My first real boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about a month and a half ago and I am still very upset about it. At first he told me he was breaking up with me because I was possesive and jealous and then he told me it was because he wanted to be single. Two weeks later I found out that he started dating another girl who lives 3 hours away and is 2 years younger then him. He is 17 and she is 15. A few days later they already started telling each other they love each other and they only met the weekend before we broke up. I wanted to be friends but he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. I stopped calling him but everytime I see him I still get upset. What should I do? Do you think he will ever realize he made a mistake? Why does he act like he doesnt care about me?
If possible, try to set up a certain time that you would talk. Tell him you want to go for a walk or something one day, because you really need to talk to him. Tell him you are still hurt about the break up, and that it's hard for you to not even have anything to do with each other anymore (or something along those lines, since I don't know exactly how you feel). Just be honest with him. You could also ask him when you talk to him if he realizes he made a mistake. I don't know exactly why he doesn't act like he doesn't care about you. He might be scared or mad or something, but like I said before, I don't know exactly why. And a tip, try not to be too clingy, it annoys guys. It sounds to me that there is a missing part of this story. Whatever you do, be honest to yourself and him. I hope I helped. :]
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I want to tone my legs but I don't have any equipment or money and when I go on toneteen.com I don't know if it tones or just works it. Where can I find a website with that helpful infomation? I would prefer if it had demonstrative pictures.
Seventeen magazine always has things with demonstrative pictures so I would reccomend going there. They have a new one every month, full body things, or things for certain areas. Hope I helped.
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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!*
Ask if anything's wrong, not asking why he's distant. Don't come to any conclusions immediately, just seem concerned in his personal life. Try to get involved in his life too, don't stay as "just a gf" or anything, ask him to go do things. Hope I helped!
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Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!
xo_sherry_ox
I rate 5's!
That's not true. Put up whatever color you want, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're a certain religion. Hope i helped!
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What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five!
Put some pictures of them together in a little book or on a page. It's something homemade that I'm sure they will love. Hope I helped!
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I'm 14. A day or two before my period, I tend to get this dark stain on my panties...the front of my panties, not where I would get a normal period stain. It's dark and kind of brown, and sort of thick. Do I have a disease or something?
Also, every single time in my period, I have a normal flow for maybe three days, then it stops for one or two days, then it starts again for only about half a day. Is this abnormal?
If you started recently (a year to two years or so), your period may not have set a normal course yet. Everything is fine. Don't worry, you just have to wait before it gets straightened out for the most part. Hope I helped!
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Last night my best friends parents got into a car accident. Her dad had to spend the night in the hospital because he broke his ribs and lost a lot of blood. Her mom is doin ok, she has internal bruises but is taking everything well. The doctors thought that her dad was going to die, but he made it through the night. Ive never been in this sort of situation before. I dont know what to say or what to do. Please help, i really need to be there for my friend!!!!!!!
Tell her that whatever happens, you will be there for her and you really care about her and her family. Don't make her cry and say things like "i hope your dad doesn't die, because that would suck!" or something like that. Also, tell her that whatever happens happens for a reason, but that you will still be her best friend and will always care for her well-being. Also, maybe you could pray for her father and mother, and tell her that you will. I will too if you want. Hope I helped!
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how did you shed 1 1/2 pounds in 3 days?
I did many crunches in a day, replaced sodas with water, ate healthy, and I didn't stay on the computer all the time. I went walking with some friends for about an hour. I count my calories. Once I eat something, I count how much I ate and write it down. If you go walking for even only 30 minutes twice a week, you can speed up your metabolism, which makes you less hungry, which means you have a lower calorie intake. Hope I helped, and I can always give you more tips if you need them!
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Someone told me that dieting wont help you lose weight. IF i eat a salad for lunch everyday, will i lose weight? OR do i have to do other stuff too?
It all depends on calorie intake and metabolism. Jogging for 30 minutes a day would help speed up your metabolism, which will make it so that you eat less in a day. If you eat a salad for lunch everyday, have a low-fat dressing, or that defeats the prupose. Just eat healthy and maybe exercise once or twice a week. It will help, I've lost 1 1/2 pounds in 3 days on my "plan". If you ask me, dancindanger questions on dieting and eating right, I could give you a ton of tips on losing weight. Hope I helped!
