Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: strykersville, new york
Occupation: stay at home mom
Age: 30
Yahoo: aprilericmc@yahoo.com
MSN: eric.april@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 30, 2005
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I split with my sons father over 4 yrs ago and he still sees him every saturday and stays the night. When he comes home he is argumentative, stressed, tearful and keeps having little 'accidents' in his pants, never a big pooh, he just pushes a little bit out and then tells me he couldnt get to the loo in time, even tho his room is next to the bathroom. Why do you think he's doing it, is it for attention??? and if so, how do i deal with it??? (link)
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I kind of had the same problem that you have. My kids go to there father's too. When they get home the are very argumentive to me too. The reason for this is that he hates to have his parents apart and he wants you to get back with him. So if he does something he probaby thinks your going to call him and ask him what is wrong with him and to see if he does it at his house too. But tell your son that isn't not good to go in his pants.plus tell him that you'll always love him but you and your father can't be together but he'll always love him. Work real hard with him and spend alot of time with him. He might think it's his fauth that your not together with his father. Hope I helped. Good luck.
april
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Hi. This is F/14.
My problem is (If this is a problem)I Have no pubic hair on my armpits and around vagina. My skin there is just like 8 year old girl. I started my periods one & a half year back. Is this a big problem. What may be the reason? I am worried about any future disease. Please advice?
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WEll sometimes it takes some girls longer to get hair around the privates and armpits. If you feel worried about this. I would ask your mom to take you to the doctors and see if there might be a problem or if its nothing to worry about. When i was your age i got my periold when i was nine but didn't get any hair until i was about 15. so you could wait or talk to your mom. hope i helped.
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Okay, im 16 years old and my mother is taking me to the doctor because my period is ver irregular, and my cramps are so bad...but i dont want her finding out im not a virgin, is it legal for my doctor to tell her that im not one?...if so is there anyway i can get him not to? (link)
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WEll that you can do is have your mom wait in the waiting room and then when you go and see the doctor, you can tell them that your not a virgin but you would like them not to tell your mom and they shouldn't. They shouldn't tell her. I hope that this helps. But if your mom goes in with you she might find out but maybe this is the best way to find out and get you on the birth control. See how it goes. God luck and let me know what happens.
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Ok so this friend of mine is really rich and all kinds of girls try to get with him all the time. He's had it happen a few times that the chick he's been with uses him for his money.
He says he doesn't care that girls go after him for his money because it's just a way for them to connect and get to know each other better. I think if a girl is after your money, she's after your money and she isn't interested in getting to know you.
If I had that kind of money and I knew a girl I was seeing wasn't in it for the real me, it would be a MAJOR turn off.
What is your opinion on this? Wouldn't it bother anyone that people are after such a supreficial thing? (link)
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I would bother me alot. It says something about a girl who only wants a man for his money. If your friend doesn't mind that so be it.For me I look for things that matter in a guy not what he has in his wallet.
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Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves? (link)
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I was always told that opposites attract. That what makes your love more strong. I'm with a guy who is the opposite. I love him with all of my heart and he keeps thing very intering. that is why I married him. I think that you both have a chance. Don't let your friends get in the way. I hope that they will support you. good luck.
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i've been with this girl for a few months now even though we are usually in different towns. i don't konw if she accepts me as her boyfriend yet, even though when i asked her about it she does not give a yes or now but merely keeps communicating with me amorously. How do i find out form her if she takes me to be her boyfriend, if she akes me seriously if she has someone else,etc. Thank you. (link)
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Well if she doesn't give you a yes or no answer, then she doesn't look at you as her boyfriend and she's probably going out with someone else that lives near her. I would just ask her if she's seeing someone else, so that you can move on and find someone else that wants to be yourgirlfriend.
good luck
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what is an orgasm how do u have one and what do they do? (link)
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well first of all it would help if I know your age. becuase I don't like to answer questions to someone that is not of age. So if you would like me to answer plwase let me know your age. thank you
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How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean? (link)
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Just say Mom could you wait here, I would like to try and do this alone for once because you won't always be able to take me. I know she'll be comfortable with that.
