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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.

Hey there :)
Actually, your not wierd at all. I think its great that you want to find someone special to do stuff with! But what yor feeling is peer pressure, to give into what is cool. I would try to avoid the pressure to give in, and only do what is rite to you. Haha, and if anyone tells you anydifferent you can send em to me! ;) j/p. If you have any other q's or need help with this, you can email or IM me.

christine1012005@yahoo.com (Im only)

christine1012005@hotmail.com (e-mail, or IM)

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is there a program where you can download songs for itunes for free? and is it illegal? (NOT LIMEWIRE)

Well i use bear share, and as far as i know its not illegal. just go to www.bearshare.com and download the free version.
Hope this helps!!

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Please help me!
Ive been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and all she does is copy me! Im gettin so annoyed because everytime she copies something i do i always have to change just incase people will think im copying her or that we are trying to be twins or something! I really hate her now shes doin my head in, i want to smack her. I know you will probably say 'you should feel flattered' but i DONT! She takes everything away from me!!!
Ive told her i dont like it when she copies me but she still carrys on. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! thanx by the way im 13 and im female

Well I think you should tell her to stop, and if she doesint youll never talk to her again, or somthing along the lines of that..
i hope this helps a bit ^_^

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can a man drink his wife's milk?

well, hey, if a baby can, then why not... hahha, hope this helps

-cjAdvice

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I get extremely nervous about everything. like if i was trying out for a team in school, i get extremely nervous and i can hardly focus. or even something stupid like going to a teacher for extra help. sometimes im so nervous about something that I cry about it and cant gain control. it makes me sick, literally, like if i was about to do something nerve racking. what should i do?

It sounds like you have anxiaty (sp) like my friend does, or somthing along the lines of anxiaty... i sugest a trip to the doctor =] hope this helps!

-cjAdvice

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Ok is their anything that I can eat or do to make my boobs BIGGER?!?!

not any that i know of, but you can buy mega paded bras.

hope this helps hunn!

-cjAdvice

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I have a huge problem. The guy I have been seriously crushing on for the past year is moving away! His name is Will and he is like the sweetest guy ever. He's never had a girlfriend because he's a little bit prude, but he is amazingly smart and athletic. If i told him that I like him I can't even imagine his response. I think he would just turn bright red and walk away or something. But he's been dropping these subtle little hints that he might have feelings for me ever since he told me he's moving away. I know he wouldn't admit to anyone that he liked me...unless maybe he found out that i like him back. Except I don't know for sure if he likes me and I don't want to make a fool out of myself in front of him, but I don't want to regret not telling him later. Please help me!!

You could always get one of your friends to tell him for you, and when you think about it, this could be your last chance to do anything about your crush! plus, you never know, he may like you too! id say go for it!! =] hope this helps!

-cjAdvice

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my mom pretty much comes home every night drunk. Not really drunk, but she's wild and loud. Everytime I mention this to her when shes sober, she yells and me and tells me to shut up because she says it's not true. I hate every night because I always expect my mom to come home like this and it's really annoying. I understand she's an adult and can do whatever she wants but i can't stand her like this, being really rowdy. She also grounded me for a week because i stayed home from school tuesday. I want to go to the doctors because I think I have a sleeping disorder but my mom thinks im fine and I never have anything wrong with me. So I guess my questions are, what can I do about my mom, and how can I find out if I have a sleeping disorder or not without going to the doctors? thank you.
-Jamie
15/f

well, im not shure about the sleeping disorder, but i do know what you can do about your mom. If you have a school counciler, go and talk to them... i know it seems a bit odd, or scary, thats the same way i felt when i had to go because of my mom getting drunk. but it actually heps =]. allso, if you go and live with another family member, it could do you wonders =D i went to go live with my dad. and actually, your mom comming home drunk all the time could be the reasoning of your sleeping issues. so if you went to live with someone else, you probably could sleep better! hope this helps you!

-cjAdvice

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This might be long so sorry! Ok, I have a boyfrend lets call him Mark. Mark and me have been going out for about 7 or 8 months. Recently, all of my friends have been calling him gay and bisexual and they are telling me to break up with him because he is "Mr. Flirtacious". I love Mark sooo much and my friends just dont understand, and they kept bothering me about him so i told them that i broke up with him but i really didnt. Then i told one of my friends that i really didnt break up with him and she is REALLY mad at me!!! We arent really "friends" anymore and i dont know what to do. I know lying is wrong...but should i chose my friends or the guy? thanx for any help i rate high!!!

Hmmm, this ones a tough one... and it all really depends on you. =] you just have to think about it, who do you apreciate and love more, your friends or your boyfriends... and actually, you shouldent have to choose... i mean, if there your friends, then they should understand. you love that guy, but you love your friends too, if you explain that to them, they should get it. haha, sorry if that was confusing =], hope this helps you hun!

-cjAdvice

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I decided this year to skip over the bikini for a one piece bathing suit because I have a chunky stomach...but I have no idea where to get a cute one at!! All the one pieces I see are all ugly. I really dont want to wear a bikini because I feel self-conscious but I may have to resort to that if I cant find a good one-piece, something cute and sexy. So please help me! Thanks everyone who helps!!

well i went to target a few days ago, and they had a ton of swimwear, and allot of hott 1 pieces! but they allso had 2 pieces, end they were equally as hott, hope this helps hun! =D

-cjAdvice

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Can anyone tell me the price range of a hamster?