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I have sort of a...strange question I guess: What exactly are a girl's hips made of, and is there a way to get rid of them once they develop? I mean I know that during puberty, you start getting hips, but I really don't like mine.
And also, I don't like the fact that my thighs touch when I walk or just stand with my legs parallel to each other. What can I do about this?
Thanks for any help ya' can give.
There isn't a way to get rid of your hips, but there is a way to make them as small as possible, and that is by taking off all the fat around it. Exercise and eat healthy to shed a few pounds in your hips and thighs. Hope I helped!
ps I know a ton of tips on weight loss if that's what you need. Ask me, dancindanger a question about it and I'll tell you everything I know-I lost 1 1/2 pounds in 3 days from my diet and exercise "plan". But the only way I can help is if you ask me a question about it.
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Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried!
Signs of being pregnant..you don't have your period normally, it may not happen. And...why did you have sex if you were worried? The conequences of one night of fun can destroy your life as it is right now forever. If you don't get pregnant this time, you're lucky. Wait until your married, and don't do it again until then.
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I'm a 30 yr old male. My situation is a bit complicated. Several years ago I became very close to this girl. Problem was she was seeing someone else and her family expected her to remain with this person. Our relationship was never really defined, but we were close. Abruptly, things changed. She wouldn't see me or talk to me anymore. I suspect that someone may have mentioned me to her family,which caused a problem. We were supposed to talk about it but were not able to after that. Anyway, this was seveal years ago and I've always regretted not getting the chance to say goodbye or tell her what she meant to me. I would like to write a letter resolving these issues, but seeing as so much time has gone by, I don't want to come across as a nut or scare her off.
What kind of things should I write and what should I avoid writing? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Tell her your feelings. Say that you miss her. Ask why she stopped talking to you, and tell her that you care for her (as a friend or more, whichever you feel) and avoid being sentimental. Give her a call and leave a message, saying maybe you and her could meet sometime. Hope I helped!
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i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps
Put flyers up about her. Explain everything about her on there. What she can do, what she looks like, if she cuddles or not, the price, everything someone would need to know. Put a picture and your phone number. Maybe someone will see that and want your dog. Hope I helped.
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About a week and a half ago I saw my best friend Dylan over the weekend. We just hung out and went to the mall. We later on went back to his house. When ever I see him we kiss and cuddle and I love it more then anything. My parents picked me up at his house around 10:30 and when I was walking out of the door he told me to call him. I called him the next day 1 time and he didnt pick up. I didnt leave a msg bc I thought that he would see my # and call me back but he didnt. I havent talked to him in over a week and I miss him a lot. I thought by now he would call me, but he hasn't. I am not sure if I should call him because latly it seems like he and I are drifting a part. I live 20 mins away from him so I dont get to see him much. Its like we dont talk, and then I will go in town and see him, we'll chill with eachother, then I will leave and go home and we wont talk for a few weeks. I want to call him but I dont want to be one of those girls that call's the a guy all the time. Its like we are bf/gf, we are only good friends. Should I call him and talk to him and tell him that I miss him? Its kind of a more then friends thing bc I think I am in love with him. What do I do?
I think you should call him once in a while. Just don't call like 8 times a day or something. Arrange dates to get together and see a movie or something. If you kiss and cuddle, yet you aren't bf/gf, then what are you? I say you ask him out and maybe he will feel closer to you. Oh, and maybe you could leave a message because messages are fun to receive, and that can be a way to show him you care about him. Hope I helped!
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well... i broke up with my boyfriend like a month & 1/2 ago but it was because i couldn't stand never being able to see him (we live like 4 hours apart and nither of us can drive yet) and i got really depressed because i broke up with him. like really depressed, i even cut my self and ate lots of ice cream, and eventually became a depressed fat-ass. then i realized i needed him back, so i called him and asked for a second chance the other night and he said yes. i still love him just as much as i did before, but can someone please help me by telling me ways that i could deal with not being able to see him? i don't want it to ruin everything again... any ideas? thnks so much
Call him a lot, and email. Send letters, just somehow keep in communication with him. That's the only way a relationship can work, is if you communicate. Also, if you still want to lose weight, ask me a question about it and I can give you a lot of tips on it. I'm only here to help, and I know a lot about weight, because I am struggling with it myself. However, I started a diet on Friday, and I've already lost about 2 pounds (exercise, eating less, eating helthier). I have a ton of things to help, so ask dancindanger another question about it if you feel you need to get some more help. Hope I helped!!
