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Confusing time
13/f
I don't know what to do. I have a cut on my wrist but I didn't do it. My friends think I cut myself because I was crying last week and I was absent these last two days of school. The reason I was crying last week was because my aunt died and I was gone because my family went to San Diego. The reason I have a cut on my wrist was because my brother pushed me into this rose cactus thing. I have been covering it up because I don't want other people seeing it and thinking that I do cut myself and I still won't tell my friends. I told two of my friends and they believe me and it doesn't even look that much like a knife or something. I mean but it stinks because its in the perfect spot where it would be if someone did cut themselves. So one of my friends started telling everyone and now all my friends and looking at my wrist and I try to cover it up. I don't think I should have done that. I really don't feel like telling some of my friends but I will but most of them will not believe me. I need help with this because all my friends are asking me if I'm ok and its bugging me. Please help me and tell me what I should do about this. Thanks and also how to get them to believe me or at least make it a little more clear. Thanks.
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its just one lil cut. if people do cut its usually a few atleast. tell them to stfu you didnt do it your happy altho your aunt died and your family went to san diego why do they need proof. im not saying you are but if you were and you were covering it up means that you hated what you did and its usually one of the last times cuz you deal with the embaressment. i used to cut i told one person he told his brother his brother told his friend, i freaked out on his friend, he stopped it hehe. but everyone ended up knowing and saying i cut altho i stopped bc so many of my relativess were dying i didnt know the true meaning i just liked the pain bc it mellowed out what i was truely feelin. and in mexico i did land in cacti ha i jumped off a rock wall im stupid. but i say fall again let people notice you fell and can get a cut from falling and then theyll realize their mofakas and believe it. or put scar healing stuff on it. or just keep sayin you didnt do it millian times till they give up. hope i helped at all. i wrote to much oooopsies hehe
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you shouldnt worry about it. the same thing happened to me and everyone talked about me for about a week then nobody remembered. its o.k everyone gets an accidental cut every once in a while.
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well, if you say you didn't cut then you don't need other people to believe you. The cut will heal soon enough and obviously you will not do another cut. Forget about it and let them think what ever they want. And honestly the more you try to convince them, the more they will think you did it. That's just how it works. Act normal, you did't do anything wrong and there is nothing for you to hide. :)
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