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okaay this might be long.. but here we go.
1st guy- ive been dating him for awhile. hes really sweet and funny and fun to be with. but hes a prep and all so im scared he'll leave me when someone better comes along. he's like the perfect boyfriend. he always assures me that he loves me and sends sweet text messages and tells me every morning to have a good day and that he loves me. and he kisses me 234723 times when we go places. im reaaally comfortable around him. but bad things. but only problem is im really scared hes going to leave me. hes told me himself that he has a commitment problem and we fought about it but now hes saying its fine and he'll never leave me..but he lies..alot.. and thats what happened last time.. he told me he'd never break up with me then he did. but then he came back and i took him back. but i dont know. okay..
next guy.. ive known him since 4th grade.. we've always kinda been friends.. we tried to date last year but it never worked but we stayed friends.. then we tried again in may but it didn't work. okay so now. he likes me again. but he's serious this time. like before we never really talked about it, it was just immature stuff. he's into ALL the same stuff as me. i've been to his house a few times and we get along good but he's just kind of too mature for me. he can cut up and have fun but i dont know.. im scared that if i break up with the other guy for this guy that he'll say he doesn't like me anything.. then the other guy won't take me back because he's just like that. but anyway about this guy. he doesn't date around much, i think thats a good thing. he's sure about me though.. he said he wants something serious with me. he's mature and if it worked we would be together and possibly get married. that's what i'm looking for. i'm done with messing around with guys and stuff. i would rather stay with the first guy.. but i have a feeling im just wasting my time. i mean i love everything about him and it would be so hard for me to leave him..but it might be worth it..omg i dont know what to do.
help.
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first off take a breather. now i know what you goin through with the first guy he doing that off and on stuff which is not good at all he is bound after a while to break up with you and then come back. see when e broke up with you the first time it wasnt because of commitment issues yes that what he said but know the real reason was because he missed flirtin after he got it out his system he wanted you again its a non ending circle if you really want to do something then break it off and tal the other guy but as your self hwo do YOU see more potential in the first guy you listed some bad qualities that will get you hurt notice i did not say might i said WILL!!!! or you could take time form both to see what you really want but if i were you i would talk to the 2nd guy i think he has alot to offer who knows he may be your knight and shinig armor. he has all the qualties a good bbf should so you look at 2nd then you look at 1st and you will see that second is really best. trust me the second guy he could give you the world the 1st can give but take away and if he does that your heart wont take it
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So i have been with this guy for a while. and we arent bf/gf but we hang out all the time and know we like eachother and would never do anything with anyone else. so there was a school dance that i went to with a bunch of my friends cause he couldnt go and at it there was this guy that used to go to our school but now goes to private school. he is really hot and he was flirting and grinding with me. i wasnt necesarily flirting back but i wasnt stopping it. i told him i didnt have a boyfriend (cause technically i dont) but then after that night he was texting me and we were talking and stuff. and i definantly want to stay with the guy i am with now cause i know we are really good together but i dont want him to find out about that other guy. its not like i did anything with him but dance. do you think i should tell the guy i am with about it before anyone else does and makes it seem worse than it is? or do you think i should just forget about it.?
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before i give you advice let me ask you a question. do you like the guy your with? do you want a realtionship? or better yet do you want to maintain a relationship? if you answer is YES to all or any of these then you need to tell him Why? you might be wondering because a reationship is built on trust honesty and respect and if you want it to work even if you dont technically go out you shouuld because if you dont be sure that somebody will blow what happened out of porpotion if nothings happening people like to start something or they blow stuff out of porportion. you know it isnt that serious and maybe you tellin him this will give him the push that says you need to acually commit to me like bf and gf before somebody else does. that way you wnt have any miss understandings. cause if you dont you can tell nothing happen but word of month travels fast and who knows if enough people say it be sure he will listen to it. and if he does us as you know it will be ME MYSELF AND I and all by myself. if you want a healthy realtionship te first step is honesty and trust and if you dont have that then your thing you have together is no longer. remeber to go with your gut if something does not fit right then you go and say it and confront it dont wait for somebody else to do it bececause if you wait to do it it will be way to late!!!