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i'm a girl, and i'm 16 and i never used to masturbate but i recently discovered it.
however i feel that i'm the only girl that does it and i am embarassed by this fact. do a lot of girls do it? i know no-one will talk about it, and its probably not as common as with guys, but i'd like to think i'm not alone out there. :(
also -- i think i get close to orgasm, but i always stop myself because i'm afraid of making too much noise (i live with my parents) i start to shake and feel a bit "dizzy" does this mean i'm close? should i just go with the flow when this happens?
sorry for all the questions. thanks for all your help. (link)
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There's alot of girls and woman who still to this day masturbate. It's not a bad thing. There woman who are married that still do it to help them explore there sex life. When your alone or your parents are home, when you start to shake and get dizzy your head in your pillow and go for it. god luck and enjoy
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I just got a membership to a gym and will be starting on Tuesday. I've never tried to lose weight by going to the gym but I am trying to lose at least 30 pounds before June. Any ideas on how to approach this?? Any ideas on how to work out at the gym since I'm new to this whole thing? (link)
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When you go to a gym they have trainers there that can help you. If you have certain parts that you want to target they can help and let you know what kinds of foods will help. It;s good to talk to your doctor too. god luck
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i've looked on google under HIV and AIDS and i'm still a bit baffled at what really causes it. the sites i've been to only state that you get the virus from an already infected person through sex, sharing needles, or sleeping around.
my question is, how does one get infected in the first place? is it the mixing of body fluids in the bloodstream that causes it (i.e. anal sex, sharing needles/razors, etc)? could it possibly be led on from other stds? what is the real cause? (link)
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For someone to get the aids virus of to get hiv the have to either use a needle from someone of have sex or back when you could get it by a blood transfuseion (not now). It's hard to say where it came from but they are making alot of progress in finding a cure or slowing it down. hope i helped
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Okay this is going to be really long..so i have been on and off with my first love from 7th grade im now in 10th..but last summer i moved on and met my 2nd love which i really did love and wanna be with.we were together everyday nothing came in the middle of us..then my dad past away and my first love came back into my life because my family went threw alot when i was with him and he knew my dad unlike my 2 love..so i went to my first love for some help and understanding..my 2 love went outta town the night i found out..my first night didnt leave my side and was there with me for the next few days til i left and went out of town..while outta town both of them would text me sweet things..but i would only talk to my 2 love on the phone at night..on the way home waiting in the air port my 1st love had been textin me all day and told me he wanted to be with me again..but i didnt look at him like that anymore because i was in love with someone else..so i got home and that night my 2 love came over and spent the night with me and just held me cause i hated to be alone..so me and my first love were back to being friends and just checkin up on eachother all the time and making sure we were both okay..so then it came down to get everyone in texas together for my dads thing because we had two one outta state in our hometown then one here for his friends here.and both of my loves were there..which they hate eachother..so i didnt really know what to do..i had my 2 love right by my side.my first right behind me holding my shoulders as i was crying..after that i went out to eat with my family my 2 love came with me..then i went home laid around because i was just really still hurt about it all..then i went to my friends baby shower.i saw my 2 love there later that day..then he went home and i was afraid to be alone and my friend told me to call my first love so he could come be with me so i was okay and could sleep because she had her boyfriend and the baby with them..so i called him and he came over and spent the night with me well since we were gettin close again we both got the feelings back for eachother and we ended up making love..he was my first for everything..we kept it just with us and didnt tell anyone..and that was aug.27th..i was still with my 2 love and was so scared to tell him..so i didnt say anything sep.past and i was having sex with both of them..and by the end of the month i was late..so homecoming was Oct. 1 and i went with my 2 love and we all were with the same people so we were around eachother.then me and my boyfriend left and went home and got ready for the after parties..well he got a call from his dad saying he needed to come home cause the cops were out everywhere.so i went to the party alone and ment up with my girls.and my first love and his girlfriend were there.