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i didn't know what category to use but when i get my braces off i wanna make sure that my teeth are white..some say if you brush your teeth with baking soda it really helps but im scared that my teeth will be like glowing white and i dont want that to look retarded. i just want a nice shade of white..and is it safe to brush with baking soda?

yeah it is safe ive done it before

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i've counted up the days after my peirod and i think my boyfriend and i missed my ovulation days by a few days everytime. the last time we had sex and i could have been ovulation would have been on the 2nd of this month. and i took a test yesterday that came up negative. do you think i'll have a positive result later on? or should it have showed up by now?

Well alot of girls have been late on their period before. So you could just be late..wait a while and if your brests get bigger and your nipples get darker then you are pregnant

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Okay when i was 13 i got drunk and had sex and he didnt use a condom. I got pregnant and told the father and he moved an i had my baby girl. Now im 15, every time i tell a bf i had a baby they end up breaking up with me. There is a guy who ive been dating for a lomg time now and he said hed be with me through all of the obsticals...well this is a huge obstical. Should i tell him i had a baby or say it is my mothers and tell my mother to go along with it till i tell him? (My mom had me when she was sixteen so she is young)

Well...ask him what he would do if he ever dated someone who had a baby and then say because my mom had me when she was 16 and all the guys she dated dumped her because she had meand i thought that was rude...if he says he would dump them dump him right then and there... but if he says he would stay with them tell him that you had a baby when you were 13

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Ok so Im a 14/f. I've had 2 boyfriends. I didnt do anything with either one except i like cuddled and held hands with one of them. I know its not a big deal, and I feel like im being left out, yet its my fault. My first ex is really into like hooking up and stuff. Even though we're not together, he wants to makeout with me like all the time. I think I still like him, and Im going to be hanging out with him and some other guy friends in a few days. The problem is that im too scared to makeout but at the same time, im not. I want to, im just scared that I wont be good at it. And i know im going to have a hard time getting myself to actually go through with it. Is there any way I can signal to him that I just want to kiss him, and not makeout? Without actually speaking the words to him? Thanks everyone, sorry its long.

i had the same problem...i just got my friend chelsea to makeout with me and she said i was a good kisser and when i tell guys about that they get turned on lol but that should be for more older people...just tell him you dont think you are a good kisser and theyll understand...oh btw im not a lez or bi im straight

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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ?

spend time with her and she might get to like you...thats what i do with guys

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ohk so im going to be getting an ipod, it holds 1,000 songs but my question is lets say for example i have 225 songs on my ipod & im getting sick of 5 songs can i delete them so there for i would have 220 songs left?

yeah you can

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I had just gotten a kitten for my birthday and I was wondering if there was a way I could get it to slowly stop meowing as much. It also doesn't really like being touched but I think that's because the lady that owned it had his litter outdoors. I'm trying my best to handle him and get him used to being around people but he meows every few minutes. So any ideas on how to calm him down?

my kitten did that all the time when we first got her...eventually she got used to people and being touched...when he calms down take him outside for a while(hold him) and just show him his surroundings and then a couple days later let him outside...he wont meow alot anymore and he'll love to be touched...if it worked with my cat it can work with yours

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I am wondering if it is safe to use LymDyp on a pregnant cat? She just wandered here this morning and she has a bit of the mange. I want to clean her up before I take her to the vet.
If I use it on her, what's the worst thing that could happen? What if she licks herself?

no dont use it just take her...the vet will cleen her up

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i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind

yeah it is
when i was littler my cat was my best friend
she still is i have animal best friends and human best friends

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Im looking for a dog, and i dont like small dogs. My mom however, if like pretty afraid of big dogs, a neat freak, and cant stand dominent dogs. I really wanted a Lab or a Pit bull, but my mom says that labs are way too active for her, and pitbulls of course were always out of the question. I also really like huskies. i was wondering, do you know if they are like hyperactive and likely to jump on you like labs? i have a large back yard, and a big house.
THANX SO MUCH. i rate high.

well it depends on the dog not all of them are hyper...i have a greyhound and we didnt even take him to doggie school or what ever and he is really obediant...and i have some friends who have really calm huskies and hyper ones...so basicly what im trying to say is some huskies are really hyperactive and some are obediant

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Hi i need to teach a dog not to dig. Does anyone here have any suggestions? Please help. I rate 5's 4 good answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this id what we did to get our dog to stop diging
if you have a chain link fence and it digs by the fence tie it by it with a short length

if you dont have a chain link fence get sonething ti stick in the ground to tie it up or get something heavy and tir it ti that...make sure it is right by the hole

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my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat.

Well you cant exactly be sure. You should take it to the vet.

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Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him.

I think he is just looking for sex. If yoou continue dating him and get to a point where you have sex with him, i think he will just dump you after you have sex (if it evr happens)

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This year I wasn't doing so well in school. I failed 2 classes! My mom got sooo mad at me! So she put me in Summer School. Ughhh! I got so mad at her, I failed Summer School on purpose because I was so angry I had to do it. 3 days ago my mom got my Summer School Report Card. I'm grounded for the rest of the summer. I can do stuff still, but no sleepovers. But then I told my mom Summer School was hard for me. So, now I'm not grounded. But now I feel like I'm on the spot.. and I regret what I did. What should I do?? =/



x- Lauren -x


Well i think you should just explain to your mom what happened.

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Hey Everybody!
My High School will be having a Sweethearts Dance in February, and the girls ask out the guys. Well, there's this guy I like and in the past we had our little trouble times, but I think he likes me again! I want to ask him, but I don't know how. So, do any of you know how I should ask him to the dance?

I know I have asked this question before, just a little reminder because I need to ask him, now! So if you have anymore ideas, tell me as soon as possible!!
Love you guys.
~MiSSc~

P.S.~ I wanna do something sweet for him since he's a sweet guy. I want to ask him out that involves a poem, chocolate (because he loves chocolate), or anything special or cool. So, Got any tips?

give him a note asking or make one of your friends ask for you or just take deep breths and ask him

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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant without takeing her to the vet because we dont have enough money(i should have put that in when i asked it before

you can tell she is pregnant by if her stomach skin starts to drop also if her teets get bigger if that dosent happen she isnt pregnant.

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I have a dog right now who is 7 years old - in human years. My brother and I really want another dog - a puppy- probably the same kind as the 1 I have now. But I just can't convince my parents!! Any ideas???!!

show them you can take care of another pet...like ask them if you can babysit a neighbors pet...or use a stuffed animal...or pretend you have another one. hope i helped

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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant?

you can tell she is pregnant by if her stomach skin starts to drop also if her teets get bigger if that dosent happen she isnt pregnant take her to a vet to see if she is

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My mother bought me a beta fish (a Japanese fighting fish) and I have no idea how to take care of it. I got a book on how to take care of it, but you have to decode it (meaning I don't understand a word of it) The local veterenarians don't really know how to take care of these fish because not alot of their clients have fighting fishes. Does anyone on Advicenators know ANYTHING about these fishes? Do you know any sites where I can find information?

feed it beta fish food cleen its tank with water cleener put it in a tank with glass and dont put it with other males bc they will kill each other if u see small bubbles on the water that means he wants to mate give him a female and if u see white things in the bubbles after awhile with the female those are eggs than carefully take the female out of the tank and put it in another tank bc she will eat the eggs and feed the male 4 times a day so he wont eat the eggs either but the males hardly kill the babies just do this and they will live also you remove the female bc she will kill the male too after they get eggs

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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks

take it to the vet

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