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How do you know if you're in love? (link)
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If you are in love you always talk about the person I mean everything has something to do with that person I mean everything has something to do with that person or makes you think of that person, you can be In your class doing work then all of a sudden BAMM!!! Your focused on your boo. You can bored as heck or down then when they come around instantly you smile. When they come around you get butterflies and they make you feel like you’re the only one for them. And when you kiss them you get this tingle type feeling. Being in love or simply loving somebody can be an amazing thing and is a blessing to be in love. But…. Remember with love comes responsibility heartache and pressure and lots of emotions. But through all the tough times I hope you love conquers all your and your boos hardships.
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So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?
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HI Megan
Look you have to do what you have to do. i mean your friends should except that you are trying to be postive and be friends with someone else besides them. even if they dont like this girl they shouldnt start doggin you because youare tryin to build your relationship back up. if they were really your friends they would understand and let you be. maybe the reason they are like this is because they are jealous jealuos of what you might ask jealous because you guys were once best friends you and larissa and maybe they feel frighten that you might start hanging out with her and forget all about them. so they could just be pushin you away or finding excuses not to be your friend which i know sounds dumb but i could truely be the reason i know from my own experiences. and about the fake thing that could very well be there reason and if they dont believe you after so long of being your friend maye you need to check to make sure they are really your friend and what you might want to start by doing is talking and by talking i mean them and you and even larissa expressing all you feeling and emotions that are bottled up inside and then you all could become friends maybe and everything would be perfect. i hoped this helped
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ME And one Of My bestest Freinds Ever Are Drifting because shes been talking about me to one of my toher freind, and not stuf that was true, LIES that shes saying about Me And My Boyfriend , i was pretty upset when i found out because were supose 2 be the TWOOO BESTEST Freinds since 6th grade til now which is four years. and it really sucks because now i cant even tell her things because she runs her mouth behind my back , and even said she doesnt tel me anything anymore and doesnt want to [she said that to my other freidna bout me] which hurts, so what friendship is in that if i cant trust her, i cant tearn to her to talk to and she wont talk to me?? even tho i was there for her when she REALLYY needed it, now shes not here for me. what do i do? i havent asked her about what she said yet, because ive been not even trying to talk to her because it pisses me off thinking of it (link)
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If your friend runs her mouth alot about u and tells lie leave her alone she isnt your real friend she doesnt care about you some friends pretend to be your friend be cause they want something you have or stop being your friend because there jealous most likey jealous shes made that you have someone and if she does have someone he not as great as your boyfriend and she also wants to make herself look godd by belittling you but dont play into that No!!!!!!! just stay away from her and tell hey if you going to talk abo me and tell lies i dont need you and get on with wour life you dont need negativety and if she cant give you support and a friend hand then tell her to step off and go find someone tat be good nice nd true to that wont tell lies and or spread rumors but you know dont throw away the friendship but take a brake from the friendship till you get trust in her again until thenm you should be associates and find someone else you can confide in until thta time comes when you feel she can be trusted again and good luck
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I really like this guy and he told my friend he thinks im cute and he knows that i think hes cute yet he still hasnt said more than 10 words to me. My friend takled to him about me and he acted ike he really liked me because we have alot in common but now he jus stares at me and smiles but he wont say anything and thats whats confusing me so much! HELP!!! (link)
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hey,
lets try two differnet approaches one of them is you make the first move walk over to him and start talking getting to know each other be innocent and sexy and mysterious make him want you more than ever find some common ground that you both like which should be easy since you both have a lot in common. also dont seem like your coming on to him but make so he knows your still interested in him. in no time your be laughing and talking and getting out you feeling towards each other. another easy simple way that you could go about it is sending a note expressing you feelings thoughts and anything else on your mind that you may want to get out this way you open up he gets to know you and viseversa he could send a reply maybe you could even work up the courage to ask him out or he may ask you out maybe he is just a little shakey meaning shy about asking you out because he may have a fear of rejection so you just need to make the first move to give him that push to work up the courage to talk to you and to ask him out. you make the first move and apon you making that first move your have your results dont rush it take your time and let the relationship develop. good luck
P.S. making the first move gives you the upper hand in the relationship lol
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I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you (link)
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Hey,