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I need help dumping my b/f of 1 week..I mean he is cool but I don't feel a *spark* when I'm around him or even talking to him! He is one of my friends and I'd like to keep it that way.. but I dont really wanna date him anymore.. can you help me please??
-Molly
Write a letter saying what comes straight from your heart. Just come flat out and say, "I'm not read for a relationship right now, but we can still be friends. I really care about you, but I don't think we'e supposed to be more." or something like that. Hope I helped!!
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I have been working for a company for about a year and a half. Last Christmas time I got a bonus of $20. This year, when I was really depending on that small bit of bonus, I got nothing.
The company recently sent a letter to all of it's employee's scolding us on leaving early. I was one of the people who had left early sometimes. I haven't done it since, but could that affect my Christmas bonus?
I know it isn't that the company can't afford it.
What I'm wondering is what the proper thing for me to do would be. Would it be uncalled for if I asked them about a bonus? I need to call them before Friday about working on Christmas, so should I just ask about my pay on Christmas weekend, and if there will be a bonus at the same time?
Should I just ignore it and decide that they decided to not give me a bonus this year, or treat it as a mistake on their part and ask them about it.
I'm just not sure if I would be out of line in some way if I ask them about a bonus.
Well, instead of leaving early, maybe you could stay a few minutes extra. If you're the only person to do this, they will notice. Maybe they will talk to you about it. Also, somehow you could bring up last year and maybe slyly ask why you didn't get it this year. If you prove you work hard, they may give you that bonus. Hope I helped.
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When I was 8, my grandfather died of cancer. It is now 6 years later and I still am extreamly upset about it. I was very close to my grandpa, I always remember him joking around with me. He'd always tap me on the head when I wasn't looking and then I'd turn around and he'd be looking around pretty much making it obvious that he did it. He'd always give me money even if I didn't ask for it and he was just a very happy grandpa. The night I found out he died, I was devistated. I was in my room listening to music and I heard the phone ring but didn't think much of it. My mom called me and my brother into her room and she told us to sit down. She looked a bit shakey but I still didn't think much of it. She held my hand and looked at me and said Papa (that's what we called him) just passed a way. And I looked at her in disbelief. I was in too much shock to even cry. Once I started crying I coudln't stop. I fell asleep crying, I woke up crying and I cried for the next 4 days straight. This happened six years ago and I'm still upset about it. Everytime I go to my grandma's house and I see his pictures I cry. Can anyone help me? It's been 6 years and I'm still not over his death. Please help.
Get some pictures together of him, videos, anything. Put them all together in a box of book, and put them somewhere you never look. Forget about them. You sometimes have to let go of the past. I realize that you were very close to him, but you can be with him later in heaven. Sometimes there is no other option than to only look at the future and not linger in the past. I'm very sorry about all this, and I hope I helped.
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ok welll i am like in love with this kidd but he doesnt like me i do everything he says like wear whath he says but this one girl likes him and i was joking and said he is mine soo she gott madd at himm and hess mad at me when i was joking what do i doo!
Apologize and say you really didn't mean it. Why do you do everything he says if he doesn't lke you back like that? Sorry, but I don't think it will work out between you two. Next time, I would say to just stay out of it to be on the safe side. Hope I helped.
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my freind and i have been flirting so much and people would tell us oh why don't you two go out already! well i told him i liked him and he told me he wasn't ready for a gf right now and i'm kinda waiting and yet i'm kinda forgetting about him! we talk more then we have done in the past! does this mean something?
Ask him his feelings. If he isn't straightforward with you, then maybe he won't be honest in a relationship too. Don't forget about him, just act normal. Only time will tell. Good luck! Hope I helped.
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