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lack of bfs
okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?
thanks in advance
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im 15 and never had a boyfriend not even like a random one. you just cant stress about it ALOT of girls our age havent had any boyfriends and its a mystery why. dont go looking for them theyll come to you just be yourself and if you like someone flirt! which really isnt hard just do what feels right. your still young and shouldnt be in a hurry for a boyfriend. have you seen any of the things your friends may have been through w/ their boyfriends if theyve had any? its not always pretty. im sure youve heard that having a boyfriend isnt all thats its cracked up to be and you still want to know for yourself what its like. im that way anyways. you may just come off as a friend first but alot of guys have crushes on their friends. just be open have fun and live it up while you can, you cant stress about things like that you just have to go w/ the flow. good luck!
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you have to stop looking the always come when you least except it so just be patient.
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The reason they say youlke a sister is because that is exactly what you are. Because you are so popular, it is going to be to where you meet someone on the streets that doesn't know you. Don't look for it let it find you. Eventually it will come and it will mean more to you because you weren't so anxious. Let that soak in over night and see how you feel in the morning
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You might not like this anwser, but keep doing what your're doing! Don't just go trying to get a boyfriend (because there is always someone who would be your boyfriend...but that doesn't mean you should date him!) It should just be a natural occurance. Keep being friends with guys and being yourself, you won't be withought a boyfriend forever!
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i am sure that it is not that your not a good person to go out with but you have not had a good person to try to go out with i mean i have went out with two girls that i was there first b/f and it just takes time ...the way it sounds is that your a great looking girl and fun to be with but with the line that your like a little sister is all because your to nice and dont get into fights that ofen i mean i got the line were to good of friends many off times but if you get that take advantage of that and just be friends anyway friends you have forever a b/f you may not ...GOOD LUCK!
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Just because you're 15 and never had a bf before does not make you the dullest person in the world. Some people have very strict parents, like mine, and won't allow their kids to date until they go to college, like mine. Mr. Right will come around sometime and when he does, you'll be there. Don't scavenge for them if you want to go out with someone with the same interests as you or something, or you may never find him.
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well your still young, your not going to find the love of your life at age 15, but i know how you feel.. so flirt more, and make it known you dont want to be a sister type, guys can be clueless at times, good luck hun.
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Its totally normal to not have a boyfriend at 15. I have tons of 15 and 16 year old friends who have never had a boyfriend. There hsouldn't be a need to rush out and get one unless you feel its right. You'll know when the right one comes around. Just listen to your heart and be yourself. I'm sure that any guy would be lucky to have you.
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Just be yourself. You can't rush having a boyfriend. And if you go out with just any guys just to have a boyfriend that not fair to either of you. If you really do want a boyfriend be yourself so he can fall in love with you and nothing else or nothing fake. Good Luck!
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