first let me start of by saying killing yourself is not the answer to any of your problems you just need to find something that you love and nobody i mean nobody can take away from you what is it that you like to do you dont have to be good at it but it makes you happy. now having low self esteem yeah its tough but at the same time its easy. you got to relaize you are beautiful no matter what anybody says its whats on the inside not the outside that people are going to love and if you dont believe that then look beautiful how? you might say..... i know youve heard about proactive try this it actually does work my cousin she hadd really badd acne and she used it and it cleared right up. then get some clothes that look hott and sexy gives helps your figure look as beautiful as it truely is then get your makeup and your hair and your beautiful and even if nobody pays you attention or dont give you the time a day fuc them you dont need them anyway. you should always feel strong and independent always feel beautiful because if you feel beautiful then you look beautiful and viceversa. and your teachers who likes school anyway nobody unless your a nerd lol! but what you need to do is do whatever it is they tell you to do even if it stupid and has no point at all do there work because a soon as you pass there class you are gone out dont need to see there ugly faces no more at all see you later okay. there there to help you and if they dont then fuc them to you know i mean as long as you try and put fourth the effort that you should then you keep on steppin because you did at least try. and your counselor dont worry about her let her do what she do and dont worry about them. your grandmother doesnt know about what she talking about dont worry about her she just doesnt know what a great person you truely are and she just needs to reconigze that what shes doing is hurting you and hurting your relationship towards each other. Also find someone that you are close with or that you know will listen to you like me or some one in your community or other people on advicenators that you feel will help you in what your going thru and also loves you for you thats the most important thing. you are special and if you leave this world right now a lot of people will miss you even your grandmother cause she does love you she just has a very hard way in showing it believe it or not it is true. hope i help and if you ever need someone to talk to i am here
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guy know exactally how to get a girl. sweet talk and touch them in cute ways and just be friendly and affectionate. but what is it a girl has to do to get a guy to like them?
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hey,
how is itn that you get a guy? ill tell you its easy simple and fun. there are many different ways you can get a guy to like you one way is to flirt. make small talk you cute sexy giving a little body language lick the your lips switch your hips make him say *WOW* shes got it from her head to her toes do something thats going to *POP*!!!!! be cool dont be obvious or over baring be mysterious boys like a little mystery keeps them guessing keeps them curious. dress a certain way not slutty but something appealing to the eye something that makes your eyes POP something that does your figure justice then do a hairstyle nothing fancy my suggestion is get it done by buetain or make it long and curley and shiny so as you walk it walks and moves with you sometimes makeup may help not to much no lipstick lipgloss keep lotion and a comb and a brush lipgloss all the main accesories dress so good as if it was a fashion contest or the prom dress like girl you dont have nothing on me. but be sexy cool and nice boys also like someone they can talk to most importantly be you dont put up a front because if you do they're going to like the fake you and not the real beautiful girl you truely are. Make you selp pop give a little smile lick of the lips and like a said be you SELF CONFIDENT if you dont have that thens it over dont be shy find someone your comfortable with and take it slow dont rush into anything that you may regret. but just give those boys that extra BAM that a leave them drooling all over the place just feel sexy and be sexy confident and do everything i just told you and you should have a noce acceptable boy in no time its all in how you carry yourself and how you make him say WOW. good luck
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what is flirting exactly? how do you do it? dont you think its rather obvious when your flirting? (link)
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Hey,
im here to help you on flirting give you everything you need to know. flirting is nothing but small talk between to people who like or may have feelings towards each other and sometimes between friends. when you flirt your basicly telling the other person how sexy they are your using body languange such as licking your lips, and biting you lips softly and makeing who ever your flirting with want you and some times you add alittle mystery to it keep the guessing and wanting more sometimes find common intrerest and help.sometimes depending on the person maybe filling on each other but not at first take it slow and be cool laughy and jokes that arent funny and doing things that they like to do and make them happy. then theres how you eat like if you had a strawberry eating sexy and meaning bitting in to it and if there whipp cream on it licking your lips after but make sure when you flirt do act deperate and dont flirt with everybody flirt with someone you like because you dont want people to get the wrong idea about you and who you are but flirting is just conversation between to people that makes the other peron want tp know more.be cool be yourself but the hott fun sexy you that has a little something that going to make whoever it is your flirting with say WOW!!!!! but most of all be confident in what your saying and try not to lie maybe a fib but nothing to big but heres something that could maybe jump start you if the boy you like for example liked basketball but your not that good say well i dont know how to play but maybe you could teach me that way you spend time together get to know each other develop a relationship and more. flirting is all in confidence and how you carry yourself and it is obvious when your flirting but if your into it neither one of you will notice because uselly flirting stats off with small talk how are you blah blah blah stuff like that...then it groes into the body language and stuff. only people who should reconigze that your flirting is other people besides you too. have fun be creative and be confident and most of all be yourself and hott and sexy! hope i helped
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I have a crush on this guy, actually it's more than a crush, I think I'm in love with him. We have been friends for 3 years, but I've always hoped we'd become more than friends. Well someone recently asked me what qualities about this man that I love attracted me to him. Then suddenly it dawned on me: He's exactly like my father!!! These are all the similarities:they both have dark hair and brown eyes, they both have really hairy chests, they are both very tight-wadded with there money, they are both workaholics, they both drink a lot of beer, they both are very flirtatious with woman, they are both humourous yet serious, they both have REALLY bad tempers, they both have been the boss of there own business, they both have been called an asshole behind there back, they both have been to court because of enemies made at work,they both are the oldest child, and they both have sex addictions (my dad cheated multiple times on my mom, and my crush admitted to me that he struggles with pornography.)
