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Sex before marrige...your opinion
What do you think about sex before being married. I don't know if it's wrong or right so I'm asking you. Please voice opinions and experience.
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i really don't think it matters as long as you love the person and you've been dating for a long time. like a year or so.
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personally hun, I really don't think there's nothing wrong with sex before marriage. Some may think otherwise, which is fine, =) we're all entitled to our own opinions and ways of doing things.
But when it comes to sex, in my experience i know I just couldn't be able to wait till marriage. To start off, I don't plan on getting married till my late 20's! I want to enjoy my life, and be with whomever i wish till that time comes. I'm not saying like sleeping around, but if i'm in a meaning relationship with someone and feel that I do in fact want to be intimate with them, why not?
Two consentual adults.... hey, nothing wrong with that =)
Hope this helps =)
VB
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Hi Darling,
My answer will be short but it will give you my opinion. Sex before marriage to me doesn't seem right. I think you should not have sex unless you are committed to someone.
Mandy
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Sex is something which is the outcome of your desires... If YOU ARE IN LOVE with someone and are sure about him/her and you know that he/she will be with you your entire life, then I dont think there is any problem in having sex before marriage. You cannot stay with a guy for years and years before marriage without it. It works like glue in a relationship. It eases out formal behaviour between couples. But you must realise that it is not the main thing in the relationship. On the other hand, I personally beleive that if you are not sure about a person...DONT DO IT....Stick to oral sex till then...!!!
Best of Luck...
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i think if you really love the person sex shouldnt wait until marrige.
i wish i would have stayed a virgin and saved it for my boyfriend now. but it didnt happen that way.
if you love the person then you have nothing to worry about.
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This is a bit of a complicated question.
Many religions teach that sex outside of marriage is wrong. There are reasons why teaching this makes sense, especially because most of these rules were created when there was no birth control, so sex outside of a marriage would lead to illegitimate children every time.
Personally speaking, I think its a choice everyone has to face with no true right or wrong answer. Some people think sex before marriage isnt for them until they have it. Some think that it IS for them until they have it.
I enjoy sex before marriage. I would not marry a woman I had not slept with, because I am a very sexual person and compatibility in that area is very, very important to me.
Some people are not as sexual, or sexual compatibility is not AS important.
The one thing I can say is, if you arent sure, wait. You can always change a no to a yes, you cannot go it the other way around.
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i think it's good to save sex for marriage because it's more special then, there's no issues with stds/unwanted pregnancies and it shows a lot of self control.
as for doing it before then, i guess it's fine if people really can't wait to get on it. it's not really viewed as "wrong" anymore but there are people who don't agree with it.
as for my opinion... i don't really care what people do, i just kinda worry/keep to myself. <3
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Hey, my name is Em231 what i think about sex before
marrige is it is very wrong to me but thats my opinnion Isay that because if you have sex before
marrige you might get pregnant and ruin your life .
Ya, there is condoms but they might break, or they might not work!
i hope i helped
Em231
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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It's right for some people, while others it's not. I don't think it's right to necessary lose your virginity within a one night stand or to a soon to be girlfriend/boyfriend. Nor is it right to give in so easy, like giving that person your virginity for their birthday present. It's just.. bad in my opinion. It should take time for someone to get close and comfortable. Not just throw yourself into something so intimate. I think it's right if you are old enough to take the consequences of your actions. You know what you're getting into. That you know what sex is. You know what some positions are and birth control methods. If you don't know any of that then it's just pointless to jump in so quick. You need some knowledge of what you are getting into. You should be financially and emotionally ready. Don't just do it because all your friends said they did. You want the moment to be special and not so full of pain and anixety. When you are ready it's not so much of pain, well coming from my experience. I waited nearly a year to form that trust. I've always been a sexual being. It's just the way I am but I never DONE anything sexual when I was 13. I was saving myself for the right guy. I realize he probably won't stay with me until marriage, but it's the experience and the chance that I took. While some people are waiting for marriage, it's great that they are strong enough to have that control over their body. Usually they have a great night. It's just bad that so many girls are having sex because it's turning into a trend. There's just so much pressure and they don't even think about how their relationship will turn out OR how their life will change if something unplanned happens. You should only have sex responsibly or wait until you are ready and in love.. like near or after marriage.
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I think that sex before marriage is fine as long as two people are comfortable with each other and trust each other. If two people are dating for a long time and they are ready for sex, it's fine to do it as long as they won't regret it in the future.
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As long as you're of age and are in a committed relationship, not to mention being ready physically and mentally, I don't see a problem with it, personally.
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i say go for it, i guess it would depend on your religion but i lost my virginity at 14 like it was a couple days before i turned 15 and i have no regrets at all, i think as long as you know and love the guy then if you want sex before marriage i say go for it.
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