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can you use powder and then bronzer just on your nose and cheeks? (link)
yeah the bronzer goes on really well on the apple of ur cheeks and on the bone...and a tiny bit on ur nose and chin. it will highlight those areas. but only use a tiny bit. you dont want to over due it.


Well okay i want air force ones for school i buy them every year.. but its going to be hard this year cause the store that was near us is closed so i cant buy em.. and ive tried internet sites and most of them said they arent allowed to sell them :( which is dumb.. so i wanted to know does anybody know a website that you know sell em and that i can get em.. thanks alot if you can help id be happy to rate high.. (link)
may sound strange, but try ebay if nothing else works. or academy (academy.com)


My mom doesn't want me to have suade sneakers. She thinks they'll get ruined in the rain. Do they? If they do does they water proofing spray really work? Is there anyway I can convince my mom to let me get them? Thank you. (link)
actually that would be a very bad choice. the spray doesnt work and they will last no time. maybe try converses?



o1. What is foundation used for?
o2. What is the difference between foundation && concealer?
o3. What is better, bronzer or face powder?


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01. foundation is used to cover your entire face. it is a liquid that you can get in any store. if you have questions on how to apply it let me know and i'll give them to you in detail (also how to prevent base lines and smudges)
02. foundation is used to cover your whole face and even out your skin tone. if you have sun damaged skin or acne or just diffrent skin tones (as most of us do) you apply it to make your face one smooth (but natural looking) color. concealer comes usually in a little tube and is a very light color. it's used to cover specific areas such as dark circles under your eyes or large blemishes/pimples. it should be applied before foundation. it's mainly a touch up to problem areas.
03. face powder is better. bronzer leaves your skin slightly shiny and it doesnt look very natural. plus powder evens out your skin tone more and if your using foundation it smooths that out as well.

hope this helped, and again if you have further questions with how to apply any of this i can help you.


I just moved here from a different state & I'm starting school on Monday next week. I'm extremely nervous, I've never moved schools before & I'm 15. Pretty much, my question is: At lunch, I'll probably be sitting by myself. Does anyone have any suggestions on some things I could do to interest me, while sitting at lunch by myself. I don't want to look stupid and just sit there and stare around at people. I want to be able to do something. I'm not going up to people and asking them to sit with them because, I'm not that type of person. Thanks for your help. (link)
oh yay! i love this question! i was new last year and i was also 15! oh my gosh i know how excited and scared you prolly feel! and your stomach will be doin flips on the way to school but there's really nothing to worry about. trust me, you won't be sitting alone at lunch. i thought the same way, but i went to my first class and read a magazine so i didnt look so bored and within 10 minutes a girl talked to me! just try to be relaxed and trust me plenty of people will talk to you. and the first day may be a little rocky because you'll be neverous and the other kids are goin to be just as scared about talkin to you, so it will take a while for them to warm up to you, but it will be no time before you'll have friends and it will seem normal again! i'm starting this year and it feels so weird to not be the new kid. I actually kinda miss it! it was an awesome experience and you'll be fine! you have nothing to worry about.


oh and as for your question get a magazine to read. even if you dont read it, u'll still look cool. haha.

if you have any other questions about this u can im me! i'd love to answer, i could go on and on about this. haha.


I think I'm scaring my crush... she's not showing any signs, but that's just so far. I mean, first, I told her how much I love her. Then, I asked her to the fair. Then, I wrote a song about her, and anyone who knows me knows that I can't write songs for my life! I think maybe soon she'll get scared off, but these things are just bugging me, and I feel like I'll keep thinking about her until I do something for her. Please help! (link)
it does seem like your coming on a little to strong, but not to worry. girls are simple really, as weird as that sounds. they want what they can't have. they want to chase you so back off and let her come to you. if you come on to strongly in the begining theres nothing to look forward to later on down the road, and believe me girls think into the future. try to maintain confident around her b/c that will relax her, girls worry about what you think about them as much as you do. and try to be yourself, if your fake she'll see right thru it. good luck.


hey. i'm going on a date to a thrice, finch and zox concert on thursday and i was wondering what i should wear. it's a first date, so how should i wear my hair and makeup? i'm 5'5", i have brown eyes, brown hair and i'm preppy. thanks. (link)
you should proably wear your hair up because it will get very hot! as for clothes just try a comfortable pair of pants and maybe a cammy with a button up shirt over it or a blue jean jacket. Stick with flip flops or other comfy shoes because the heels will kill you. haha. as for makeup do what you would normaly do ,and if you'd like to jazz it up a little try to bring out ur eyes with a light pink or white shadow, black eye liner and black masquera. dont over do it with foundation and blush. hope this helped.


