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i cant stand it
hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
--jess
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I know its tuff and exspecially if you really like him but boys are going to come and go its not the end of the world. you dont need another boyfriend. find things that will take your mind off of him things that you like to do and if it kills you to see him with you so called friend avoid both of them because its only going to make things worse cut your friend off shes not a good friend if she is going with him shes fake and you dont need him or her what do you like to do? do what makes you feel happy focus on you what does jess like to do. do what you want to go to the movies the mall read volunteer hang out meet new people or write a letter a personal letter nobody reads ot but you and only you write how you feel about tony and your friend why you like him how you feel abiut him known with your friend it will help yopu too get over him list his good and badd quailities like him going with one of your friends within one week. find someone else that makes you feel happy and like a queen and talk to him and your friend thats going to really help you get over him. but just do things that you enjoy and write that letter then rip it or bury it seal it do something that will say ITS OVER GOOD BYE I MAY STILL WanT TO BE YOUR FRIEND I HAVENT DECIDED YET BUT OUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER DONE BYE BYE SEE YOU LATER . do something postive thats going to benfit you and help you out in the long run. good luck
-attractive
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hey jess,
the easiest way to get over a boy is to go out with friends have a good time n dont think about him anymore.....if he really loved u he wouldnt of hooked up with a friend of yours....who knows what else hes been doing...just forget about him and try and find someone new...its going to be hard at first but as u try n try it gets easier and easier...
~Aeropostale~
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i've had to go through that so many times, im sorry! it really hurts but you can get over it even if it takes a while. just go hang out with your girls, keep your mind off of guys right now. you don't have to rush things and go looking for guys because it'll just make getting over your ex harder. have girl nights, go shopping with girls, etc. and for a while don't look for guys.. let them come to you. deal? good luck and hope you feel better. ♥adina
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It's tough getting over an ex, but I know you can do it!
First off, realize that you can do sooo much better than him. He was such an idiot; he broke up with you and hooked up with a friend of yours. Not a great person, huh? You can do so much better, you really can!!
Don't mope around the house. That's one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Start a new hobby. Do something you love. Have a girl's night out (I wouldn't invite the 'friend' who hooked up with your ex, though...). Rent some DVDs with old Saturday Night Live episodes.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT, try to get revenge in any way. Don't hook up with a guy to get back at him. Don't trash talk him, either. That just shows him that you're still dwelling on what he did.
I hope all goes well!!
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♥Manders
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ok well..
what happened to me is i i did sexual stuff with my friends brother and he hasent asked me out.. yet.. and hes going out with anoother girl and he still wants to do that stuff with me and i let him through me around whenever he is horny and it would make me cry EVERY NIGHTso finally i told him off and he left me alone.. if you thought you were in love you werent.. u and i both know that!! well ITS GOING TO BE HARD but tell him off and HES NOT WORTH IT k?
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i would go out and flirt with a bunch of other guys..but thats just me! im such a flirt! but shopping helps me get over guys and such alot. just talk to your friends about it and find a new guy and totally start over! it will feel kinda refreshing like a new start!
i hope i helped!
good luck with him!
♥Jess
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For god's sake, don't give out good ratings for just ANY bits of advice.
In any case, getting over an ex can be difficult. Hell, it usually is. There's no quick way to about doing so, unfortunately, especially when your friend is now dating him. Quite frankly, that was a pretty rotten thing he did by going out with your friend right after the two of you broke up. Furthermore, your "friend" is equally as insensitive to the situation.
In all honesty, you need to distance yourself from him. It may be hard, but you'll need to build up your emotional fortitude and be strong about it. You may wish to re-examine your friendship with this so-called "friend" of yours.
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