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hey babes ♥
i can help you with anything from boys and fashion to eating disorders! trust me! iv probably been throught it or my friends have!
so dont be afraid to ask! btw im an expert on fashion//make-up//hair! esp. Preppy!
later lovelies ♥
btw this isnt my first site...iv had one before so do think im like new at this stuff!!♥

1 RULE:
I DONT LEAVE MEAN ADVICE-SO DONT LEAVE BITCHY FEEDBACK!

you follow that and we will be alright!

advice

this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks

from a girls point of view - DONT GiVE UP!!

just be friends with her now and be there for her whenever her and her boyfriend are over. and i think its really annoying when guys flirt with me when i have a boyfriend because thats to me them screaming in my face "IM DESPERATE!" so just be friends with her and what happens, happens!

i hope i helped
Jess

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anybody know any cheat codes for need for speed most wanted? i need to unlock new parts for my car because im finding it really hard to beat # 9 on the blacklist. thanks i rate high

http://www.gamespot.com/ps2/driving/needforspeedmostwanted/hints.html?mode=unlockables

there is a list of cheats for unlocking a bunch of blacklist!

hope i hepled!

♥
Jess

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I have many issues when it comes to my weight. I'm 15..16 next month, 5 ft 4 in tall, and weigh 120 lbs....i guess that's a reasonable amount...the problem is i think i'm fat...my friends are like pencils and i feel fat around them...i don't really think i'm fat when it comes to my stomach, it's just that i have huge hips. Does anyone know how to make your hips smaller! ex: any exercise techneques, that would be awesome!!!

i checked on www.seventeen.com and your BMI is 20.595 and a healthy range for you is about 17-24
but heres a video from 17 for your legs and butt!
http://www.seventeen.com/health/train/vid/0,,625882_687671,00.html

hope i helped

♥
Jess

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I'm dying my hair tomorrow, (permanent)blonde and I don't know if I should wash my hair tonight when I'm gonna shower/bath. I heard its better for the dye to sink/stay in oily hair then fresh dry. Is that true? I haven't washed it for 3 days. Thanks in advance. :-)

My Uncle is a hair dresser so i know all this stuff ;-) and i get my hair highlighted.
its okay to shower when they say it doesnt work as well on fresh hair they mean it doesnt work well if you showered like an hour before or something like that. but i would soo wash your hair since you havent washed your hair in 3 days that makes you very prone to a break out on your face =)

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does anyone know where i can listen to the whole song My best friend by tim mcgraw online? or get a code for myspace? thanks a bunch!!!

you can look it up on Yahoo! music. or do a music search for tim mccgraw on myspace music and see if that is one of his featured songs!

Hope i helped!
♥Jess

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what are some really good mascara that is cheap (likebelow $10) that i can find at the store that seperates your eyelashes and makes them thicker/longer ?

I absolutely LOVE Revlon the kind i use is water proof. let me go get it so i can see what its called... haha . um okay its Revlon Lash-Fantasy Waterproof mascara.. its great it has a white primer to lengthen thicken and seperate lashes and then the other side has the color! its the only kind i will EVER use and its only like 5 bucks
hope i helped!
Jessica ♥

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Can my 8" Albino Oscar be compatible with a Flowerhorn cichlid roughly the same size? They'd both be in a large aquarium (100gal) if that makes a difference.

Thanks!

umm i think the oscar might be a little too agressive to be put with the flowerhorn cichlid. but i would ask a pet store to be certain!
hope i helped
♥Jess

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Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.

one of my friends said that her 16 year old sister did like 50 push ups a day and her boobs grew a cup size bigger in about a year. you could try that or just do what everybody else is saying with the bra and tight shirts =)
i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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Well, my 15th birthday is this Thursday. I'm having my party on February 11th, and I've decided to have an 80's themed party. Does anyone have any good websites that I can go to to find cool 80's stuff- like information on 80's music, fads, ect. . . I would really appreciate it!

here is a list of 80's fads i found! http://www.crazyfads.com/80s.htm

hope i helped! && Happy Birthday!
♥Jess

PS my birthday is on february 11th!