(this whole time he had been with someone else too)so then they left and he gave me a hug goodbye and said ill call you later..then by the Oct. 3th me and my first love said we werent going to talk anymore and i was okay with that cause i knew i was doing my boyfriend wrong the whole time and i wanted to tell him but me and my first love knew if i told him he would kill my first love..then i just went back to being true then Oct.6th i found out that i was havin a kid..and i didnt know whos it was..so i was mad at myself and just upset with it all.so my boyfriend thought it was his.and started to cry and was happy and said that we were going to get married..and my first love came over to make sure i wasnt lieing and looked at the test and then just asked me who i thought it was but i didnt know..so then it was Oct.10 and i started to get sick and my family didnt know what was going on with me but i would always be sick so my mom took me to the doctor who gave me pills cause i couldnt eat or drink without it comming back up.but i didnt tell the doctor anything.so then what she gave me didnt work so i had to go back and they tested me and my sister found out that i was 7 weeks along.she said she wouldnt tell my mom..so then i was outta school for a few days.(which we all go to the same school)..so around Oct.15st my first love told his girlfriend what was going on and that it might be his.and i went ahead and told my boyfriend which my first love told me not to..so then everything was all messed up and stuff.And my sister told my mom so my mom knows at this point shes hurt and mad but wants me to keep it..then Oct.26th came and i was hanging out with my first love at my house eating dinner and just talking about it all and he just kept saying he couldnt believe that it was happening.so then we went and got juices for me to drink and came back then watched t.v well before i know it my 2 love is calling me and we havent talked since i told him then i freaked out and told my first love he was here so he got up to walk outside to leave and my 2 love is standing there at the buttom of the side walk and then my first love walked up and was like are you mad at me and my 2 love said keep on walkin then my first love said why cant u just forgive me?..and my 2 love was like i said keep on walkin..and i was standin there cause they told me to stay out the way.then my first love turned to me and looked at me and when to get his keys and went to walk off and my 2 love hit him and broke his nose..so they started fighting and i jumped into the middle of it all and got hit and pushed around.and got into it was my 2 love and my first love went to the e.r...so then i started to get sick really bad again and wasnt talking to my 2 love..so by Nov.8th my first love went and they did some work on his nose..and when he got out i went over here..but by this time i had lost my baby and i had been 9 weeks...so now i was really hurt because if i didnt jump in i would have still had it..so i went over there and saw his family and we just all talked.which his dad made his go to the cops and push charges on my 2 love..then around thanksgiving break me and both of them werent talking and i was just working on myself and making myself happy..then after christmas day my 2 love called me and we started talking again and we talked all the way up to Jan.6th...then stopped and then started again when i started going to my new school..and we were on the low cause we didnt want anyone to know.then today outta nowhere he said we couldnt talk anymore and i dont know why..he just said he couldnt but i heard from people at my old school that he was talking to three other girls but i let that go and didnt care but now im starting to think that it was true.and me and my first love are in a fight because we dont trust eachother so nothing in my life seems to be going right but for my new friends at my new school which is really small and everyone knows everyone.and theres this boy that i kind of like and he is really sweet and we hang out this weekend and for once he just held me and didnt want to do anything else which made me feel really good and unpushed into doing more.so now i dont know what to do about anything and need alot alot of HELP!! so please help me out!! sorry this is so long but i was rate HIGH!! 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I'm sorry for your loss. Your your sake you should just have no contact with these two other boys. Start thinking about yourself and doing things too. Hang out with your girlfriends. It's hard to put things right when they go wrong. Put yourself first. God luck and god bless
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When a guy says "will you go out with me?"
What are you supposed to say? Just yes?
Were confused!
Thanks in advance!
