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he cheated on me. take him back?
16/f. I have a very strange boyfriend of 3 months. For one thing, he told me that he cheated on me today..He said that while I was away on vacation for 4 days..his old friend came over his house to do "science homework" but they ended up doing much more than that. At first, he didn't tell me what it was they did. I got upset because he cheated on me (in general). But then, later on, when I seemed to have cooled down, he told me he engaged in oral sex with that girl. I was shocked..and I kept on wondering why he would tell me that in the first place. But then, he got all upset about it. And started telling me "I love you, I love you and I'm sorry" and all that other crap. I don't know what to do. Usually, I'm too nice and forgiving. What would you do? :( He's my age.
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Why would a guy lie about cheating on you? Does that honestly seem logical to you? Like, seriously...does it? Think about it.
I think you need to dump him. Being too nice & too forgiving is usually what gets you walked all over, so why do that to yourself? Just end it and find someone who's good to you. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. It sucks.
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I say don't take him back. He will hurt you again. its one thing of he just kissed her and pushed her a away and said "no I have a girlfriend," but he didn't. he did more and if wasn't thinking about you at all during the problem or telling her no, than thats wrong. NOBODY deserves to be cheated on and nobody deserves to be taken back after cheating on someone, especially that badly. I hope my advice was good.
Ashleigh.
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I'd tell him to take a hike.
Here is why:
3 month relationship, and he loves you? 3 months isn't that awfully long, you know. "I love you" is so easily thrown around. I mean, is he saying it because he REALLY feels this way, or because he's trying to feed you a line?
3 month relationship, and the first time you leave town for vacation he can't control himself? And he can't even practice self control for a whopping 4 DAYS?
3 month relationship, and he's already done something to break your trust? Trust which is so much harder to reestablish?
I don't get why he just up and told you. Could be he was told by someone else "Either you tell her or I will."
Either that or he could be wanting you to think "Gee. Is he cheating because I'm not having/giving him enough sex?"
And what do you mean by "Could he be lying?" You mean making the whole story up?
Only an idiot would tell his girlfriend a fabricated story such as this...
I'd play the "better safe than sorry" card right about now and bow out of this relationship.
ygs-29/f
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