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Is there any way to lose like 5-10 pounds in a week and a half? I already try to watch what I eat, so I'm thinking maybe exercises or something? Nothing where I have to go out and by something. So that leaves out Pilates and stuff like that cause i dont have the videos or whatever. ((anything for arms stomach legs i dont really care what)) Thanks I'll rate

Theres fit TV .. look for it on your chanel guide they usually have workouts on there all day

but to loose that much in a week??? girl!, you would like have to go anorexit! MAJOR!

just eat healthy and stay fit!

good luck & hope i helped

♥Jess

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http://iconator.com/icon.php?IconID=460706
does anyone know what font that icon is using and how to make it light up?
*rate high for good answers*
thanks so much

i think the font is "CopprplGoth Bd BT" or "Fixedsys"

&& im not sure how to make it light up

i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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my brother and I both have ipods. Is there any way for his songs to only go onto his ipod, and my songs to only go on mine? The only major problem is, his Ipod can oly hold 500 songs. We have different titles, so his songs are under his name, and mine are under mine. Like as playlists. But there are already 445songs in our ipods, so his can only hold a few more.

So is there any way to select the songs that go onto each ipod? Can I get some of the songs off of my brothers?

thanks in advance!!

when you plug your ipod into the USB all of your songs will show up rather both of your. so i guess just keep adding stuff into your playlist and just update that playlist.
i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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Does anyone know any good emo punk rock bands or good songs? I will rate high.

im not sure if this is emo punk rock but Coheed & Cambria is pretty awesome
♥Jess

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How do you get text to scroll across the screen? Like say I typed:
I ♥ iCEP0PS!
I want that to scroll across the screen.
Thanks if you can help!

http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacebasics.php

scroll down its all the way at the bottom.

i hope i helped!!
♥Jess

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okay i have a light pink and black bed set my room theme is paris where can i find alot of goood accessories i want an old fashion phone and i want to make like a little chill spot in the corner of my room with a little low table and pillows plnket maybe tiiny couches all of this needs to be CHEAP im not a millionaire but i have money so i can afford certain things but i dont want to waste money can people please help me!

Delia*s has TONS of cute accesories
http://www.delias.com/index.jsp

i hope i helped
♥ Jess

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16/f

Ok, so I met this boy this summer. Actually he just IM'ed me one night because he somehow got my screename from one of his/my friends. We talked for a few nights and then it was a few months until we started talking again, but we really seemed to get along well. He is a senior at my school and plays football and so I could never be with him on game nights really so we went to the JV football games to hang out and we had a lot of fun. Anyway, I started to really like him.. a lot. So of course, I let some of my friends know.. and one of them ended up telling him without asking me. And I was SOO mad at first soo I talked to him to get it all settled out.. and I just told him how stupid I felt about me liking him after us having such a short relationship, but he told me that he really did like me too. So we talked on and off for a few weeks and then he ended up going back out with his old girlfriend.. I was devestated and SO confused about it all. For the next month or two, whenever I would see him, we would talk for a little and go our seperate ways. And now, about 2 months later, they are still together, but are having problems. I notice him at school and we always catch each other staring at eachother but I dont even know what to think of it anymore. I've tried so hard to just get over it, telling myself I deserve better, but no matter what I do, I always come back to him.

Any advice on what I should do?

hmm..i have almost the same problem..but anyway...i think that you will just have to wait untill they sort out there problems and just hope that they will break up and he will go out with you. Him staring at you all the time..that kind of a good sign! all i can say is wait!
i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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One of my guy friends wants me to streak his hair blond. I've never dyed a guy's hair before so I don't know what to do. He's Spanish and has really dark hair. It's not like I can use foil or a cap like I do with my girlfriends because his hair is too short (he just got it cut and it's longer on the top and shorter on the bottom but even the longer part can be spiked but they'll be really small spikes).
Does anyone have any advice/websites that will give me an idea on how to do it?

my uncle works in a salon and whenever peoples hair is to short to highlight with foil he puts on gloves and just like paints their hair with the little brush thing. and i also did that to my dad and i just put it on my fingers (with gloves on) and kind of rubbed it on there like kind of spiking his hair with the dye on my fingers.
i hope i helped!
♥Jess

