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ok im 13/f and im not fat.
im a soccer player. but i have some, like baby
fat i guess on my tummy area. and i have big thighs. and i want to look super good this summer. what are some things i can do to lose some weight and stuff. and Soon.
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Mainly do crunches. that is really good for your tummy. also doing leg crunches is really good because it works out your butt, legs, back and parts of your stomach. also if you run, jog, or walk around the block just once a day. I have the same problem with getting a little bit of weight in my stomach and thighs. but that should do the trick..
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im a 17/f and in my health class we're learning about illegal drugs like inhalants. i was wondering like what kind of inhalants can you get high off of? like can u get high off of sharpie permanent marker and nail polish remover? (link)
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You can get high off of them, its really not good for you and it takes a really long time. but they are mainly talking about things like the airsoft cans for the cleaning the computer and the bottom of a hairspray can. it only gets you high for a minute but it does do it.
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So theres this guy at my school, and me and him have been really good friends for about a year. so today after school he comes up and attacks me, gives me a hug, then kissed me on the forehead. i kinda like him but my sister hates him so i could never date him. or me and my sister wouyld like nevr talk again....what should i do??? (link)
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It depends on how close you and your sister are. talk to her and tell her how much you like him. if she really loves you then she will understand. its not fair to keep you away from something you really want, because feelings just dont go away over night. If she still doesn;t give then i guess take her word. maybe she has a reason for not really liking him. Family comes before friend/ boyfriends. Basically, I would talk to your sister. that would probably make things a whole lot better!
Hope I Helped.
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ok well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now and i am as much as in love with him as i was the first day we started going out. I was just wondering if anyone who can give me some advice on how to keep the relationship going as great as it is. I know there are ups and downs in relationships. I also want to know how to handle moving into my own place for a year while i am at beauty school and he is working a full time job. thanks and sorry if its confusing (link)
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Well, apperantly you huys love eashother and want to be together. the realtionship basically works by its self after that. IF you communicate and trust eachother than you shouldnt have many problems. and about the school and job thing. sometimes its better to be away from eachother like that. its like the saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder." If you are living with him its not liek you wont ever see him. when you guys are together it will make you love him so much more because you are not getting sick of eachother!
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how do i keep the girl im with for a very longtime we really are attracted and like eachother alot its me being scared to lose her? how do i keep her for a longterm relationship
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Just be good to her! respect her and dont screw around on her. If she wants to be with you, then be there for her. but try not to together TOO much untill you guys are really committed because that can cause a relationship to crash, depending on how close you are. take her out, comunicate with her, ask her about her. girls love to talk about themselves, asking her about her like will make you seem intereseted in her!
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so ive only given a hj once and when i did it the guys skin like moved with my hand
is this supposed to happen? (link)
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Yes. Thats only becsuse guys have extra skin on their Penis so theres basically room to grow. I asked the same thing the first time I did that. so yes it is normal!
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i tend to get wet quickly if i get horny or touched by a guy, even if its over my pants
if a guy goes to finger me and im wet already, is that weird? (link)
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No thats not weird.. I know you dont want to hear this but I am the same way. I was really self consous about as well. but actually, most guys really like it!! they think it's sexy. =]
Hope my advice is good.
Ashleigh
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19 y/o. I'm worried about not having had a period since before Christmas, I had to change from the normal pill to the mini pill after experiencing a severe migraine (normal pill puts migraine sufferers at the risk of strokes etc), I've always had regular periods on the pill which I've taken for about two years, but when I switched to the mini pill in Dec, I've had no periods. I've been to speak to a nurse about it and she told me it was normal but wasn't very reassuring about it and my mum when she found out completely flipped out and reckons I am ruining my fertility or something. I'm getting fairly stressed out and just need some advise about what to do :(
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I would suggest switching back to the normal pill. i am on YAZ and i get migraines too but they go away after a few months of being on the pill, because you get used to the hormones and stuff. But i talked to my Gyno and she said it is not good to be on those pills because yes you can mess up your fertility!! I hope you take my advice.
Ashleigh.
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what is spooning? (link)
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Spooning is just when two people cuddle together, one behind the other. its like when you lay on your side and someone lays up against you with their arm around you or something. its not really anything sexual.
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16/f. I have a very strange boyfriend of 3 months. For one thing, he told me that he cheated on me today..He said that while I was away on vacation for 4 days..his old friend came over his house to do "science homework" but they ended up doing much more than that. At first, he didn't tell me what it was they did. I got upset because he cheated on me (in general). But then, later on, when I seemed to have cooled down, he told me he engaged in oral sex with that girl. I was shocked..and I kept on wondering why he would tell me that in the first place. But then, he got all upset about it. And started telling me "I love you, I love you and I'm sorry" and all that other crap. I don't know what to do. Usually, I'm too nice and forgiving. What would you do? :( He's my age. (link)
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I say don't take him back. He will hurt you again. its one thing of he just kissed her and pushed her a away and said "no I have a girlfriend," but he didn't. he did more and if wasn't thinking about you at all during the problem or telling her no, than thats wrong. NOBODY deserves to be cheated on and nobody deserves to be taken back after cheating on someone, especially that badly. I hope my advice was good.
