remember i have been having this really bad smell in my private area. i know most boys joke around talking about tuna smelling and stuff but i dont think its a joke. i dont think people can smell it when i hang out with them but im not sure if they smell it when i wear shorts? and i get this nasty white stuff in my under wear and mom knows about it. and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i dont want to smell and i dont want him to see that white stuff in my underwear. is there anything i could do to prevent from smelling because i wear purfume anyways. and how could i keep this stuff from my boyfriend. i really havent been smelling that bad lately but i dont want him to see the white stuff. can you please help me? anything will help!
thanx so much!
always kayla i rate high (link)
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Have you had your period yet? Thats probably it. If you hadnt already had it it's probably coming soon. Just wear a pad or tampon.
While you're not on your period, you can put some baby powder down there. That will get rid of the smell.
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this may seem like a stupid question, but i LOVE to sing and my favorite singer is Josh Groban. i would just die if i could meet him and talk to him, maybe even sing for him... any ideas of how to do it?
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lol
i liked gavin degraw. I MET HIM!! And I touched the dude from papa roach, jacoby shaddix. SO ITS DEFINITELY POSSIBLE.. GET DETERMINED WOMAN. (you are a woman right?)
hehe
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I am freakishly shy, and its a real real problem. I thought I was over it, but I went up to my new school, [it was just built so everyones new but I know like everyone there, kinda not really though] and I just couldnt act ike myself, I was so quiet, I barely said anything. I wanted to cry all night, even though I was with my friends! I guess its just akward because I switched schools 2 years ago and didnt get to see them that much so its really weird being around them yet not weird at the smae time. Im so worried about myself and what Im going to do once school comes. Please Help me (link)
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You sound like me. Honestly *sigh*. I've hit rock bottom with how shy and quiet I was before. I found a group of friends I was able to be myself around. I experimented on people when I entered high school. With some people I would be really quiet, with others I would be totally random. And you know what? I attracted so many people like me. It was awesome. Don't feel upset because of this. I'm freakishly shy too, I'm just learning not to show it. Like HONESTLY IM FREAKISHLY SHY.. It's a bit ridiculous but I dont always show it and I cant help it. I just try to be crazy and fun but my mind goes completely blank and I start shaking kind of.
Anyways, find at least one poerson you can be crazy around. Then you guys can go around being random and having fun together, which will attract more people. Become friends with their friend eventually and in no time you'll have an awesome group of friends.
I know its hard. Anytime you have a question about this ask me in my inbox.. I can help.
dont worry.
"Live life as best you can, because nobody gets out alive"
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i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend (link)
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NO ... NOOOOO you dont need to be her friend. Don't ever let someone make you feel inferior. She must have a lot of her own insecurites. If you become "friends" with her again, she'll only hurt you. Even if shes nice to your face she may say things about you behind your back.. (not because its true.. but because shes a bitch). Move on.. seriously you dont need her theres sooo many other people out there who will be your friend.
See? You're crying. You know you DONT want to be her friend anymore, so find people who care and wont hurt you. You're beautiful..I mean I know i havent seen what you look like but you seem like you care. Dont ever let someone tell you differently.
You have new friends who dont like her? Well thats good then. They dont like her for a reason. Listen to them and hang out with them. I'm sure they're 34936493264321694619416 times better then her.
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Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving again today for another two weeks, and wants to date once he returns, he wants to get back together. I love this boy... I just don't feel like getting my heart broken by him for the third time. What should I do?
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Well seeing how you both kissed another person the first time, it was both your faults in a way. (not saying this to offend you at all). But.. if you really think it could work try it out again (because I dont know if you guys were serious or if you were officially DATING or what)... but yeah. If you think it can work go for it.
Jealousy is normal.. I go through jealousy/envy and things like that too. Just remember that he chose you. He must see something special in you so dont ever think you're not good enough. You're what makes him happy.
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whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone? (link)
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"Going out" is like a relationship. Boyfriend/Girlfriend.. that stuff.
Hooking up is just getting somebody to make out with or fool around with. Not someone whose your actual girlfriend or boyfriend.
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My boyfriends' ex is pregnant, she isn't trying to break us up or anything. She stays out of my way and I stay out of hers. I love my boyfriend very much, do you think that the baby could break us up or make us closer. Please help. Should I talk to the ex or just leave things as are. (link)
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I dont know either of them. You'd have to talk to them/him about this all. If your boyfriend loves you he will try to make this work.
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