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When a guy asks you if you'll go out with them you don't have to tell them right away. you can wait and tell them later. god luck
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I am 14 and my mom won't let me wear thongs. My sister is 16 and still is not allowed to wear them. Alot of my firends wear them and some don't. Sure part of the reason I want them is because alot of people wear them but that not the whole reason. I don't want panty lines when I wear sweats of whatever. My mom has always been overprotected, she didn't let me or my sister wear a bikni until last summer. Last weekend I tried on a really cute bathing suit and all she did was say how it was to low and I need to wear something more modest or I will be sending the wronge message. She thinks if I wear a low bikni someone will come and rape me, to make a long story short she is inpossible to shop with. Anyway If I could get a thong it would make me feel that I beat my mom and won. Don't get me wrong I love my mom we don't have a bad relaship at all. It just she very religous and hard to talk to. Oh and even if I did buy a thong behind her back. I've never done my own laundry in my life so she defintly know something was up. Sorry that it was so long, guess I got carried away. (link)
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If your getting one because your friends have one shouldn't be your reason to wear one. Ask your mom why she won't let you wear one. Maybe she thinks that your not old enough to wear one. Your still 16. Talk to your mom about it if she tells you she'll think about it then wait and don't ask again because she will. then wait about a wekk and adk again and she'll probably let you get one.
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After 3 years of dating my true love, she decided we needed some time apart to get our priorities straight. its going on 3 weeks, and not a day goes by without her calling me, we hang out from time to time, however, there is ovbiously no intimacy. I love her so much and I know she loves me cause she has told me. My question is, with valentines day comming up, iam not sure if i should get her the flowers and a present...I dont wanna look like im trying to push her into getting back with me, and at the same time i dont wanna look like i dont care about her if i dont give her anything...what should i do? (link)
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Even though valentines day is coming up it doesn't hurt to tell her that she means the world to you and that you are giving her some time but also it tells her that she's the one for you and that you'll always be there give her flowers and a persent. Give her a card and tell her how you feel about her. good luck
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ever since i started walking to school there have been these 2 girls who always say hi to me and i never really thought anything about it until one of them asked me out and at first i wanted to go out with her but then somthing inside me told me she's bad news and i dont know if it's because im neverous i dont know if it's because ive seen her smoke a few times i dont know what it is but could someone please help me i dont know what to do. (link)
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Your smart to worry about her. does she go to school or is she not. get to know her and that. Maybe you could tell her you would like to be firends and see what happens from there. good luck.
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i have the flu, or at least thats what i think i have. the worst pain i am feeling right now is my sore throat. dose anyone know anything that can stop it? i can have losenges or tyleol-like medicene, for some reason they dont help me. what do you recomend and what do you use when you are sick? thanks so much!
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Sometime it might not even be the fly. You could have a ear infection. It will cause your throat to be sore. I would try going to the doctor and see if it's that. If hot try graggleing with warm salt water. That helps me when I have a sore throat. good luck
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do they only play slow songs a sem-formals?? (link)
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No the play all different types of songs. The justmake you dress differently. good luck.
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Anyone know a good way to stop a habbit of biting my nails? I keep biting them w/out realizing it for a few minutes. My family keeps getting mad at for it. It's driving me crazy! Plese help. I'll rate high for god advice. Thanks! (link)
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well they have this nail polish that youcan put on your nail and when you go to bit them you'll taste it. Or you could try and chew some gum and that will help too.
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ok so i will be turning 18 in a month and my boyfriend will to. and we would really like to move out with each other to get out of the house. but the only thing is we are both in high school. and do schools still accept you if you live on your own? and does anyone know what the deal is with colleges and what there policy is for a non-married couple living together? (link)
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Schools will accept you.some colleges will allow you to live to gether some will not. You'll have to some research on it. Think long and hard about moving in with someone. If it doesn't work out will you be able to go back home or will you get a job and stay where you are. Hope I helped.
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