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i am 9 ,i want to have sex . ami big enuf to fit a man yet cani???

Question Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 8:29 pm

can i have sex
? i am nine years old.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday May 12 2011, 7:50 pm:
wait.. this cant be a serious question...
nine years old ?


if this IS serious, do NOT have sex. you CANNOT, just like the other advice you have gotten below me, you WILL harm your body.. nine year olds arent MEANT to have sex, and your body isnt made for that at such a young age.

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Barbie7056 answered Wednesday April 27 2011, 7:22 am:
im sorry darling you are far to young. you would do more damage to your body. it will be better if you wait till your older. :)

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raawr answered Monday April 25 2011, 11:45 pm:
i learn about "that" only this year and im 14 wait until ur older and stay away from any creepy old men who r trying to get "that"

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alexandra61899 answered Monday April 25 2011, 11:11 pm:
No, you can't. First of all you're nine. You probably aren't even physically able. Get off this site.

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bubblegumdrop answered Sunday April 24 2011, 11:18 pm:
No. No you can not.

How did you even get to this website? Go play on the playground.

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darkstarz2012 answered Sunday April 24 2011, 7:10 pm:
No. You are still a child. Too young

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Cherokee answered Sunday April 24 2011, 2:45 am:
You can only be a virgin once. Honestly once it's gone there is no turning back. You're too young to be thinking about sex! I'm almost 17 and i am still a proud virgin and it's by choice. There is a lot of pressure for us kids now-a-days but cherish your virginity like no other. It's something precious and it should feel good to say " I am a virgin" it's only about 3 out of 5 girls that would be a virgin and you should want to be one of those 3. Have respect for your body to wait and get developed mentally and emotionally before you jump into that stage. Stay young as you can don't grow up to fast. REMEMBER: SEX will always be there but once you loose your virginity it is forever gone.

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nikz answered Friday April 22 2011, 5:44 pm:
NO WAY, you're way too young to even be thinking about that and i doubt that you're physically able it would be hard for your body to take it if you're curious get a teacher or your mum to explain these things to you

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Xui answered Friday April 22 2011, 2:53 pm:
At age 9, You are way to young to be thinking about sex. Anyone who has sex with someone your age can end up in jail and in trouble with the law. You are a child, You are not an adult and anybody who would be willing to have sex with a 9 year old is legally classified as a pedophile.

(Someone who rapes children)

You are a child, Sex is something very serious and should wait until you are older. (At least in High School)

If someone is trying to seduce you, You need to tell an adult that you trust. It is not right and it is 100% wrong.

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adviceman49 answered Friday April 22 2011, 11:33 am:
Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather; hopefully the wisdom that comes with age and life experiences will be helpful.

It is not a matter of if you can or can't have sex. You are way to young to be even thinking about having sex. Anyone who is old enough to have sex with you would be breaking the law and be sent to jail if caught.

Who is this man that wants to have sex with you? Is this man asking you to have sex with him?
Is he truly a man or a an older boy?
Is this person someone you know?
Id this person a teacher or an Uncle?

If the answer to these questions are yes you need to tell your mom or a lady teacher. This is very wrong. Do not hide this from mom or school authorities. Do as I am telling you to do and stay away from this man. Tell mom now or female teacher on Monday.

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NinjaNeer answered Friday April 22 2011, 9:52 am:
It's not a matter of "can a man physically fit" at this stage in your life. It's a matter of "can you deal with it mentally".

Why do you want to have sex? Because you're curious? We're all curious at your age. I'm not going to pretend I wasn't, but I held off until I was 18 for some pretty good reasons. Is it because you want to feel like an adult? Adults don't just do whatever they want: they have to weigh the consequences against the actions and make responsible decisions.

It's not damage to your body that people are warning you about. It's damage to your mind. Especially at this age, it's easy to get into a situation where you're being used. Yes, it's exciting when a guy pays attention to you, but having sex is not a way to get him to like you more. Nobody at age 9 is looking for a committed relationship and planning on marrying their partner. That means you'll be tossed like a used tissue once they've got what they want. It might not seem like a big deal now, but it is, even for a non-virgin. It causes lasting damage that can mess with relationships for the rest of your life.

Beyond that, are you ready to deal with any possible negative consequences? STIs? What if you get herpes? AIDS? That stuff doesn't go away. One bad decision now, and you could be feeling it for the rest of your life. What if you get pregnant? Even if you're not getting your period now, you're still at risk. Are you prepared to discuss your sexual health with a gynecologist? To discuss protection with the guy? It's one nasty bag to open, and you can't close it again.

Another thing to consider: you are below the age of consent, which means that any guy who has sex with you can be arrested for statutory rape, even if he's only 12 or 13. That means that if any adults find out, he could go to jail and be branded a sexual offender for the rest of his life.

You have your whole life to grow up. Don't rush into things. Enjoy your childhood. Sex is overrated unless it's with someone who you love and who loves you, and who you want to remember for the rest of your life.

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dottie4 answered Friday April 22 2011, 1:03 am:
That's freakin sick man...
Your joking right??


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Jasmine23 answered Thursday April 21 2011, 10:11 pm:
You are WAY WAY too young for that! Why do you want to have sex anyway. You should enjoy being a kid. You are way to young to be with a man or a boy for that matter.
And legally it is punishable.

If you have anymore questions or comments or want to talk about this more,. inbox me and we can talk more about this:)


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