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I am 17/f and my boyfriend and i have been goin out for 2 years and he just started talking about having sex. I was wondering if i am still to yound to have sex with him or if its probobly the good time in our relation ship to. And if u know anyway to make him happy in bed? (link)
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Well, what have you already done with him? Age is just a number, it won't tell you if your ready or not. Personally I wouldnt go through with it, because the relationship WILL change if you do... Plus then what do you have to look forward to if he is the one. Then he may expect you to do it all the time... It takes alot to get up and walk away from a situation. Your worried about it or obviously you wouldn't have asked. If you wasnt me to answer the other question, ask it to me again... I wish you the best of luck in whatever you do... Make sure. if you do, you guys are safe. Good Luck. Hon, Talk to him about it too.
Nokomis
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i want to get one of the music download things for my computer... but my dad is really iffy on it... how do i let him know it wont harm our computer, and that its not illegal... also what are some ones other than limewire... i tried that before and my dad was really mad aboutit... and are there any of them that cant get into the cookies? that was the only thing my mom was worried about.. so can u please just tell me some of the sites i can visit that cant interfere with all the personal information?!?! thanks so much!! (link)
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you can download bearshare for music
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im so sad ever sinced i moved away,i found out that my friends [[not all,some]] didnt like me,people here are so mean.i need advice :( (link)
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Not everyone is like that. Don't long for the people from your past, there is a reason they never made it to your future.
Nokomis
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okay i have a friend in argentina and her mom and dad got devorsed the other day and her and her mom and to move in to someone else's house becuase the dad is like going to jail becuase he is a really really really bad person!!! My friend is always sending me e-mail and seems really sad!!! How can i mak eher feel better i fell bad for her!!!!! I mean she does not have very many friends either and a lot of peole make fun of her!!!! How can i help her feel better at least a little better? THank you in advance!!! I rate high!!!!! :) (link)
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Well first off, what happens was meant to happen. You've heard that everything happens for a reason, right? Well it does, even if you can't see the reason. Its kind of like the saying 'Don't long for people from your past, there is a reason they never made it to your future'. Plus, chances are she will be able to see her dad, even if he is in jail. When she is around her mother or her father seperately, they will probably be happier now that they dont have bad thoughts hanging over them. All you can do is be there for her, give her reassurance, and be an ear. As for the friends thing, having alot of friends is not important, If you have one good friend, your doing better than alot of people. You sound like a good friend so dont worry about that. Hope I helped, if you need anything else just ask me.
Best Wishes,
~Nokomis~
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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
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Switch shampoos, wash twice, make sure you get everything out. I use herbal essences for oily hair. Good Luck!
~Nokomis~
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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
I am 13 years old. (link)
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I guarantee that it isn't your glasses, you do not need a guy right now. You should wait for the one that will sweep you off your feet, it may sound corny, but it happens. Be confident. You can't expect someone else to love you if you dont love yourself. Hope I helped. It Is Not Your Glasses!
~Nokomis~
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how do you boost your self-esteem? mainly about your body image. i've been having a lot of trouble with my body image =\, and i don't know what to do. whenever i eat i regret eating. when i pinch my stomach i have about 4 inches of fat (and thats standing up!).. i try to keep myself away from food, but then that's all i think about & i eat alot.
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You are in no way fat!!! After you eat you could try going for a walk to get your mind off of it but there is no reason for you to even think you are chubby. Trust me you are probably thin if you 115lbs and 5'7". If there are any specific questions you'd like to ask, just drop one in my inbox.
~Nokomis~
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i want to invite my bf over to my house so he can meet my parents and so we can hang out and thats the only way my parents would feel comfertable with me and him being together is if it under their supervision, so what can we do if he comes over? (link)
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I would think you can watch movies, play board games, cook, listen to music, there are a lot of things you could do. Don't stress out over it, it will be okay!
~Nokomis~
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Ok im going to Miami Flordia on April 18 thru thr 23. What i need to know is this- Anyone who LIVES in Flordia that can tell me what to pack. Shorts, tanktop, long pants, capris. Please Help
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Well I live in Niceville, Fl and right now I'm wearing shorts and a short-sleevedshirt. You should be fine wearing anything but a sweater or sweat pants. Oh yeah, bring sun screen and lip balm that has sunscreen in it. Remember, if you are trying to get a tan, and you stay out in the sun, even if you dont see it at first, it is there! FYI 15 minutes is long enough to get a dark tan at the beach. It is warm outside, but the water is still a bit chilly. I don't know where your from, but the water is probably anywhere from 60 to 70 degrees, this to me is cold, to you it may not be. Well, have a fantastic trip. If you have anymore questions before you leave, just drop one in my inbox!
