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Me him and now another girl!!
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me n this boy were getting together, really close and he told me he loved me and i really love him!!
i know im only 16 so probs dont know what real love is but stil!
now - a girl that he liked before me (they had huge fal out and hated each other b4 xmas) now they are mates again and he likes her as more than a friend. he says he cannot decide at the mo coz he loves us both and doesnot want to hurt one of us. she is the kinda girl he will get hurt with but i dont think he sees that! i have told him to choose who he thinks he will be happy with because i want him to be happy - really i want him to choose me i love him!!
im not sure if she like shim as more than a mate either. i cant tel him that he will get hurt by her because he will think im trying to win him over. what can i do to win him?? i really like this guy and i do not know what to do :(
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Ouch, this is tough. I know that you are in love with him, and at 16, you pretty much know what it feels like. I know most people will say you are to young to know how you feel, but I disagree. Some people find their soulmates at that age. Heck, back in the olden days, some were married off as young as 10, so trust me I believe you.
Now, there is no real clear way of making him choose you. The best thing, even though it sucks, would be to as nice, loving, patient and understanding, to show him what kind of character you have. Maybe, if you are helping him make life happier and easier, he will see that the best choice is to be with you.
Also, if you want to know how she feels about him, go to her and talk to her. Don't corner her and accuse or be cross with her. Be mature and straight forward. Tell her that you love him and that you want to know where she stands with her feelings for him. Who knows, you two may become friends and won't have to worry about her stealing him away from you.
I wish you the best of luck, and hope everything turns out the way you want it to.
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Ok think of it this way. If he really cares about you he won't hurt you, but if he's telling you that he loves both you and another girl than he's not really showing that he cares about you. You can't let him do this to you, so you have to tell him straight up that if he really loves you, you'd be the only girl in his life and that he has to make a desision soon. A guy who really cares about you wouldn't make you compete with somebody else for his love. Think about it.
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