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I don't know what to say
O.K. there is this boy who is a friend a my brother and is in the 10th grade. He has a girlfriend, but was feeling on me and kissing me. I liked it. His girlfriend stays in my are, but I don't know her. I really want to go with him. I am in the 7th greade suposed to be in 8th. Should I stay with him?How do I know if he is just using me?
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You know he's using you when he's cheating on his girlfriend, and going pretty far with you when you're only what...13?
This guy is probably three years older than you, way more experienced and if he really wanted to go with you, his girlfriend would not be in the picture at all.
If you want to chase him go ahead, but I think you'll regret looking and feeling like a fool.
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Sorry to say this but he is probably using you. Dont get involved because its not worth it. There are plenty of other better guys out there. If he did care about you then he would break up with his girlfriend. He's probably experimenting to see how many girls he can get with even though he has a girlfriend. If his girlfriend does find out about you guys doing that then she's gonna be pissed and wanna fight or whatever. By then his girlfriend will probably break up with him and then if anything else happens he's gonna complain to your brother. It could ruin their friendship and then your brother might get mad at you. So hopefully you dont get involved. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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I hate to tell you this, but the answer is rally simple: you know he's using you because he has a girlfriend, but he was feeling and kissing you.
If he really CARED about you, he'd leave his girlfriend and be with you. But he didn't do that. So he's just using you.
You deserve better than that. Everyone does. So take a big step back, and leave him behind. Give it a little time, and you'll find a guy who really loves you, and does just view you as an object.
I'm sorry; I'm sure it hurts to hear this. But you really deserve better treatment, and you need to stand up for yourself.
And remember two things:
First, how do you think his girlfriend would feel about what he did with you? Would you like it, if YOUR boyfriend cheated on you that way?
And second, if he cheats on her, you can be really sure that even if he were with you, he'd end up cheating on you, too. I don't think you want a guy like that.
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He's using you and he's quite disgusting too.
Don't even get involved in that.
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Theres a chance hes using you. If you want to get with him wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It will save you a possible heartbreak. Cait ♥
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Well he might just be using you, but you should wait for him & his gf to break up be fore you do anything, and he would probaly ask you out =]
hope this helps
-cjAdvice
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