~Nokomis~
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Hi I'm 13 and I have never been very popular and I have never had many friends at school. I was always the straight A student and the goody goody and thats just how I was. But this year I decided to try to make friends. A lot of friends. I started to bend the rules a little bit. Once I found out that I could get away with anything because I was comsidered the good child I just couldn't stop. I became very popular and started not doing my homework. I figured whats wrong with that? I'm just like evryone else I'm not weird I'm cool. But now I'm rude and I don't care about my work at all. I ruined my straight A's and now I don't know what to do. I just want to go back and be able to control my self and not have the pressure to keep my so called frineds. What can I do? (link)
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Well start doing your homework for one. This isn't a complete loss because you actually want to fix it. Dedicate more time to school work, being popular isn't that important.
~Nokomis~
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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend) (link)
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He wants to fit in socially, my guy is the same way. Its all good. Tell him how it makes you feel. Don't sweat it, he may just be insecure.
~Nokomis~
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well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!! (link)
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It sounds like depression to me. Talk to your mom and get her to take you to the doctor. sk your doctor about your symptoms and he/she will probably give you either lexapro,zoloft, or prozac. It should really help. Best Wishes! Let me know how it goes.
~Nokomis~
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Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate (link)
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Tell her it was a mistake, thats why you only did it once. Tell her everyone makes mistakes. She'll realize it.
~Nokomis~
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Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!! (link)
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If you cant shave your legs, then you can bring tweezers and pluck (tell them its for your eyebrows or something), or buy a razor on you trip and throw it away before you come back. You Can Not Bring A Razor On A Plane!!! Good luck!
~Nokomis~
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ok.. well mayy 22nd is this crossfade concert that REALLY want to go to. im 13 (f) lol and my mom wont let me go because of the place that its in. its called toads place its in new haven connecticut (kinda ghetto but not really} and i need to convince her to let me go, because she doesnt understand how much that i really want to, their my fav band and blah blah blah.. so what im asking is how can i convince her to let me go? thanks for the help! ashley (link)
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Bring a friend with you. Tell them they will be able to get in touch with you no matter what. It works with my parents!
~Nokomis~
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We all live in Soutern Utah in a mobile home park. 140 families who live here many of whom are disabled and/or on fixed incomes. Many of us have mobile homes that are on a foundation. A greedy land owner has bought this property and has imposed a 79.5% rent increase that a lot of us just can't make. we have approx. 1 month to figure out what to do. No one here seems to have an answer. This man is known to buy land which he in turn drives people out, then developes it.WHAT CAN WE DO? If anything please let us know. Thank You for your time. (link)
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I have to agree, a petition is the only thing I could think of. Good luck! I hope it all works out!
~Nokomis~
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What do you do for clammy hands? (link)
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Buy a lotion without moisturizer.
~Nokomis~
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i am pregnet like 2 months along, and as we know your not supposed to have sex, well my boyfriend really want it, but i cant give it to him, and i dont want him cheating on me, i was wondering if you can have anal sex while being pregnet? (link)
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You can have anal as well as vaginal sex. There isn't anything wrong with it, and it won't hurt your baby! If you feel uncomfortable just don't do it or ask your doctor if you still aren't sure.
~Nokomis~
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Well hi I really need help. I saw this guy that is my frinds friend and we r going out. Then one day when we were at dinner he told me that he is a crossdresser. Ya no not a guy that dresses like a girl, a GIRL! that dresses like a guy! I was petrified! I didnt know what to do. I mean im in love with a girl, now I felt dumb that I was d8ing a girl the whole time. She keeps on calling trying to apologize but I dont want to pick up! What do I do? (link)
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Why does it matter, you don't choose love, love chooses you! In my opinion if you love someone nothing else matters. Also is it a love like a sister or like romantically? Ask yourself, you maybe panincing over nothing.
~Nokomis~
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Does anyone have some questions like:
"If a person with split persionalities thretened suicide, whould that be considered a hostage situation?"
anyone got those?
my friends and me love to talk about that wierd stuff!!
Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*- (link)
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No, they would put them in the psyche unit in a hospital because they are mentally incapable of knowing right from wrong and they are a danger to themselves and others around them. At least thats what I think. Hope I helped!
~Nokomis~
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