But one of my really good guy friends birthday is coming up on the 31st. I was just wondering what I could get him. Any Ideas? I'm totally clueless. Ill rate!!

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well if he's a guy and a music fan pick him up a cd. if that is out of your price range try a poster (maybe of a girl) you can get them at walmart for about 3 or 4 bucks. try pj pants...their about 11 dollars and there are all kinds of styles to fit his personality.


Whats a good idea for a first day of school outfit? im going to be a freshman. im skinny. brown hair. green eyes. i have kindof a preppish look. money isnt a big issue. i just need ideas. (link)
i dont know the styles where your from but here in texas the wrinkled longer cammys are very in style, maybe a blue jean jacket and kacky pants!


ok i just got a myspace and i was wondering where i can get kool layouts for it. and also where do you put the layout code??
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http://www.createblog.com has pre-made layouts. You just pick one you like, click dowload, copy the code and paste it into your about me section!


Is it any different if I'm a guy? I know you said the nurturing state is normal for girls, what about guys? (link)
Actually guys fall into this state a little later than girls. So that could be what's happening to you. My boyfriend never wanted to have kids until about 16 and suddenly he wanted to. I honestly think there is nothing to worry about. It's natural and who knows, you could change your mind a million times between now and then.


OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me? (link)
Oh sweetie, yes of cource. I made the decision a few years ago that I didn't want to get married. The thought of it, just didn't seem to fit in my plan. After meeting my boyfriend now I've decided otherwise and also decided to have children. It's a personal choice.

Also around 14 or 15 your become to come to a nurturing state in your life. You feel the need to want to care for something. This happens to almost all girls and it can affect your decision to have children.

Nothing is wrong with you!




Does anyone no how to get eye makeup off, anything but vasiline or is thta the only thing that workds?
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Actually baby oil works pretty good or you can buy make-up remover or cloth removers from any store!


okay i have blonde hair that comes alittle past my shoulders, do you think maybe you can give me some tips on how to fix it for prom?
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OKay...I'm no sure if your hair is straight or not so it's gonna be hard to answer this question but I would only put half of it up and live the back straight. Blonde hair always looks pretty when straight and neat. For the front part (that you put up) you could do a pretty bun with lots of bobby pins and a curlin iron. Bring some peices down in the front and curl them under just slightly to frame your face! I could proably give you more advice if I had a picture of your hair or a better discription. Feel free to IM me at hardcorexairhead and I'll send you some pictures of what I think might loook good! Hope I helped hun!


i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance. (link)
Try bright colors. Bright pinks, whites, purples. They'd all look great with your brown eyes. As far as eye liner goes go with black or silver. DO NOT USE BROWN.



Hey! If You have a favorite quote, or an inspiring something to share: please do!

I'll rate all 5's! Promice:)

-*KeLs*- (link)
And that night as he held her he just couldn't believe that God could make a girl that he'd never ever leave.

You had me pressed against your car, never seen you this sexy before. Had me gasping for air and beggin for more.


ok.. i put on my base and the rest of my makeup..and my face just seems shiney, like its reflecting the light. I have no idea what that means or how i can make it not shiney..any ideas? (link)
After putting on your liquid makeup then add powder.


does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high (link)
put spoons in the freezer overnight! When you wake up in the morning put them on your eyes (almost like an ice pack) for just a few minutes. Then when you put on your makeup apply a lighter shade of base/foundation to your eyes. After apply eye make-up add extra powder around your eyes.


Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear. (link)
This may sound weird but bring it up on the phone or online, wherever its easiest to talk about it and say something corny like "so...why don't u ever try to kiss me?" More than likely he'll give you some goffy reason and just say "I think it's cause your to scared" At that point your questioning his "ego" and he's going to get defensive (in a playful way) and just tell him "prove it."

Another alternative: hug him by and say "oh I don't get a kiss???"

Last suggestion would just be the suprise attack. Make it flirty and fun and maybe push him up against the wall and then kiss him. It's simple.

Do it in a moment that feels right. You'll know and when it happens it happens. Don't stress.


I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am. (link)
IM me and we can talk!




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