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Too young for a boyfriend?
I'm 13. I have a MAJOR crush. But, according to my friends, he's not just a crush anymore. Well, I really like him. When I got ahold of his email, we started chatting online all the time. Finally some of my friends dilivered his message. He liked me too. One day while we were chatting he asked me out to the movies. I couldn't believe that I wasn't able to go. Anyways, now, according to my friends, he's my officail boyfriend. That the part I'm not so sure about. I mean, a boyfreind when you're only 13? I feel too young for that... Is he my officail boyfriend or am I really too young for that kind of thing?
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well i kinda think you are a lil too young...at your age you should be out with your friends partying and having a good time not havin to think about some guy all day wait till YOU feel you are mature enough and if your not ready tell him! what is he gonna do beat you up?
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I don't think he's your official boyfriend until he says, "Will you be my girlfriend" but I deffinately don't think you are too young to have a boyfriend. I think you are too young for all the making out, groping, and doing slutty things that other girls your age make the mistake of. But if you hold hands, give hugs, and just like kiss ( little pecks ) that is different.
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you can have an official boyfriend whenever you're ready for one. but to me, an official boyfriend isnt when some guy asks you out on a date. you have to go on many dates and its something you both have to commit too. saying he's your bf before going on a date is like him telling you he loves you a week after a date or something. its too soon and doesnt really count. however, that is just my thinking. a bf to you may mean you guys are together he wont date anyone else except you.
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You can really have an official boyfriend whenever. And, your not too young. I mean if he asks you to be his girlfriend..then he's your official boyfriend. Don't worry about being young..it just prepares you for later relationships.
Good luck :)
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I think having a boyfriend at any age depends on maturity. If you feel you are emotionally mature enough to handle the baggage that comes with having a boyfriend, then you should. If you really like this guy and feel you aren't quite ready for the "boyfriend" title, then you should explain to him how you feel. If you decide the age of 13 is too young to have a boyfriend let him know you still want to be friends and you guys can hang out and still go to the movies together. Friends do stuff like that all the time.
Ask yourself one question, "Do I think i'm too young for a boyfriend?" Just follow your heart and your gut feeling, they're always right!
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no you're not too young at all. i remember when i was 13. that's when i started talking to boys and stuff. it's a perfect age
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In my opinion having a boyfriend that young is quite silly. Because you are too young and not mature enough. Being in a relationship there is more to just lusting at each other, its something that comes deep within the heart, really connecting - feelings. You cant call it dating because most kids arent even allowed to go out on a normal "date" until they are sixteen. I mean going to the movies isnt really a date, at that age. And at 13, dating in school, is basicly seeing each other in classes or down the hall you know?
He isnt your "offical" boyfriend, unless you both have talked about it. Your friends cant declare anything, its something between him and you! So if you havent spoken to each other about it, your most likely not.
Hope I helped sweetheart!
<3
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honestly it depends on you. If yoat you fell that you are not ready to have a boyfriend than ask if you can just be friends. Or you can have him as a boyfriend but dont take things to any serious matters.
good luck,
jaime
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Hi, to be honest Im neutral about this one. Its good that you are mixing with people especially boys and experiencing a relationship through puberty, but at the same time I think it's quite young to be having a serious relationship. But yeah having a boyfriend as long as its nothing too serious, I can't see anything wrong in that. Daniel.
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I think you havin a boyfriend @ 13 is not young... I think what you should do I'd really talk to him and next time you do I think you should make a move like wanna come to my house and watch a movie but if your allowed I don't now how your parents are... but yiur definietly not to young to get a boyfriend... but if you wanna wait that fine there's never an exact age when you gotta start datin... hope I helped =)
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