Ashleigh.
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okay i need some help, and if you're gonna be mean, dont bother making this worse.
im really worried about my life right now, there are lots of things that are messed up, but the biggest thing im worried about is having a boyfriend and relationships.
so im 16/f, and a sophomore. i have a lot of friends, and im really social and everything, but some things just havent happened to me yet, and i dont know what to do to change it.
so im kind of feeling left out from all my friends, and this is embarrasing to come out with, but i havent had a real boyfriend like ever, and i havent even been kissed. i kind of feel pathetic, and ive been trying to get advice but people keep saying its okay and its normal, but i know its not. so if youre going to tell me that, dont bother. i feel really pathetic because im so good with helping my friends with relationships, but all of my guy friends think of me as friends.
im just starting to feel really down about myself, i know im not ugly but im not the prettiest girl out there. i just dont get whats wrong with me. people who dont even deserve to have any friends get all the guys out there, and i just dont get it. im a good person, and i dont get why it feels like im getting punished. im not a wierd girl or a nerd, im just normal with regular friends. all of my friends get boyfriends and i just dotn think its fair because i feel pathetic around them.
im just so sick of going to movies with them when they have boyfriends and im sitting there. i want to feel good about myself for once. i honestly dont know what im asking for advice for, but i just need someone to help me. i dont want to hear this is normal, or that i have no reason to worry. i actually want to go to a dance with a boy that likes me, and go to the movies and everything with someone that cares for me. someone just help me pleaseeee. i just need to know what to do. :D (link)
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Ok there really is no problem with that. I am the same age and a sophmore too, and me and mt b/f have been together a year and almost 3 months. the reason im telling you this is because before we were together, i had a problem with hooking up with guys b/c i thought i would never ever find the right person to be with and I wanted to soo bad. I hated being around my friends with couples and seeing them kissing and holding eachother. so now, I have that special someone. if you just look around, you arent going to find the right person, you just have to hangout and wait and you will find the person. I know it isnt the best advice,but we are practically exactly alike, and that worked for me. so just be patient and you will find that person. hope my advice worked!
Ashleigh
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im getting my naval pierced and i was wonder if anyone who has gotten it like how bad does it hurt? and do you lay down when they do it?
also if someone could send me maybe a good website or something about the risks involved thanks (link)
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ok when i got it done i layed down and that is very usual. and it did not hurt me AT ALL. and most other ppl i no say that it doesnt hurt either. there has been about 1 out of 10 ppl who said itt did. i would recomend being careful. it takes a while to heal and it does get infected before it heals so dont take it out because you get scared. i font no any websites at the moment but all you really have to do is go to google and type in navel peircings and you will get tonz of info about it! hope you take the advice!
Ashleigh
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ok i just started using tampons today. and its amazing because i decided i wanted to after my pad leaked all over the back of my pants and i was totally embarrassed. but its amazing! i cant even feel it! but my question is - what happends when you sneeze? will it "dislodge?" or will it hurt or something? (link)
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yea i was freaked out when i started using them and i had alot of ??'s. but no it wont. its fine. the only thing is, when you startt using them it hurts when you take them out for the first couple weeks. hope i helped.Ashleigh
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My boyfriend & i of about 5 months fight non stop every night for like the past month. We have been fighting about his exs & about stupid stuff. Such as hes trying to be friends with them even though i don't want him to talk to girls. I feel like hes going to go with them because there better.and lately he's been acting like he doesn't love me. Like he doesn't show it in the ways he used to. I just don't want this relationship to be over. I need advice how to get over this fighting. adn how i can trust him more.
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ok i went through this exact thing. i didnt think me and my man would last because i thought he was cheating on me if he talked to a girl or if his ex was around he would just leave me. the thing is, about 80 percent of the time, they arent doing anything. my boyfriend and i would grow away from eachother becuz of it but now we have been together for over a year. just dont worry about because even if he does talk too a girl it doesnt mean he wants her. unless you know for a fact that he is cheating or no he has, dont sweat it. its a waist of time and a waist of life. i hope you take my advice.
