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please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (:
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I am 14 years old and I lost my virginity a half a year ago.
I was not dating the guy and he was 18.
I have had sex with him about 6 times.
And I know now that he was using me.
But anyways.
The first time was a good expiercence.
The night before we were gonna but then no condoms left so the next nite we did.
Ok so we were in his car.
Actually it was his parents car because he drives an Auti TT. =]
But yeah we were in the backseat and clothes were off and right away it hurt but then I got on top of him and everything was ALOT better.
The second time I had sex with him I wasnt 'wet' so that hurt but since then sex has not hurt.
If you want sex to be pleasureable then make sure you are ready, comfy, attracted, wet. =]
Have a good time!
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i had a little to much to drink and some fat guy who had a lip ring took it..
it was painful and when i got home i bled.
i didnt have pleasurable sex until about a year after.
when i met my boyfriend.
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Ha, uhm well me and my boyfriend were dating for like maybe 4 months and he was over to help me with a big project so we took a break and we were making out and well one thing led to another i guess..i really wanted him to ask me if i would have sex with him but it never popped up so out of the blue i was just like
"do u have a condom?"
and well he said no and we took one from my brother! haha and uhm well thats when it happened
it really wasnt all that special as i hoped it would be because well he lasted for like 3 minutes haha but then it just got better from then on
it hurt for a couple seconds but i think what really took the pain away was that we foreplayed (fingering) before we had sex
hope it helped! sorrie i replied a little late!!!
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My first time didn't hurt at all. my boyfriend and I were planning to have sex in a couple of months.. and i heard so many horrible stories [i guess that's because they weren't ready] So for weeks we prepared myself for it... with fingering. So it didn't hurt at all. I was extremely surprised since I heard all these "it feels like he's splitting you into pieces" thing... It does feel a bit strange though since I've never had something that large inside of me. He was really gentle and slow to make sure I wouldn't feel any discomfort. It lasted about 15 minutes and it was.. fun haha. The second time and after that, no pain either. So make sure you are relaxed and comfortable.. because i've had a lot of sex and my muscles were tightened, and yea.. it doesn't feel that great.
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the first time it hurt im not going to lie, but i think it was because he was biggg since he was like 6 yrs older than me but yeah.
everyones different also it depends how tight you are. dont worry though its not like your going to die from it. it took like around the third time is when i noticed it was worth it ; ) hehe.
hope i helped = )
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It is not to pleasureable because one, it is a foreign experience. It feels weird the first time. Plus, most people are so nervous, they are thinking, "is this how you're supposed to do it?", "Is this how it's supposed to feel?", "What do i do now?" etc. Mine went basically the same way. Not very pleasureable, though it wasn't completely boring. It's not terrible, it's just not great. It gets better with more experience.
But, If I were to give you any advice that I would really like you to listen to, is to BE CAREFUL. Most people just worry about pregnancy and STDS (though they are important, they are easily preventable with CORRECT USE f condoms and birth control), also watch out for the little things. I have gotten two urinary tract infections from having sex. Both painful and scary, but the first one was worse. I would be open to tell you about it, just shoot me a message with an email or AIM screen name and I would be happy to talk to you about things further. :)
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:) That should give you plenty of answers, along with the ones you'll get from this.
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I had no pain at all. It was alright. Can't really say pleasurable because it was for around.. 2 minutes at the most. but then did it more after that and it was fine.
Everyone's will be different, by the way.
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