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should i tell him?
So i have been with this guy for a while. and we arent bf/gf but we hang out all the time and know we like eachother and would never do anything with anyone else. so there was a school dance that i went to with a bunch of my friends cause he couldnt go and at it there was this guy that used to go to our school but now goes to private school. he is really hot and he was flirting and grinding with me. i wasnt necesarily flirting back but i wasnt stopping it. i told him i didnt have a boyfriend (cause technically i dont) but then after that night he was texting me and we were talking and stuff. and i definantly want to stay with the guy i am with now cause i know we are really good together but i dont want him to find out about that other guy. its not like i did anything with him but dance. do you think i should tell the guy i am with about it before anyone else does and makes it seem worse than it is? or do you think i should just forget about it.?
thanks!
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hay if your really worried about this just tell him what happended its not like you did anything with this other guy but flirt right, so you'll be fine. you dont have to worry about it and if you dont want to tell him dont but you have to think about if he finds out from someone else then he might be mad you didnt tell him, so i guess your better off telling him, but its up to you xoxo
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before i give you advice let me ask you a question. do you like the guy your with? do you want a realtionship? or better yet do you want to maintain a relationship? if you answer is YES to all or any of these then you need to tell him Why? you might be wondering because a reationship is built on trust honesty and respect and if you want it to work even if you dont technically go out you shouuld because if you dont be sure that somebody will blow what happened out of porpotion if nothings happening people like to start something or they blow stuff out of porportion. you know it isnt that serious and maybe you tellin him this will give him the push that says you need to acually commit to me like bf and gf before somebody else does. that way you wnt have any miss understandings. cause if you dont you can tell nothing happen but word of month travels fast and who knows if enough people say it be sure he will listen to it. and if he does us as you know it will be ME MYSELF AND I and all by myself. if you want a healthy realtionship te first step is honesty and trust and if you dont have that then your thing you have together is no longer. remeber to go with your gut if something does not fit right then you go and say it and confront it dont wait for somebody else to do it bececause if you wait to do it it will be way to late!!!
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