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what should i do?
ever since i started walking to school there have been these 2 girls who always say hi to me and i never really thought anything about it until one of them asked me out and at first i wanted to go out with her but then somthing inside me told me she's bad news and i dont know if it's because im neverous i dont know if it's because ive seen her smoke a few times i dont know what it is but could someone please help me i dont know what to do.
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Ok. So, evidently you dont really know mucha bout her since you've seen them on your way walking to school. Let her know you want to get to know her first. If your not into the whole smoker scene then don't go out with her. Good Luck, and hope I helped.
-Brina
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Your smart to worry about her. does she go to school or is she not. get to know her and that. Maybe you could tell her you would like to be firends and see what happens from there. good luck.
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I think you were smart because you don't know her well and she smokes. You don't need to take part in that because you know how bad that can get. It's good that your conscience told you not to do that. Doesn't mean you can't be friends with her as long as she doesn't affect you by smoking and being a bad influence. You did the right thing in my opinion. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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i wouldnt jump to any conclusions or anything just yet. get to know her more first..maybe she just tried smoking..maybe shes not addicted. tell her how smoking is a huge no no for you. dont go out with her just yet, but also dont kick her to the curb. hang out with her as friends..learn more about her..then make a choice.
hope i helped
-meliss
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Obviously your problem is that she smoke's. It's the only thing you mentioned. Is it really inside of you? Is it like a vibe because sometimes they are bogus because we are thrown of by media images. Maybe you don't think smoking is healthy and you wouldnt't take it up. Thats her choice however, if it really bugs you that she smokes you can either chose not to see her or explain your consern in a mannerly way as not to discriminate and request she doesnt smoke in your presence or in the a confined space. Props.
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Hey. I take it you like this girl. Why dont you get to know her? She obviously likes you. If she asks you again, suggest you meet up first. Tell her she can choose where and when. You will find out alot about her personality by what she picks. Just because she smokes doesnt mean shes bad news, but if she does something that you feel is really wrong and makes you feel uncomfortable then maybe your right. If she pressures you into anything stand strong. If you dont know her all that well, suggest you both take a friend. If all goes well say yes. If it doesnt work out you can always break up with her. Best of luck xxxx
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well if you have a bad feeling about it, chances are.. its not a good thing. Go with your instinct. Dont do it, if it doesnt feel right. Your the only one who can make your decisions, but your not the only one who faces consequenses. if she gets in trouble, and your with her.. You could be quilty by association, and your parents could get in trouble for whatever it is you've done. Just think about everything before you decide. :-)
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