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i'm not sure if i should talk to a guy i like
ok here is the story. i met a cute (older by like 2 years)guy in one of my classes. we made that wierd akward eye connection thing where you tense up and don't know what to say. anyway after class he started talking to me and he had a good vibe going, (tip: i was the only girl in my class because it was a technology class) and he was so easy to talk to. the next day we start talking and flirting (it was really obvious) and he asks me for my email and if i had a man (boyfriend). i said no and gave him my email. here's the delema, that day after my classes i stayed at the school for the newspaper that i'm apart of and i saw him and said hi and stuff. when i left the school i saw him sitting on a bench with a girl on his lap. i'm not sure if that was just an affectionate friend or a girlfriend. if that was his girl i would still want to know him as a friend but she might not be. well i still don't know him well but i don't want to start hanging with him and flirting just to be shot down and finding out he had a girl and played with my emotions...what should i do?
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I think it would be best not to get involved with this boy. He seems like somebody who wouldn't be good for somebody who doesn't want to get hurt. He's older than you and you don't know what he's really like. I think you should watch out.
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deffinantly a player. honey, do not get involved. you will completly be shot down and he will think he can take advantage of you. be true to yourself. dont let somebody hurt you like that.=] hope you take my advice
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Sounds like a player. You best bet is not to get involved without further information. I never been affectionate with my lady friends like that, unless something was there. It's BS too if he says she likes him and he doesn't like her. That's sure not a way to say, "hey I don't like you, come sit on my lap."
Although, it could have been totally innocent. Just ask him who she was. If he gives you some asinine excuse then forget about it.
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