Well now that I've finally figured out why I'm so attracted to this man, it kind of grosses me out. Should I still have feelings for this man? Because in some perverted way it feels like I have feelings for my dad.
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well if this crush reminds you of your dad then why not go for it its not like your liking your dad you just like the qualities that your dad has and if he reminds you of him that is a good thing because he will provide and protect you be with you always and stay with you always and always love and care for you no matter what he is a strong loving hard working mature man that will step up when he needs to and step down when he needs to he willmake sure you and your family will always be safe and provided for and thats the kind of man that you want to love and be with so put a side that he is just like your dad and think of the reasons he will make a perfect boyfriend or husband and focus on that stuff because its not who he reminds you of it what you think of him on the inside and outside. good luck
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Are you expected to moan while a guy is fingering you? Or do you just lay there silently? And does being fingered usually lead to an orgasm? Thanks. (link)
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when a boy is fingering you there fingring you for one of2 reasons
1.to see how deep you hole is see how many times you have had sex because the more you have sex and the deeper the boy goes the deeper your hole gets and the bigger
2.for p[leasure if the boy is fingering you you are going to moan you wont be silent its going to hurt and its going to feel good
you will get wet meaning you private and it will make you feel horny real horny also you are possible for havong an orgasm some women are unable to but most likely you will. be safe use protection
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Hey! I'm a 14/f. I got my period(or so I think it was) about 1 and 1/2 months ago. But it hasn't come back since then. Is this irregular? Isn't it supposed 2 happen the same time every month! I don't know cause I'm kinda new at this whole thing. Plus when I had my period it was brown....like the blood and everything was brown not red. I'm pretty sure it was my period but I could be wrong I guess. Can any one please help me! I'm worried its not gunna come back. Much luv xoxoxo (link)
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your period comes every 27 to 28 days to keep track of your period once you get it mark on a calender maybe a symbol so you know then count twenty eight days from that day and thats when you can start to expect your period again. when that times passes you have what is called a miss period. it ok every girl has one. and your blood is not going to come out red like when you hurt yourself it sopposed to be that color. make sure you change your pad every 1 to 3 hours because it can start to smell and then it can bleed through you underwear and your clothes and you dont want that dont want everybody to know you go your period. but mark a clalender and when you miss it count twenty eight days to when you where sopposed to get it so if you where to get it on the 20th of jan. but you didnt count twenty eight days from the 20th and that will be around the time that you will get it again. make sure you wash down there real good when you take a bath you really dont want down there to smell like fish it does and people can and will smell it. and if you play sports and stuff cramps will occur and they hurt so just lye down and mood swings could occur and headakes but they dont happen to all women and girls so if it doesnt your a luckie one just like me. good luck hope i helped
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i have a question about people and racism.. why do black people try to take advantage of it? like my school has way more white people than black and if you say someting bad about 1 of the black kids or dont like them just because you dont like them NOT because they are black they just go on saying you are racist. like this boy at my didnt make varsity basketball team because quit frankly he was really bad and his parents sued the school saying they were racist and then they had to take him on the team.i am from the north so normally its not an issue but i think black people try to take advantage of racism.. why? (link)
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im black and some of the things people do say like the n word are offense it not that they are trying to say that they are racist it the scenrio that plays out ok like if all the people onj the basket ball team are white and only white people make the team and hes black and doesnt how does that look they are not thinking hey im not good it you dont like me because im african american and it the same with whites all black team a white person trys out doesnt make it racism right wrong there going to think because if the color of there skin automatically means you can or cant do this or that have this or that. and not saying that you are at a all white school even though your in the north racism is everywhere even on tv shows today maybe there was someone racist on the team theere not going to come out and say hey im racist it the looks and the gestures made towards them and maybe somes parent is you dont have to be but your partent does and if your at an all white school only few blacks then you say you dont like them just because thats singling them out just like back in the early 1900's and there going to feel like theirs some type of prejudice thing going on its all on the person and how the people around you act you dont have to be a certain color to be racist either if your white you can be racist to another white because you live in a trailer and they live in a mansion theres always going to be someone thinking racailly even if it doent mean anything and the way they look at it is by therfe surroundings-hope this anwered your question
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I am a Christian and I believe in God... I love God. It's just that more and more I feel I'm drifting away from my Lord. Sometimes I'll pray and promise God I will pray more and talk to him more, but I either forget to and rarely but sometimes I will say in my head, "I need to pray," but then I don't(purposely).
