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What do I do?
I really like this boy,
And my best friend dose too.
I know I shouldent beacuse she's my best friend but I cant stop thinking about him. I told her but she doesent seem to care. But then I asked her how to get his attention b/c they are friends. she told me to wear boy cloths like she was. So I did i dont know if he really has noticed me.But my Best friend can get a little jealous and stubern somtimes, so I dont know if my friend is lying not to get his attention or if she is telling the truth. b/c u know she likes him and a rumer is going around that he likes gymnast's and prepy girls. but my friend barly ever lie's to me.
who should I belive? What should I do????
-Lanie Day underhill
aka-lanie_the_advicer
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she's lying to you! even though you say she barly lyes to your, there a guy involved and girls can be very jelouse competative, deceptive to get what they want especially when it comes to guys. trust me on this. if you were originally prepy then go back to that, cause you heard he likes preppy girls. i think you should for a few days observe him and then you'll know what he's into.
goodluck
syireen
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Be yourself. Stop dressing like a boy. He isn't dating her, so therefore, it doesn't mean he likes her just b/c she is wearing boy clothes. If your not yourself, he won't know the real you. I'm not saying she is lying, just maybe she doesn't know how to get his attention. Boys are really hard to figure out.
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hey! i know it tuff and you feel like hey maybe my friend swrewing me over because she wants him for herself. maybe this is true or maybe not. but you and your friend have to come to an agreement who is more important your friend or the boy who doesnt notice you. me i wouldnt wouldnt go with him because your friend is sending you a sign saying no i dont want you to go with him it like if she cant have him neither can you. but remember boys will come and boys will go but a good strong loving friendship will last a lifetime dont go with him if its going to hurt your friendship and chances are if she likes him too even though thats your best friend she going to want him to notice her more than he notices you. so the question is do i go with him or dont i? if i do whats going to happen? your friend could stop talking to you and even if she does it hard to get past a crush and the friendship will never be the same but if you dont go with him then he may actually like you and then you will never no what i could be. i know it is troubling but if he does like you he should like you for you not for being a gymnasts or prepy if thats not you then dont try to change if he hasnt noticed you already then he isnt. he should like you for you and nothing less than that. your friend may be jealous and its not that she doesnt want you to be happy she just doesnt want you to have him yeah thats selfish but if she is truely your best friend youll try to get over him it will be hard i know ive been there but whats more important friend,best friend or boy, boy that you have to change yourself just for him to notice you because i you change into a gymnast or prepy hes going to like gymnast and prepy and never truely like you for you and he will never get to know you. so if you dont want to forget him introduce yourself to him as a friend let him get to know you then decide if he likes you and you still like him and wait untill he ask you out dont ask him out start off as friends get to know him then take it from there. good luck hope this helps you
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this is truley a sucky situation, you are honestly going to have to make a choice here. you can contine to pursue this boy, but it will prolly put a strain on your friendship. some best friends can go for the same guy an just be happy for whoever gets him, but i personally, feel friends (good ones) are more important than guys. my best friend an i have both agreed to never go for the same guy, we allow the one that "liked him first" to do the chasing. then if hes not intrested in them each of us will get a chance after the other has moved on.the only exception to this is if you feel hes "the one" in which case obviously the better friend would back down from that. now i cant tell you whos telling the truth about the look, but hey, try both an see if theres a change in how he looks at you. but keep in mind, that if you do find out your friend was lying, try not to be too mad at her, because it probably means she really likes him alot. srry for length, good luck
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