Hehe, thanks. =]

They usually cost 10$ and under... hamsters are sooo cute!!!

haha, hope this helps!!

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O.K. there is this boy who is a friend a my brother and is in the 10th grade. He has a girlfriend, but was feeling on me and kissing me. I liked it. His girlfriend stays in my are, but I don't know her. I really want to go with him. I am in the 7th greade suposed to be in 8th. Should I stay with him?How do I know if he is just using me?

Well he might just be using you, but you should wait for him & his gf to break up be fore you do anything, and he would probaly ask you out =]

hope this helps

-cjAdvice

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My toes on my right most of the time, and some times left, feet get numb alot, even when its not cold! & I dont know what could be causing it. I take concerta (ritalin) for my narcolepsy problem, but ive been getting this for a couple months now (the toe numbness)..so does anyone have any idea what could be causing this? Im also 16/f and i'm always under stress b/c of family and school problems and such but i dont think that could be it? Ideas?! Thanks!

Well, you could have low blood pressure, causing your toes to get less blood then they should, making them feel numb... i wouls sugest a visit to the doctor, allso, your shoes could be too tight... =]

hope this helps hun!

-cjAdvice

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I'm doing an art project on time structures and for a section of it I'm going to be taking action sequences on my camera. That's like a photo every hafl second or something to capture movement.
I need suggestions of what actions I could take the photos of - ideas I already have include someone dancing, a fight, a skate stunt, someone jumping off a wall.
All good suggestions appreciated!

hmm, that souds fun! but n e way why not try,

- a bug flying, moving

-a car driving by

-a person riding a bike

-someone doing jymnastiks (sp?)

-someone swimming

-a person blowing a buble w/ bubble gum (my fav one!)

umm, thats all i hava hope this helps you!

cjAdvice

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i have only had 1 wet dream and i have pubic hair and sperm but is it normal for a guy to have only 1 wet dream?

Well, im not a guy, buuut, i do know some guys who have never even had a wet dream. So as far as I know, your perfectly normal! ^.^ hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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at least once a month, I get migraine(sp?) headaches. I dont know what causes them, but I cant take any medication for them because I dont like swallowing pills. I have never done it in my life and whenever I try i feel as if I am choking and almost throw up. Are there any migraine medications I can take where I dont have to swallow a pill? If not, is there any way I can get myself to swallow a pill without vomiting? thanks ♥

i get migrans often, and havent bought the pill for them yet, but i know that they are small, so i have a tip for you and swalowing pills!=] put water in your mouth first, than tilt your head up (so that the water wont come out of your mouth when you open it) then put the pill in and swallow all the watter!, youll hardly notice the pill!

hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something?

Lol, dont worry, it's just the latest trend! And dont go all scater, unless you feel you have to, because I know if you stay like such a jentalmen (sry abt the spelling! ^.^) some girl will be coming head over heals for you!

hope this helps!!!

cjAdvice

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i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared.

Actually i think most girls fear this at one time or another, so theres nothing juvenile about you being scared. ^.^ and since you say you are not sexually active, then you are not pregnent... and if you were ever pregnent you would know because you get all sick and stuff.. very unplesint , lol so i hope this helps you!

-cjAdvice

and i will awncer any other questions you have, so dont be afraid to ask me! you can email me @

christine1012005@hotmail.com

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I really like this boy A LOT..in love with him..yes he's my first love. Anyways, me and him have been talking a lot more and it seems like he's starting to like me again and I don't wanna let him go. Then there's this other kid that I liked for a couple days and he likes me but my two other best friends are like madly in love with him. Which one do I picK? PLEASEEE i need some help...i really love the first guy though and I don't wanna let him go but I just don't know if I just give the other guy a chance :/

Since your really in love with this guy, than why give him up for a guy youve only "crushed" on for a few days?

hope this helps,

cjAdvice

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I am a 43 year old female. My mother in law came to stay with us Christmas before last for a month univited. While here she tried her hardest to piss me off. Each time she did, I ignored it. When she finaly decided to go home our good friend and neighbor happened to be going to her home town, over 2 hours away. He offered to give her a ride home since she didn't drive...it would save us a trip. I encouraged it and my husband made the trip with her and my neighbor for comfort sake. Every since she was here she is constantly making hurtful statements to me in front of anybody but my husband. I tell my husband and he defends her and says he did not hear it or I am mistaken. We had a long discussion about it again and this time he basically called me a liar and that he has known his mom alot longer than he has known me and she would not do that sort of thing. She constantly talks bad about every one of her 5 childrens spouses and about 3 of her 5 children. He does admit that because she talks bad about them to him. What can I do to stop this painful sitsuation without divorcing my husband?

Well i would (and im dead seriouse about this) hide a tape recorder, or a vidio camera someware the next time she comes, and hide it in the room you would mostly stay in, and you would stay on your best behavior, and let her get as low as she wants since she sounds like the stupid type =] hope this helps! (i have the same problem with my cozin, and i have yet to accuire a tape recorder.. haha =D)

cjAdvice

if u need further help, you can always email mee! =D

christine1012005@hotmail.com

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