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I have been dating this boy and as we were walking along when suddenly he grabbed me and started kissing me. He caught me so off guard I messed up the kiss leading to him getting spit over my mouth and to make things worse I said ew. I was so emarassed and i think he was too, which is the worse thing that could of happened.(I have talked him bout that acident which is sorted now I think) That was my first time kissing someone so I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to spot when someone is about to kiss you and some pointers on kissing to help me avoid embarissing myself again.

will rate high for good answers
thank you xxx

here are some random facts!::

People with crooked teeth usually KiSS BETTER than people with straight teeth ..

When you chew gum before you kiss,, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands Mints work MUCH better.

BE A GREAT KiSSER W/ THESE TiPS

-- T0UCH THEIR FACE

-- RUN Y0UR FiNGERS THR0UGH THEIR HAiR

-- KiSS S0FTLY AT FiRST, THEN APPLY M0RE PRESSURE

--
H0LD THEM...
it shows you want them near you.

kissing is healthy

89% of guys want YOU to make the 1st move
Ya but 99.99% of girls want guys to make the first move

Kissing Language (yup, it's a language)
if a kiss is the Language of Love,
then we have a lot to talk about it...

methods of Love....

+kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm horny"
+kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're friends"
+kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you"
+kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong together"
+kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you"
+kiss on the lips---------------------"i love you" or "i want you"
+holding hands-----------------------"we can learn to love each other"
+a wink---------------------------------"Let's get it on"
+slap on the butt---------------------"thats mine"
+playing with the ear----------------"i can't live without you"
+holding on tight---------------------"don't let go"
+looking into each other's eyes---"let's get romantic"
+playing with hair on head---------------"tell me you love me"
+arms around the waist -----------"i love you too much to let go"
+laughing while kissing-----------"i am completley comfortable w/you"

=advice=
***if you're kissing someone, close your eyes. it's not nice to stare...

i copied and pasted all this stuff.. I HOPE I HELPED!!

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are there significant meanings in the way a guys honds your hands.. like if he always wants to have interlacing fingers ...doesn that mean something ?

and is there amy sites that cant tell you the meanings of this stuff...like he always kisses my neck..what does that mean ?

thanks !!

by the way im 16 female
thanks
ill rate for good answers!

kiss on the neck means "we belong together"

here are some random facts!::

People with crooked teeth usually KiSS BETTER than people with straight teeth ..

When you chew gum before you kiss,, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands Mints work MUCH better.

BE A GREAT KiSSER W/ THESE TiPS

-- T0UCH THEIR FACE

-- RUN Y0UR FiNGERS THR0UGH THEIR HAiR

-- KiSS S0FTLY AT FiRST, THEN APPLY M0RE PRESSURE

--
H0LD THEM...
it shows you want them near you.

kissing is healthy

89% of guys want YOU to make the 1st move
Ya but 99.99% of girls want guys to make the first move

Kissing Language (yup, it's a language)
if a kiss is the Language of Love,
then we have a lot to talk about it...

methods of Love....

+kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm horny"
+kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're friends"
+kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you"
+kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong together"
+kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you"
+kiss on the lips---------------------"i love you" or "i want you"
+holding hands-----------------------"we can learn to love each other"
+a wink---------------------------------"Let's get it on"
+slap on the butt---------------------"thats mine"
+playing with the ear----------------"i can't live without you"
+holding on tight---------------------"don't let go"
+looking into each other's eyes---"let's get romantic"
+playing with hair on head---------------"tell me you love me"
+arms around the waist -----------"i love you too much to let go"
+laughing while kissing-----------"i am completley comfortable w/you"

=advice=
***if you're kissing someone, close your eyes. it's not nice to stare...

i copied and pasted all this stuff.. I HOPE I HELPED!!

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Who know's spanish.

Can somebody tell me what "Lusta Prima Vista" means.

I dont really know if it's spanish, but if it is...can you tell me?

what they said "looking for" ...if you have anymore words to translate this is a GREAT site. www.wordreference.com

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