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Which guy?
okaay this might be long.. but here we go.
1st guy- ive been dating him for awhile. hes really sweet and funny and fun to be with. but hes a prep and all so im scared he'll leave me when someone better comes along. he's like the perfect boyfriend. he always assures me that he loves me and sends sweet text messages and tells me every morning to have a good day and that he loves me. and he kisses me 234723 times when we go places. im reaaally comfortable around him. but bad things. but only problem is im really scared hes going to leave me. hes told me himself that he has a commitment problem and we fought about it but now hes saying its fine and he'll never leave me..but he lies..alot.. and thats what happened last time.. he told me he'd never break up with me then he did. but then he came back and i took him back. but i dont know. okay..
next guy.. ive known him since 4th grade.. we've always kinda been friends.. we tried to date last year but it never worked but we stayed friends.. then we tried again in may but it didn't work. okay so now. he likes me again. but he's serious this time. like before we never really talked about it, it was just immature stuff. he's into ALL the same stuff as me. i've been to his house a few times and we get along good but he's just kind of too mature for me. he can cut up and have fun but i dont know.. im scared that if i break up with the other guy for this guy that he'll say he doesn't like me anything.. then the other guy won't take me back because he's just like that. but anyway about this guy. he doesn't date around much, i think thats a good thing. he's sure about me though.. he said he wants something serious with me. he's mature and if it worked we would be together and possibly get married. that's what i'm looking for. i'm done with messing around with guys and stuff. i would rather stay with the first guy.. but i have a feeling im just wasting my time. i mean i love everything about him and it would be so hard for me to leave him..but it might be worth it..omg i dont know what to do.
help.
please.
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It sounds like both of the guys are wrong. The first one lies alot. That's just not a good thing. The 2nd is hot/cold on you. You deserve someone that loves you every day. Don't get me wrong, even the best relationships have bad moments. It just seems you need more than what either guy could ever give you. The second guy talking about marriage just sounds like he is trying to emotionally trap you.
If nothing else, I'd say it's at least right to stay with the first guy. No outside person should be a reason why you leave your current relationship. If it doesn't work and the other one loves you so much, he will be available.
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first off take a breather. now i know what you goin through with the first guy he doing that off and on stuff which is not good at all he is bound after a while to break up with you and then come back. see when e broke up with you the first time it wasnt because of commitment issues yes that what he said but know the real reason was because he missed flirtin after he got it out his system he wanted you again its a non ending circle if you really want to do something then break it off and tal the other guy but as your self hwo do YOU see more potential in the first guy you listed some bad qualities that will get you hurt notice i did not say might i said WILL!!!! or you could take time form both to see what you really want but if i were you i would talk to the 2nd guy i think he has alot to offer who knows he may be your knight and shinig armor. he has all the qualties a good bbf should so you look at 2nd then you look at 1st and you will see that second is really best. trust me the second guy he could give you the world the 1st can give but take away and if he does that your heart wont take it
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