I am just someone who has had much luck and feels that she should help other people.
Gender: Female
Location: MA
Occupation: School
Age: 19
AIM: UrMamiLuly
Member Since: February 2, 2008
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ok here is the story. i met a cute (older by like 2 years)guy in one of my classes. we made that wierd akward eye connection thing where you tense up and don't know what to say. anyway after class he started talking to me and he had a good vibe going, (tip: i was the only girl in my class because it was a technology class) and he was so easy to talk to. the next day we start talking and flirting (it was really obvious) and he asks me for my email and if i had a man (boyfriend). i said no and gave him my email. here's the delema, that day after my classes i stayed at the school for the newspaper that i'm apart of and i saw him and said hi and stuff. when i left the school i saw him sitting on a bench with a girl on his lap. i'm not sure if that was just an affectionate friend or a girlfriend. if that was his girl i would still want to know him as a friend but she might not be. well i still don't know him well but i don't want to start hanging with him and flirting just to be shot down and finding out he had a girl and played with my emotions...what should i do? (link)
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I think it would be best not to get involved with this boy. He seems like somebody who wouldn't be good for somebody who doesn't want to get hurt. He's older than you and you don't know what he's really like. I think you should watch out.
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hey,
would you classify this as depression or something else.
*Wanting to be alone most of the time.
*getting really upset over nothing.
*self harming(cutting etc).
*not talking much when normally really social.
*pushing away friends.
*feeling excluded from people.
Etc. Etc.
Thanks heaps. (link)
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This is not a topic to fool around with. depression is a very serious thing and if you believe you are depressed you should see a doctor. It might be difficult to talk about, but it is something that you need to do for yourself.
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right
me n this boy were getting together, really close and he told me he loved me and i really love him!!
i know im only 16 so probs dont know what real love is but stil!
now - a girl that he liked before me (they had huge fal out and hated each other b4 xmas) now they are mates again and he likes her as more than a friend. he says he cannot decide at the mo coz he loves us both and doesnot want to hurt one of us. she is the kinda girl he will get hurt with but i dont think he sees that! i have told him to choose who he thinks he will be happy with because i want him to be happy - really i want him to choose me i love him!!
im not sure if she like shim as more than a mate either. i cant tel him that he will get hurt by her because he will think im trying to win him over. what can i do to win him?? i really like this guy and i do not know what to do :( (link)
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Ok think of it this way. If he really cares about you he won't hurt you, but if he's telling you that he loves both you and another girl than he's not really showing that he cares about you. You can't let him do this to you, so you have to tell him straight up that if he really loves you, you'd be the only girl in his life and that he has to make a desision soon. A guy who really cares about you wouldn't make you compete with somebody else for his love. Think about it.
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