Does anyone have any ideas on how to get closer to God, or ways to strengthen my relationship with the Lord? I don't want to be this way... but when it comes to praying...I just don't. Any ideas? Express your feelings! Thank you so much! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel ive been there and still there but the best thing is to read the bible start from the new testment because that protains to what is happening know today or read from the beginning to the end if you want all you need i 15mins a day and you can read the bible in 1year. it a wonderful story about our god who created the heavens and the earth. and rember let everything that have breath prasie be the lord
praise the lord and if you cant do that then rember the scripture let everything that have breath praise the lord it will get you through the hard times and good times you could read right before you go to bedd when your bored you can pray while youre in the car with your mom doesnt hve to be on the floor knees bowed to pray or just tell the lord thank you every day for waking you up and starting you on your way but keep praying read the bible even listen to the gospel music that is a form of praise and worship what ever you do make sure its bringing glory and honor prasie and worship to the lord. remeber the devil comes to kill steal and destroy dont let him still you praise kill your soul and destroy your relationship with the lord. be blessed. personaly i would read the bible its excellent it will keep you wanting more and more of the lords blessing and pray maybe after you read or before you read that way you get to blessings i one and your prasing him and worshipping him at the same time and that way its kind of like a bedtime story or when your bored.be bless hope this worked
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself. (link)
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i do agree with you if you are not serious about helping people then you should be on here you could hurt somebody and and give them the wrong idea and make them suffer and just mess up there lives if not serious so everything youre saying about being expelled suspended. maybe we could do something about that
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I really like this boy,
And my best friend dose too.
I know I shouldent beacuse she's my best friend but I cant stop thinking about him. I told her but she doesent seem to care. But then I asked her how to get his attention b/c they are friends. she told me to wear boy cloths like she was. So I did i dont know if he really has noticed me.But my Best friend can get a little jealous and stubern somtimes, so I dont know if my friend is lying not to get his attention or if she is telling the truth. b/c u know she likes him and a rumer is going around that he likes gymnast's and prepy girls. but my friend barly ever lie's to me.
who should I belive? What should I do????
