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ii really like this boy :(</3 he loves someone else i think they gonna get together soon .. he was goin to go out with me but he said he loves this other girl more :(</3 ii love him i duno wat to do :(
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Well, if he really does like this other girl more then you have to let him go. It's hard to admit but it is true. It sucks, but you can't make someone like, or love you. Stay around to be his friend, just incase it doesn't work out with the other girl. But other than that, that is nothing else you can do but try and move on for the time being, and if he becomes single, or changes his mind, you will be there. :)
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There is not a lot which you can do really. If he's in love with somebody else even more than you, then there is really nothing you can do to interfear.
I know that this might not be the answer that you were expecting but love is powerful. I've got a firm believe in everything happens for a reason...keep on reading...and i believe that the reason why he's going out with somebody else and not you is because there is somebody else out there who is the right guy for you. Still with me?
If he breaks up with her, fine, you can go out with him (unless you're going out with somebody already) but wait for a while until he's over the last realtionship. People who wait for others tend to rush into a relationship when that person's gotten out of one and that particular reltionship doesn't last for long.
I hope this helped,
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i say just forget about him. you dont deserve this, at all. im sure you could get so much better. just try to distract yourself by hanging out with your friends or watch tv or something. i wouldnt say go out and find someone new because if you get into another relationship to soon it might not last because you still like someone else. so just let someone come to you and get to know you first. i hope you take my advice. Ashleigh
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well maybe you should talk to him and ask him what he's thinking about he wants to do, if he says he wants the other girl then you have to except that and it means this guy was just leading you one, and you dont need a loser like that if hes leading you on for nothing.
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well, both of you cnt help what you feel. have you told him how much you love him? and are you sure it's love. if he loves this other girl the only thing you can do is let them go out, and soon enough he will realize whT you did for him, which is not be selfoish and sacrifice your feelings to see him hppy. and thats love. what goes around comes back around. and feelings can come and go. who knows, if they do go out, maybe you will find someone better who takes your feelings into consideration. good luck mama
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ah, unrequited love sucks, but it's bound to happen to everyone at one point in their life. you know what i say? screw the guy! if he "loves" a girl more, then it's his loss! dwelling on a situation like that not only is unhealthy, but it only ends up with a deeper hurt, and you won't be able to focus on finding other guys that are gentlemen and won't treat you like this boy you like. as hard as this sounds, and i especially know it's hard, you're going to realize that you really are better off. i hope i helped, ask again if you need to.
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i have to say, thats tough, but wait it out for now, maybe things wont work out between them. But i would most definetly let him know how you feel, maybe he will feel better that you like him and it will work out. sometimes wierd things like that need to happen. and besides, hes a boy haha, they need other people to open their eyes. i would not get hung over him though, if it doesnt work out. any guy that does not see how they are missing out on an amazing opertunity to go out with a great girl like you, does not deserve you. maybe this is a good thing, he will experiment with someone else, but realize his true fait is with you. you could also try the jealousy factor, which is when you get a bf too. keep your head high, and just play it as it comes...and always be yourself, dont let him see you change.
i have a feeling this will work out though! :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
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let me know how this is working out, if you need me at all...dont hesitate to ask!
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Do you really love him? or do you love the fact that he gave you attention and claimed to like you?
The boy seems like a player to me, but if you really love him, tell him. If you tell him how you feel, he might feel the same way and go out with you.
Or, you could wait it out and see if he breaks up with the other girl, and then make your move. But don't single out this one boy, there are plenty of other ones. :]
Good luck and have funn
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Oh what a horrible thing to have happen to you. I'm so sorry!
I really wish I could say something that would make all the pain go away, but the truth of the matter is that I can't. I can't tell you to flirt with him until you can win him over, because in reality, it would be a terrible thing to do and ultimately, may cause him to lose all respect for you.
Instead, the only thing I can recommend to you is that you get in a few soppy films, a LOT of ice cream, pizza and any other junk food you like. Get a huge box of Kleenex and spend a weekend locked in your room with the whole lot, eating and crying it all out. If need be, write down everything you're feeling and burn the piece of paper (in a well ventilated area, perferrably outdoors!).
After this, go outside. Go for a walk, hang out with some friends, do anything that you enjoy that you can do. Smile, even if it feels forced to begin with. You will accept the loss of this boy eventually, but it will take time. As long as you accept that you won't get over him overnight but you WILL get over him, you will be halfway there.
I really hope that helps. I know how horrible heartbreak feels.
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Well if you really love him and don't think you'd be able to just move on then I think that you could try telling him how you really feel by saying that you really like him and that he should give you a chance(if you haven't already tried that), but if you have and he rejected you or if when you do try this and he still rejects you then I'm really sorry, but there's not much more you can do. Some things just aren't ment to be and I know it hurts, but I'm sure you'll find someone else soon enough and he'll love you probably even more than you love him! :)
Anyway, I hope things work out between you and that guy, but if they don't...don't go getting all depressed! Just keep your head up and stay positive and you'll find the right guy for you! :)
*Good Luck!*
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Well, things may not work out with the other girl.
If you still love him, then tell him, and ask him to consider you-and you can make the love grow.
Good luck.
And remember, there are other fish in the sea.
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Ask him if he is going to go out with her. If he is, ask him if he would go out with you if things don't work out. If he isn't planning on getting with her right now, find out if he sees himself getting with you in the future. If not, you have to move on. You will find someone who cares about you the same way you care about them. You also need to move on if what he sees in her he doesn't see in you. You shouldn't change for him. You deserve someone who appreciates all of your characteristics. Good luck and if you need anything else im here.
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