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in love and lots of changes
f 20
ok well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now and i am as much as in love with him as i was the first day we started going out. I was just wondering if anyone who can give me some advice on how to keep the relationship going as great as it is. I know there are ups and downs in relationships. I also want to know how to handle moving into my own place for a year while i am at beauty school and he is working a full time job. thanks and sorry if its confusing
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For starters I am a little confused... Do you live together now, and you're planning to move out on your own to finish school? If that is the case, this will make your relationship that much BETTER!!! If things are going great and your moving into your own place that leaves room for you two to miss each other. And as far as keeping it on the wonderful level you have it on now, it's all about stepping back and looking at the problems at hand before dealing with them. This way you can deal with one another on a rational level and avoid a fight. Example: You make plans for a night for just the two of you but he forgets and make's plans with his guy friends. He tells you he sorry but he can't cancel its his friends birthday and he just found out about it today. You both can feel the tension in the room your so mad, but while he jumps in the show to get ready take this time to let out your PISSED-OFFED responses, when you have got it all out and calmed down go and talk to him and let him know how you feel (without trying to make him feel guilty or show how mad you really are) and figure out what the next step to fix the problem is together. But it sounds like your doing great all on your own so go with your gut. =)
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Getting older and growing up can really put a strain on a relationship, it makes it harder to see one another, then trust issues may come up, but in the long run the one thing that matters is: 'Do you love each other enough to make it work?' You seem to. The best advice I can give is to just keep doing what you are doing. Make sure you reassure him, maybe leave him little surprises places. Like, for example, leave him little love notes places that he can find that make him see how much you care, no matter how far away you are. Small things like that are the things that really count.
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Well, apperantly you huys love eashother and want to be together. the realtionship basically works by its self after that. IF you communicate and trust eachother than you shouldnt have many problems. and about the school and job thing. sometimes its better to be away from eachother like that. its like the saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder." If you are living with him its not liek you wont ever see him. when you guys are together it will make you love him so much more because you are not getting sick of eachother!
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