Ashleigh
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ii really like this boy :( (link)
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i say just forget about him. you dont deserve this, at all. im sure you could get so much better. just try to distract yourself by hanging out with your friends or watch tv or something. i wouldnt say go out and find someone new because if you get into another relationship to soon it might not last because you still like someone else. so just let someone come to you and get to know you first. i hope you take my advice. Ashleigh
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ok here is the story. i met a cute (older by like 2 years)guy in one of my classes. we made that wierd akward eye connection thing where you tense up and don't know what to say. anyway after class he started talking to me and he had a good vibe going, (tip: i was the only girl in my class because it was a technology class) and he was so easy to talk to. the next day we start talking and flirting (it was really obvious) and he asks me for my email and if i had a man (boyfriend). i said no and gave him my email. here's the delema, that day after my classes i stayed at the school for the newspaper that i'm apart of and i saw him and said hi and stuff. when i left the school i saw him sitting on a bench with a girl on his lap. i'm not sure if that was just an affectionate friend or a girlfriend. if that was his girl i would still want to know him as a friend but she might not be. well i still don't know him well but i don't want to start hanging with him and flirting just to be shot down and finding out he had a girl and played with my emotions...what should i do? (link)
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deffinantly a player. honey, do not get involved. you will completly be shot down and he will think he can take advantage of you. be true to yourself. dont let somebody hurt you like that.=] hope you take my advice
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okay well i recently posted a question on my mom and how to tolerate her sober well....she didn't exactly stay sober. She just went on a really bad drinking benge and i went to stay at my sisters house. My grandma had to drug her in order to get her off of the beer and hard liquor. now i have been going through this my whole life and nowthat i'm getting older i know how to handle it and all but i don't want to have to take care of my mother when she is like that when my grandma is gone. I do try to help some but my grandma has bee ndealing with it more. I'm tired of being on the edge and not trusting her to stay sober at 15 i have no escape routes only my sisters for a few days. I have talked to my mom about when she is sober and she knows how i feel and she always says i'll never do it again but as her closest duaghter i know that it isn't true. SHe knows it deep inside to. She went to the doctor for anti-depresents but she drank on those before also. when she drinks my mind is focussed on her and not on school so my grades drop and i can't sleep. I need to find sometype of realese for this stress. I pissed off at her all the time because of her problem i know that i shouldnt be but i can't help it. I;m nice to her and hold my anger inside hping she won;t start again because everytime i let it go there she goes again she can't handle pressure . I want to get awawy but i don't know how i need to know some options because i can't live with this constantly and i can't baby her all the time i need to know what to do. (link)
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ok from the looks of it.. my mom sounds EXACTLY like your mom. its scary=[ but i am 16 and my brother moved away to college last summer and i have had to deal with if for many many years too. well i asked to move with my brother and she said no if i want to move out i can go to foster care. well now i find ways to completely ignore it. trust me, IT IS REALLY HARD!! well now my bf lives with me so that helps me out alot but what i used to do is lock my self in my room and do my hw, listen to music, watch tv, write my feelings down on paper. my grades would drop becuz of it too but since i ignore it now my grades are back up and im doing all right. trust me tho there is not much as a minor that you can do to get out of the situaution because they are the "ones in charge" so no matter how hard it is... you need to ignore it.
I hope my advice is helpful.
Ashleigh
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what is thw website to look up the ring that a a word on it? like at least $20, something like i saw on maginze before, i forgot the website, anyone know? pleaaassseee help, so that i can buy something for my boyfriend a ring with word on it. thank! (link)
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i dont no the exact website but i know a good website for rings and jewelry for men and women. it is limogesjewelry.com
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Ashleigh
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this one teacher i have is incredibly mean to me. hes always picking on me, ever since he found out that i was considering dropping his class. so i stayed in it, because it was hard to get out of. anyways, he really pushed me over the edge today. and made me to the point, where i almsot cried. i never cry. espically in school. anyways, we were suppose to get out of classes by last monday. but, this is an elective. so, do you think i'll beable to get out of it? i just want to put a study hall in its place. i hate him. if i stay in it, i'm gonna skip it. i refuse to walk into his class,and keep getting insulted. do you think the guidance conselor will let me out? (link)
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honey it doesnt matter who he is. tell him to shut the F*** up. you need to talk to the counselor and tell them everything he is saying because this is verbal abuse and completely illegal. and if your counselor does not help you then tell your parents bcuz you need to get out of that. that is wrong on so many levels. i hope you take my advice into perspective.
Ashleigh
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There is this one boy at my school who gets on my nerves 24/7. he likes me and he has told me he has liked me but i dont like him at all and i only see him as a friend. Plus im taken. And he nos that but he just wont quit. he keeps trying to touch me and get close to me but i just push him off me and tell him to stop. i dont know how to get this dude to stop because i just want to be friends with him.
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ok DO NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER! you need to be a bitch to him. i know how this feels. some guy did the same thing and it made me feel that if i said something he would totally turn everyone against me. well, eventually i said F*** it and just went off on him and told him that if he ever direspects my body again i will either call the cops or get my man on him and i dont care who he turns against me. do not let any body make you feel intimidated...EVER. and for real im srry this is happening and i hope you do the right thing!!
Ashleigh
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