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my friends hate me
So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?
<Megan>
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maybe there feeling jelousy thinking that there not important or that there gonna be second best and just because they dont like Larissa doesnt mean that you should drop her as a friend you cant choose tell your friends that they might be mad but at least you were fair and didnt choose one over the other and that deserves respect and about mandy and pheobea thinking that your talking about them obviously you guys have more issues than you think because there dont trust you and basically calling you two face in a nice way so talk to them and find out why they dont trust you and p.s if they think your talking about them there probley talkin about you to what comes around goes around goodluck and remeber your friend ship really couldnt be that great if theres no trust i hope i helped peace
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HI Megan
Look you have to do what you have to do. i mean your friends should except that you are trying to be postive and be friends with someone else besides them. even if they dont like this girl they shouldnt start doggin you because youare tryin to build your relationship back up. if they were really your friends they would understand and let you be. maybe the reason they are like this is because they are jealous jealuos of what you might ask jealous because you guys were once best friends you and larissa and maybe they feel frighten that you might start hanging out with her and forget all about them. so they could just be pushin you away or finding excuses not to be your friend which i know sounds dumb but i could truely be the reason i know from my own experiences. and about the fake thing that could very well be there reason and if they dont believe you after so long of being your friend maye you need to check to make sure they are really your friend and what you might want to start by doing is talking and by talking i mean them and you and even larissa expressing all you feeling and emotions that are bottled up inside and then you all could become friends maybe and everything would be perfect. i hoped this helped
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Let your "friends" know how you see Larissa in your view. If your friends don't believe you when your telling the truth their sure not to be good friends. There's heaps of people out there, anyone, anywhere could be your friend you never know. Just let them know how you feel about them hating you confront them and be upfront and honest with them. My friends used to hate me cuz i was hanging out with "lozers" i told them how i felt and why i hang around with them. Soon enough they started hanging out with the people they called "the lozers".
Well i hope this helps you!
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They are being childish.
These girls arent you real friends if they cant take your word for what you say.
Do these two girls even have a reason not to like her?
You need to let them know that you are going to have more friends than just them, and if they cant handle it let them go.
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