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Should I give her flowers?
After 3 years of dating my true love, she decided we needed some time apart to get our priorities straight. its going on 3 weeks, and not a day goes by without her calling me, we hang out from time to time, however, there is ovbiously no intimacy. I love her so much and I know she loves me cause she has told me. My question is, with valentines day comming up, iam not sure if i should get her the flowers and a present...I dont wanna look like im trying to push her into getting back with me, and at the same time i dont wanna look like i dont care about her if i dont give her anything...what should i do?
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all you need to do. is call her up and plan a dinner date adn keep it semi-casual. not too formal. not too casual. then talk about everything. get things together. know what you want to tell her. and shell most likely respect it. hope i helped. ~hotrod
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i think that you should get her something plutonic and not to serious...
-yellow roses(symbolize frienship)
-daises (simple pretty)
-a cute card and stuff animal (something i would get one of friends)
-a no pun intended kinda funny joke....
heres an ex. of one for saying sorry to someone:
i feel sheepish...plz forgive me (give a lamb)
-kimberly
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if i were in your shoes i would get her a gift. if you really care about her then you should get her something. most likley she wont find it weird, pressuring, or cheesy because i knwo that the girl was me and i got flowers and i gift i would think it was cute and it would show me that you still care about me as much as you said you do
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I would say just get her a nice bouquet, vase, or arrangement of flowers and a card. A present is a little too much for just being friends. No roses because, again, it's too much for friends. In the card put something that screams out friend, but still whispers "I love you". If you have trouble thinking of something inbox me and I'll try to help you out. Have the card and flowers sent, don't deliver them yourself. It's actually sweeter that way and it sends the "friend, but I love you" message. When she calls you, be a little more obvious with the "I love you" and see how she responds. If she doesn't take it well back off and be patient. If she does, this could be your opportunity to make her yours on valentine's day! Good luck. :)
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Even though valentines day is coming up it doesn't hurt to tell her that she means the world to you and that you are giving her some time but also it tells her that she's the one for you and that you'll always be there give her flowers and a persent. Give her a card and tell her how you feel about her. good luck
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If you like this girl and want to be with her, then absolutly send her flowers. I don't think it's too pushy. She is the one calling you everyday.
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if you like her or if you have a relationship then you should always get her something for valentines day
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hmmmm,give her not a bunch of flowers,but maybe 1-3 flowers,maybe white lilys or a flower you know she likes,and yes,give her chocolates too!i think the whole pushing into the relationship things depends on how you give it to her.also ask yourself what you would expect from her when you see her. think what she might expect also :] obviously,you do care about her,so even if she wants time apart,you should still show her you really care.If you want,you can also tell her your not trying to push her into anything! :] im sure it'll work out fine,you'll have fun!
gooooood luck!!!
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Get her the flowers and the present but when you get her the gifts, make sure that you let her know that you just wanted her to know that you still yet care. And that you agree and understand that she needs space and that you're extremely willing to give her just that. Make her understand that you care for her and respect her decisions.
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