-Lanie Day underhill
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hey! i know it tuff and you feel like hey maybe my friend swrewing me over because she wants him for herself. maybe this is true or maybe not. but you and your friend have to come to an agreement who is more important your friend or the boy who doesnt notice you. me i wouldnt wouldnt go with him because your friend is sending you a sign saying no i dont want you to go with him it like if she cant have him neither can you. but remember boys will come and boys will go but a good strong loving friendship will last a lifetime dont go with him if its going to hurt your friendship and chances are if she likes him too even though thats your best friend she going to want him to notice her more than he notices you. so the question is do i go with him or dont i? if i do whats going to happen? your friend could stop talking to you and even if she does it hard to get past a crush and the friendship will never be the same but if you dont go with him then he may actually like you and then you will never no what i could be. i know it is troubling but if he does like you he should like you for you not for being a gymnasts or prepy if thats not you then dont try to change if he hasnt noticed you already then he isnt. he should like you for you and nothing less than that. your friend may be jealous and its not that she doesnt want you to be happy she just doesnt want you to have him yeah thats selfish but if she is truely your best friend youll try to get over him it will be hard i know ive been there but whats more important friend,best friend or boy, boy that you have to change yourself just for him to notice you because i you change into a gymnast or prepy hes going to like gymnast and prepy and never truely like you for you and he will never get to know you. so if you dont want to forget him introduce yourself to him as a friend let him get to know you then decide if he likes you and you still like him and wait untill he ask you out dont ask him out start off as friends get to know him then take it from there. good luck hope this helps you
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hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
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I know its tuff and exspecially if you really like him but boys are going to come and go its not the end of the world. you dont need another boyfriend. find things that will take your mind off of him things that you like to do and if it kills you to see him with you so called friend avoid both of them because its only going to make things worse cut your friend off shes not a good friend if she is going with him shes fake and you dont need him or her what do you like to do? do what makes you feel happy focus on you what does jess like to do. do what you want to go to the movies the mall read volunteer hang out meet new people or write a letter a personal letter nobody reads ot but you and only you write how you feel about tony and your friend why you like him how you feel abiut him known with your friend it will help yopu too get over him list his good and badd quailities like him going with one of your friends within one week. find someone else that makes you feel happy and like a queen and talk to him and your friend thats going to really help you get over him. but just do things that you enjoy and write that letter then rip it or bury it seal it do something that will say ITS OVER GOOD BYE I MAY STILL WanT TO BE YOUR FRIEND I HAVENT DECIDED YET BUT OUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER DONE BYE BYE SEE YOU LATER . do something postive thats going to benfit you and help you out in the long run. good luck
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when answering a question why does age play such a big factor. like for instance that 16/f that wanted a baby. i saw that everyone was like your too young,but who says that she wont make a great mother. and know one knows her living situation or money or anything.. it really doesnt say people just assume they know. it tells her to wait till shes 18. i bet there are 18 year olds out there that are much worse off than she is or wont be as good as of mother as she is. so maybe she is 16.. do you think we should just make assumptions about people like that? or would it better to know more about the person before answering? (link)
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nobodys saying she wont make a good mother she might make an excellent mother but what would she have to offer the baby love yes but providing for her independently without parents help in money or anything else why not tell her wait until she find that person who can be there for her baby get a not job but career so that she can provide get a stable home and a good one so your child can get a good education and she would struggle here and there and you dont want that if your a good mother for your child you want her/him to grow up to be the best they can be. you should tell her to wait and for all the reasons cause you can never never never go back on time.she just wants one to have one but there comes alot of responsiblity it not all fun and games once the babys there its there point black dont make assumptions get them to reconignze whats real and how it is going to affect her life and what if the baby daddy dont want the baby then what single parent and that worse teenage and single parent because the boy dont want to step up and be a man and take care of the child and the parents cant do but so much or if any at all. and if the daddys not there that can be a very negative thing in that childs life without a father without a mother. its more than she can handle at age 16 lets be real
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Okay, y'all...I am a fellow advicenator. I am just wondering why advicenators who have NEVER had sex or don't know what the hell the are talking about are answering sex questions. These people actually might just TAKE your advice...at least learn about what you're answering before you hit submit. Oh yeah, and for all of you who think wearing TWO condoms is cool...you are so wrong. (link)
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okay do you know about sex shut the up cause what youre saying sound so stupid and dumb and it makes you seem like you dont have no intelligence there asking for a reason and they do get more than one answer and most of the time all of them are the same anwer or are talking about the same thing in the advice if you have a problem with them giving advice then write advice your own self. soory if i got to be rude but......yeah but advice is for people who need it not for people who just want to feel special who just want mess to say.questions ask me!!! dont be nasty give the advice and be done with it who where to condoms one its a waste and if you do some boys can bust easliy and unless the girl is trying to have a baby then yeah cant say it dont happen cause i know happen to my friend.and the boys stuff come out some boys go rough so yeah at times and for boys like those yes cause the first one can easliy bust so fast and then its to late and its for good protection not for being all hard and cool
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when you answer a question here, and the person who asked it gives you like a one or something, and you change your advice or say say something by editing your answer, will it still say 1 new answer by their question thing so that they know you edited your answer? (link)
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no. it will remain the same unless they look and see that you changed it into better advice then its just the same as if you didnt change it. only way anything can change is if the person who rated you ask rereads the advice and changes your rating other than that no sorry
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